Tuesday, 3 November 2026

FOLLOWER OR DISCIPLE

20261104 FOLLOWER OR DISCIPLE

 

04 November 2026, Wednesday, 31st Week in Ordinary Time

First reading

Philippians 2:12-18

Work for your salvation, for God is working in you

My dear friends, continue to do as I tell you, as you always have; not only as you did when I was there with you, but even more now that I am no longer there; and work for your salvation ‘in fear and trembling.’ It is God, for his own loving purpose, who puts both the will and the action into you. Do all that has to be done without complaining or arguing and then you will be innocent and genuine, perfect children of God among a deceitful and underhand brood, and you will shine in the world like bright stars because you are offering it the word of life. This would give me something to be proud of for the Day of Christ, and would mean that I had not run in the race and exhausted myself for nothing. And then, if my blood has to be shed as part of your own sacrifice and offering – which is your faith – I shall still be happy and rejoice with all of you, and you must be just as happy and rejoice with me.


How to listen


Responsorial Psalm

Psalm 26(27):1,4,13-14

The Lord is my light and my help.

The Lord is my light and my help;

  whom shall I fear?

The Lord is the stronghold of my life;

  before whom shall I shrink?

The Lord is my light and my help.

There is one thing I ask of the Lord,

  for this I long,

to live in the house of the Lord,

  all the days of my life,

to savour the sweetness of the Lord,

  to behold his temple.

The Lord is my light and my help.

I am sure I shall see the Lord’s goodness

  in the land of the living.

Hope in him, hold firm and take heart.

  Hope in the Lord!

The Lord is my light and my help.


Gospel Acclamation

Ps118:88

Alleluia, alleluia!

Because of your love give me life,

and I will do your will.

Alleluia!


Gospel

Luke 14:25-33

Anyone who does not carry his cross and follow me cannot be my disciple

Great crowds accompanied Jesus on his way and he turned and spoke to them. ‘If any man comes to me without hating his father, mother, wife, children, brothers, sisters, yes and his own life too, he cannot be my disciple. Anyone who does not carry his cross and come after me cannot be my disciple.

  ‘And indeed, which of you here, intending to build a tower, would not first sit down and work out the cost to see if he had enough to complete it? Otherwise, if he laid the foundation and then found himself unable to finish the work, the onlookers would all start making fun of him and saying, “Here is a man who started to build and was unable to finish.” Or again, what king marching to war against another king would not first sit down and consider whether with ten thousand men he could stand up to the other who advanced against him with twenty thousand? If not, then while the other king was still a long way off, he would send envoys to sue for peace. So in the same way, none of you can be my disciple unless he gives up all his possessions.’

 

FOLLOWER OR DISCIPLE


SCRIPTURE READINGS: [PHILIPPIANS 2:12-18; LUKE 14:25-33]

In the Gospel, St. Luke gives us the setting for Jesus’ saying about the cost of discipleship: “Great crowds accompanied Jesus on his way, and he turned and spoke to them.” Earlier on, Jesus had just told them the Parable of the Great Banquet, where all are welcome to the meal except those who reject the invitation. The master said, “‘Go out at once into the streets and lanes of the town and bring in the poor, the crippled, the blind, and the lame.’ And the slave said, ‘Sir, what you ordered has been done, and there is still room.’ Then the master said to the slave, ‘Go out into the roads and lanes, and compel people to come in, so that my house may be filled.'” (Lk 14:21-23)

The truth is that many belong to the crowds following Jesus on His way. They are happy to be followers of Christ and to bear the name of Christian. They are proud to belong to the Roman Catholic Church, but they do not live out the obligations that Christian discipleship demands. There is a great difference between being a follower of our Lord and being a disciple. A follower is simply a fan of our Lord; a disciple is one who lives the life of Christ.

Consequently, the Lord was upfront with His followers who desired to be His disciples. To be a disciple of Jesus is to put Him before all others: “If any man comes to me without hating his father, mother, wife, children, brothers, sisters, yes and his own life too, he cannot be my disciple.” He is not asking us to hate our loved ones or our own lives; rather, it is a question of priority in our relationships. Jesus must be first in our lives and in all that we say and do. If we love our loved ones more than Him, we will lack focus in loving them the way God loves us–we will manipulate and use them to fill our own inner lacks and insecurities. Loving Jesus above all persons and all things keeps us loyal to Him, especially in times of persecution, suffering, and pain. Indeed, in the early Church–and even today–we are often forced to choose between our love for Jesus and our love for others. This becomes especially difficult when loved ones and friends demand that we conform to their religious or secular values. So the question is: where and in whom do we place our faith?

Secondly, being a disciple of our Lord means placing Him and His will above any worldly possession. The Lord said, “None of you can be my disciples unless he gives up all his possessions.” Giving up our possessions does not mean we cannot own anything; rather, it means we are willing to use our wealth and resources not for selfish gain, but for the service of our Lord and the spread of the Gospel. If the Lord and His Gospel are the most important things in our lives, we will naturally use whatever He has given us for His greater glory. In truth, though many of us are successful today, we often care for ourselves and our loved ones first–prioritising our luxuries and holidays–and only if we have something left over do we consider contributing to the Church or humanitarian needs. What we give is not the “widow’s mite,” but merely out of our abundance. Because we do not place Jesus at the centre of our lives to live out the Gospel values, we react like the rich man in the Gospel who “was shocked and went away grieving, for he had many possessions” after hearing the Lord say, “You lack one thing; go, sell what you own, and give the money to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; then come, follow me.” (Mk 10:21-22)

Thirdly, to be a disciple of Jesus means learning from Him how to be faithful to the will of God. We are told that Jesus is on His way to Jerusalem–the place of His glory through His passion, death, and resurrection. But this is the way of the Cross: the way of suffering, humiliation, and self-emptying. Are we ready to follow Jesus on His way by taking up our cross and walking after Him as He demands? “If any want to become my followers, let them deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me. For those who want to save their life will lose it, and those who lose their life for my sake will save it.” (Lk 9:23-24) Again, Jesus reiterates: “Anyone who does not carry his cross and come after me cannot be my disciple.” Unless we experience the rejection, humiliation, and failures He went through, we will not withstand the trials of life and ministry. Most of us claim to love Jesus, yet in the face of trials, we turn our backs on Him. Discipleship requires allegiance to our Lord not just in good times, but in bad times.

Consequently, we must count the cost of discipleship. Many desire to follow Jesus without knowing what discipleship truly entails. Most Christians think that following Jesus means being blessed with continuous worldly comforts, or that serving in the Church brings only joy, happiness, and appreciation. They do not realise that we are sent out as sheep among wolves. Not only does the world reject us, but even the Christian community is imperfect because we are all sinners struggling with various weaknesses and vices. If we cannot tolerate and embrace the trials of serving alongside one another–with all the disagreements, hurtful remarks, and lack of understanding or appreciation–we do not yet understand what discipleship entails. It is a slow, daily process of dying to self.

To help us be more intentional in following Him, Jesus provides two parables illustrating how to count the cost. The first example concerns building a tower. In construction, the architect draws the plans with the engineer, and the quantity surveyor calculates the cost of materials, permits, and structural requirements. Hence, the Lord asks, “Which of you here, intending to build a tower, would not first sit down and work out the cost to see if he had enough to complete it? Otherwise, if he laid the foundation and then found himself unable to finish the work, the onlookers would all start making fun of him and saying, ‘Here is a man who started to build and was unable to finish.'” Indeed, we often see building projects abandoned because of rising material costs or insufficient funds. Likewise, we must carefully weigh what it entails to be a faithful Catholic; otherwise, we risk losing our faith, damaging the faith of others, losing our credibility, and becoming counter-witnesses to our Lord.

The second example concerns a king whose forces are outnumbered and must consider making peace rather than causing further destruction. The Lord asks, “What king marching to war against another king would not first sit down and consider whether with ten thousand men he could stand up to the other who advanced against him with twenty thousand? If not, then while the other king was still a long way off, he would send envoys to sue for peace.” Only a foolish king takes on a stronger opponent without a plan. Our best provision to sustain our discipleship is to rely on Jesus, who is stronger than any earthly power or spiritual enemy. He is the one who wins our battles for us, and there are far greater benefits to being aligned with the Lord than with the world.

Yet in all of this, while we must, as St. Paul says, “work out your salvation in fear and trembling,” we must never forget that we cannot fulfil what the Lord asks by our strength alone. On the contrary, St. Paul reminds us: “It is God, for his own loving purpose, who puts both the will and the action into you.” Discipleship is a grace and a gift, but it requires our active cooperation. Without His grace, we can do nothing. We do our best and allow God’s grace to work within us. In this way, as St. Paul says, “Do all that has to be done without complaining or arguing and then you will be innocent and genuine, perfect children of God among a deceitful and underhand brood, and you will shine in the world like bright stars because you are offering it the word of life.” As we radiate the love of Christ, we become more like Him, rendering the obedience of faith by allowing our faith to express itself in active love and charity.

Best Practices for Using the Daily Scripture Reflections

  • Encounter God through the spirit of prayer and the scripture by reflecting and praying the Word of God daily. The purpose is to bring you to prayer and to a deeper union with the Lord on the level of the heart.
  • Daily reflections when archived will lead many to accumulate all the reflections of the week and pray in one sitting. This will compromise your capacity to enter deeply into the Word of God, as the tendency is to read for knowledge rather than a prayerful reading of the Word for the purpose of developing a personal and affective relationship with the Lord.
  • It is more important to pray deeply, not read widely. The current reflections of the day would be more than sufficient for anyone who wants to pray deeply and be led into an intimacy with the Lord.

Note: You may share this reflection with someone. However, please note that reflections are not archived online nor will they be available via email request.


Written by His Eminence, Cardinal William SC Goh, Roman Catholic Archbishop of Singapore © All Rights Reserved.

 

Monday, 2 November 2026

DISCERNING HOW TO RESPOND TO GOD’S OVERTURE OF LOVE

20261103 DISCERNING HOW TO RESPOND TO GOD’S OVERTURE OF LOVE

 

03 November 2026, Tuesday, 31st Week in Ordinary Time

First reading

Philippians 2:5-11

Christ humbled himself but God raised him high

In your minds you must be the same as Christ Jesus:

His state was divine,

yet he did not cling

to his equality with God

but emptied himself

to assume the condition of a slave,

and became as men are;

and being as all men are,

he was humbler yet,

even to accepting death,

death on a cross.

But God raised him high

and gave him the name

which is above all other names

so that all beings in the heavens,

on earth and in the underworld,

should bend the knee at the name of Jesus

and that every tongue should acclaim

Jesus Christ as Lord,

to the glory of God the Father.


How to listen


Responsorial Psalm

Psalm 21(22):26-32

You are my praise, O Lord, in the great assembly.

My vows I will pay before those who fear the Lord.

  The poor shall eat and shall have their fill.

They shall praise the Lord, those who seek him.

  May their hearts live for ever and ever!

You are my praise, O Lord, in the great assembly.

All the earth shall remember and return to the Lord,

  all families of the nations worship before him;

  for the kingdom is the Lord’s, he is ruler of the nations.

They shall worship him, all the mighty of the earth.

You are my praise, O Lord, in the great assembly.

And my soul shall live for him, my children serve him.

  They shall tell of the Lord to generations yet to come,

declare his faithfulness to peoples yet unborn:

  ‘These things the Lord has done.’

You are my praise, O Lord, in the great assembly.


Gospel Acclamation

cf.Ep1:17,18

Alleluia, alleluia!

May the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ

enlighten the eyes of our mind,

so that we can see what hope his call holds for us.

Alleluia!


Gospel

Luke 14:15-24

'Not one of those who were invited shall have a taste of my banquet'

One of those gathered round the table said to Jesus, ‘Happy the man who will be at the feast in the kingdom of God!’ But he said to him, ‘There was a man who gave a great banquet, and he invited a large number of people. When the time for the banquet came, he sent his servant to say to those who had been invited, “Come along: everything is ready now.” But all alike started to make excuses. The first said, “I have bought a piece of land and must go and see it. Please accept my apologies.” Another said, “I have bought five yoke of oxen and am on my way to try them out. Please accept my apologies.” Yet another said, “I have just got married and so am unable to come.”

  ‘The servant returned and reported this to his master. Then the householder, in a rage, said to his servant, “Go out quickly into the streets and alleys of the town and bring in here the poor, the crippled, the blind and the lame.” “Sir” said the servant “your orders have been carried out and there is still room.” Then the master said to his servant, “Go to the open roads and the hedgerows and force people to come in to make sure my house is full; because, I tell you, not one of those who were invited shall have a taste of my banquet.”’

 

DISCERNING HOW TO RESPOND TO GOD’S OVERTURE OF LOVE


SCRIPTURE READINGS: [PHILIPPIANS 2:5-11; LUKE 14:15-24]

Heaven in the Scriptures is often depicted as a wedding celebration. This is because heaven is a state of life-giving happiness where we are in fellowship with one another through our union with Christ and the Father in the Holy Spirit. The good news is that we are all invited to this wedding banquet; no one is excluded. It is not meant only for the Jews, the Chosen People of God. Indeed, the final book of the Bible concludes with this universal invitation: “The Spirit and the bride say, ‘Come.’ And let everyone who hears say, ‘Come.’ And let everyone who is thirsty come. Let anyone who wishes take the water of life as a gift.” (Rev 22:17)

This invitation is extended to everyone in different ways. God invites us not only through the Church and clergy, but through any Christian whose good example and words attract others to the Lord. He also reaches out through the ups and downs of life. When we are happy and successful, do we pause to thank Him for the blessings we have received? When we are down and out, the Lord invites us to turn to Him for consolation, strength, encouragement, and inspiration.

Unfortunately, today’s parable warns us of the danger of ignoring the graces the Lord has given us. We have all been offered many opportunities to come to Christ–whether through learning about Him in the RCIA, going on a retreat, or simply attending Mass. Yet, like the three men in the Gospel today, we often make light of these invitations. We place our own interests before God’s, allowing the mundane affairs of life to distract us from the more important matters of faith and God.

For some of us, studies, career, or business take precedence over God’s invitation. We find excuses to skip Sunday Mass and justify why we cannot fulfil our obligations, make time for personal prayer, or attend a retreat. In short, we let other priorities crowd out God and faith. This was the first man in the parable who said to the king’s messenger: “I have bought a piece of land and must go and see it. Please accept my apologies.”

Another said: “I have bought five yoke of oxen and am on my way to try them out. Please accept my apologies.” This second man represents those who allow worldly things–hobbies, entertainment, television, and pursuits–to crowd out God. We become so engrossed in activities that we are too tired to pray or read Scripture. When our minds are consumed by the pleasures and temptations of the world, our hearts have no place for God.

Yet another said: “I have just got married and so am unable to come.” This person seems to have a valid reason, placing his responsibility as a husband and family man first. Many people focus entirely on their loved ones at home. However, our true capacity to love and care for our families comes when we help them love and serve God. Only God can unite our families in love and truth and form us in right values. Without Him, we risk becoming inward-looking, assuming our families can thrive in isolation without being in right relationship with others and the wider community. When we invite God into our homes and family life, we grow in charity and faith–especially during times of crisis. The best way to serve God is to invite Him into our lives, our families, our work, our friendships, and everything we do. When God is at the centre, we live a focused, balanced life of love and service.

This is why we must discern how God is calling us into His kingdom. We need to free our minds from worldly encumbrances. Discernment requires the freedom of the Spirit–being receptive to God’s will and ready to empty ourselves so He can fill us with His love. As St. Paul tells us in the second reading: “In your minds you must be the same as Christ Jesus: His state was divine, yet he did not cling to his equality with God but emptied himself to assume the condition of a slave, and became as men are; and being as all men are, he was humbler yet, even to accepting death, death on a cross.” (Phil 2:5-8) Jesus showed us how to accept the Father’s will by emptying Himself and aligning His human will with the divine will in the Garden of Gethsemane. We, too, must empty ourselves of self-will, holding nothing back from His holy will. This was the response of the apostles when the Lord called them–whether Matthew the tax collector, or Andrew, Peter, James, and John the fishermen, they immediately left everything to follow Him.

Putting on the mind of Christ, as St. Paul exhorts, is the way we accept His invitation. We must be ready to surrender our lives to Him without reserve so He can direct us and use us mightily for the spread of the Gospel. When Jesus is at the centre of our lives, nothing is too difficult. But unless we are deeply in love with Him and believe He is our Lord and Saviour, it will be hard to commit our lives entirely to Him. This is why setting aside time for prayer and reflection is essential; in quiet prayer, we hear His voice and are drawn into His love and presence.

Yet, our Lord also issues a warning: “Go to the open roads and the hedgerows and force people to come in to make sure my house is full, because I tell you, not one of those who were invited shall have a taste of my banquet.” (Lk 14:23-24) Although God freely invites everyone–sinners, the broken, and the outcast–to His Kingdom, there is a real danger of either rejecting the invitation or accepting it without preparing our hearts. God welcomes sinners, but receiving His grace (the wedding garment) means we must actually put it on out of respect and gratitude for our Host. We must never treat God’s grace as “cheap grace”–taking His unmerited favour for granted while remaining indifferent in how we live or treat fellow guests. The Church welcomes all, but that is not a license to continue living a selfish, individualistic life instead of a Gospel-cantered one. Accepting the invitation means wearing the wedding garment of love and union with our Lord. Grace is freely given, but it carries great responsibility.

Dietrich Bonhoeffer famously contrasted “cheap grace” with “costly grace.” He wrote: “Cheap grace is the grace we bestow on ourselves… the preaching of forgiveness without requiring repentance; grace without discipleship, grace without the cross, grace without Jesus Christ, living and incarnate.” Costly grace, by contrast, calls us to follow Jesus Christ, carry our cross, and sacrifice for Him. As Jesus made clear: “If any want to become my followers, let them deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me. For those who want to save their life will lose it, and those who lose their life for my sake will find it.” (Mt 16:24-25) It demands that we be ready to lay down our lives in imitation of our Lord for the salvation of all by becoming servants to all: “Whoever wishes to be great among you must be your servant, and whoever wishes to be first among you must be your slave; just as the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life a ransom for many.” (Mt 20:26-28) 

St. Peter likewise urges us: “Therefore, brothers and sisters, be all the more eager to confirm your call and election, for if you do this, you will never stumble. For in this way, entry into the eternal kingdom of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ will be richly provided for you.” (2 Pt 1:10-11) Together with the Psalmist, we pray: “All the earth shall remember and return to the Lord, all families of the nations worship before him; for the kingdom is the Lord’s; he is ruler of the nations. They shall worship him, all the mighty of the earth.” (Ps 22:27-29)

Best Practices for Using the Daily Scripture Reflections

  • Encounter God through the spirit of prayer and the scripture by reflecting and praying the Word of God daily. The purpose is to bring you to prayer and to a deeper union with the Lord on the level of the heart.
  • Daily reflections when archived will lead many to accumulate all the reflections of the week and pray in one sitting. This will compromise your capacity to enter deeply into the Word of God, as the tendency is to read for knowledge rather than a prayerful reading of the Word for the purpose of developing a personal and affective relationship with the Lord.
  • It is more important to pray deeply, not read widely. The current reflections of the day would be more than sufficient for anyone who wants to pray deeply and be led into an intimacy with the Lord.

Note: You may share this reflection with someone. However, please note that reflections are not archived online nor will they be available via email request.


Written by His Eminence, Cardinal William SC Goh, Roman Catholic Archbishop of Singapore © All Rights Reserved.