20260812 DEALING WITH THE UNREPENTANT
12 August 2026, Wednesday, 19th Week in Ordinary Time
First reading |
Ezekiel 9:1-7,10:18-22 |
The cross marks the foreheads of all who are pure
As I, Ezekiel, listened, God shouted, ‘Come here, you scourges of the city, and bring your weapons of destruction.’ Immediately six men advanced from the upper north gate, each holding a deadly weapon. In the middle of them was a man in white, with a scribe’s ink horn in his belt. They came in and halted in front of the bronze altar. The glory of the God of Israel rose off the cherubs where it had been and went up to the threshold of the Temple. He called the man in white with a scribe’s ink horn in his belt and said, ‘Go all through the city, all through Jerusalem, and mark a cross on the foreheads of all who deplore and disapprove of all the filth practised in it.’ I heard him say to the others, ‘Follow him through the city, and strike. Show neither pity nor mercy; old men, young men, virgins, children, women, kill and exterminate them all. But do not touch anyone with a cross on his forehead. Begin at my sanctuary.’ So they began with the old men in front of the Temple. He said to them, ‘Defile the Temple; fill the courts with corpses, and go.’ They went out and hacked their way through the city.
The glory of the Lord came out from the Temple threshold and paused over the cherubs. The cherubs spread their wings and rose from the ground to leave, and as I watched the wheels rose with them. They paused at the entrance to the east gate of the Temple of the Lord, and the glory of the God of Israel hovered over them. This was the creature that I had seen supporting the God of Israel beside the river Chebar, and I was now certain that these were cherubs. Each had four faces and four wings and what seemed to be human hands under their wings. Their faces were just as I had seen them beside the river Chebar. Each moved straight forward.
Responsorial Psalm |
Psalm 112(113):1-6 |
Above the heavens is the glory of the Lord.
or
Alleluia!
Praise, O servants of the Lord,
praise the name of the Lord!
May the name of the Lord be blessed
both now and for evermore!
Above the heavens is the glory of the Lord.
or
Alleluia!
From the rising of the sun to its setting
praised be the name of the Lord!
High above all nations is the Lord,
above the heavens his glory.
Above the heavens is the glory of the Lord.
or
Alleluia!
Who is like the Lord, our God,
who has risen on high to his throne
yet stoops from the heights to look down,
to look down upon heaven and earth?
Above the heavens is the glory of the Lord.
or
Alleluia!
Gospel Acclamation | Ps110:7,8 |
Alleluia, alleluia!
Your precepts, O Lord, are all of them sure;
they stand firm for ever and ever.
Alleluia!
Gospel |
Matthew 18:15-20 |
If your brother listens to you, you have won back your brother
Jesus said to his disciples: ‘If your brother does something wrong, go and have it out with him alone, between your two selves. If he listens to you, you have won back your brother. If he does not listen, take one or two others along with you: the evidence of two or three witnesses is required to sustain any charge. But if he refuses to listen to these, report it to the community; and if he refuses to listen to the community, treat him like a pagan or a tax collector.
‘I tell you solemnly, whatever you bind on earth shall be considered bound in heaven; whatever you loose on earth shall be considered loosed in heaven.
‘I tell you solemnly once again, if two of you on earth agree to ask anything at all, it will be granted to you by my Father in heaven. For where two or three meet in my name, I shall be there with them.’
12 August 2026, Wednesday, 19th Week in Ordinary Time
DEALING WITH THE UNREPENTANT
SCRIPTURE READINGS: [EZEKIEL 9:1-7, 10:18-22; MATTHEW 18:15-20]
In spite of the infidelity of Israel to the Lord and the exile of the people of Judah to Babylon, Ezekiel’s message is meant to offer hope to those in exile. They should not despair, because God will purify the city of Jerusalem. God will send His angels to punish those who disobey Him. Only those marked with the cross on their forehead, presumably the Hebrew letter taw (t)–meaning “not this one”–will be saved, drawing a clear parallel to the blood placed on the doorposts of the Hebrews during the Exodus from Egypt. Finally, God departs from the Temple, as the prophet observes: “The glory of the Lord came out from the Temple threshold and paused over the cherubs. The cherubs spread their wings and rose from the ground to leave, and as I watched, the wheels rose with them.” However, the departure of God’s glory from Jerusalem is only temporary; He will return when the people of Israel repent.
This same call to repentance remains deeply relevant to the Christian community, who have supposedly received Christ. Saint Matthew wrote specifically for his own Christian community. Even though Christ is present in the Christian community and in every Christian family, human beings–being ignorant, weak in virtue, coming from diverse backgrounds, and holding different perspectives–will inevitably experience disagreements and misunderstandings. While we cannot be entirely sure where Matthew derived this process of reconciliation, a similar approach is also found in the Community Rule of the Dead Sea Scrolls at Qumran.
What must be underscored about this process of addressing an unrepentant sinner is that Christ is always present in His community.Therefore, the drive toward reconciliation is rooted in the mandate that the Christian community must always reflect the divine presence of the Lord. This is precisely why the entire process culminates in prayer: “I tell you solemnly once again, if two of you on earth agree to ask anything at all, it will be granted to you by my Father in heaven. For where two or three meet in my name, I shall be there with them.” The process described by Matthew should not be viewed as a mere juridical process, but as an act carried out in a prayerful spirit under the Lordship of Christ. For this reason, we must tirelessly strive to reconcile errant members with the community. Even if a situation ends without immediate reconciliation, we must never give up hope, because immediately following today’s passage on reproving a sinner, Jesus instructs Peter that we must always forgive: “Not seven times, but, I tell you, seventy-seven times” (Mt 18:22).
The first stage in reconciling a brother or sister who has done wrong is to speak with them privately. Jesus instructs His disciples: “If your brother does something wrong, go and have it out with him alone, between your two selves. If he listens to you, you have won back your brother.” When we hold grievances or feel wronged, it is vital to express our feelings with charity, seeking clarification rather than hurling accusations. When we bottle up these matters, anger and resentment fester, poisoning our minds and wounding our hearts so deeply that we can no longer listen to or empathise with the other person.
This approach calls for a personal dialogue–not emails or letters, which often cause further misunderstanding. Worst of all is escalating a complaint to authority without first speaking directly to the person involved. Bypassing personal dialogue to report someone to leadership damages trust, breeds anger, and virtually seals off any chance of genuine reconciliation. Direct dialogue allows both parties to clarify the situation while offering the errant member a path to repentance without public embarrassment. Public admonition should never occur except under the most exceptional and severe circumstances.
If this initial attempt at correction is rejected or disputed and reconciliation fails, we must bring one or two wise individuals to help mediate. At this stage, it is necessary to establish facts so that the charge is sustained and supported. Requiring two witnesses reflects standard biblical and judicial procedure (cf. 2 Cor 13:1-2; 1 Tim 5:19ff). However, gathering evidence is not meant to condemn or prove someone wrong out of spite; rather, it serves the process of reconciliation, as many conflicts stem simply from missing facts or misunderstandings. As the Lord says: “If he listens to you, you have won back your brother. If he does not listen, take one or two others along with you: the evidence of two or three witnesses is required to sustain any charge.”
If mediation also fails, the Christian community must ultimately dissociate itself from the member who refuses to repent. This drastic measure impresses upon both the sinner and outsiders that one cannot presume salvation while persisting in unrepentant sin. Excommunication is enacted to convey the gravity of the offence. The Lord counsels that the community, as the Body of Christ, must act to protect itself lest the sin cause greater scandal and loss of faith. Indeed, self-professed Christians who persist in evil and falsehood bring shame upon the Body of Christ unless the Church publicly repudiates their actions (cf. 1 Cor 5:5; 1 Tim 1:20; Tit 3:10-11).
This authority is entrusted to the Christian community to act in the name of Christ: “If he refuses to listen to these, report it to the community; and if he refuses to listen to the community, treat him like a pagan or a tax collector. I tell you solemnly, whatever you bind on earth shall be considered bound in heaven; whatever you loose on earth shall be considered loosed in heaven.” Yet, we must never view excommunication as a permanent or definitive rejection, but rather as a medicine meant to awaken the person to repentance. Giving up on an errant member is never an option. Excommunication is strictly a last resort when all else fails, carried out in the constant hope that the individual will eventually come to their senses and seek restoration.
Before resorting to such a radical step, we must pray rather than act rashly. We must discern God’s will for the sinner and for the greater good of the Church. Hence, we are called to pray in unity: “I tell you solemnly once again, if two of you on earth agree to ask anything at all, it will be granted to you by my Father in heaven. For where two or three meet in my name, I shall be there with them.” We must seek the Lord’s will and never take excommunication lightly, for our goal is to save every soul–especially those who have strayed from the truth. A lack of unity in decision-making indicates that the leadership is not yet ready to act and must wait until a consensus emerges.
Legalism cannot solve problems. It is in Christian prayer and Christian love that reconciliation can take place. When true love, care, and concern are present, our hearts and minds open to receive correction. Love alone can win over our adversaries, and nothing is more powerful in love than intercessory prayer. True prayer seeks the well-being of the other rather than selfish ends; when we pray for one another, our hearts are unlocked to both the Lord and our neighbour.
Conversely, those harbouring vindictiveness should not participate in this decision-making process, as human anger does not come from the Lord. As Saint James advises: “You must understand this, my beloved: let everyone be quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to anger; for your anger does not produce God’s righteousness. Therefore rid yourselves of all sordidness and rank growth of wickedness, and welcome with meekness the implanted word that has the power to save your souls” (Jas 1:19-21).
We must never forget that we act in the name of our Lord; therefore, everything we do must align with Him. In every decision, we must remain conscious of Christ’s presence among us, recognising that our actions either bear witness or counter-witness to His Gospel. In the final analysis, our duty is to keep praying, hoping, and striving for reconciliation and forgiveness.
Best Practices for Using the Daily Scripture Reflections
- Encounter God through the spirit of prayer and the scripture by reflecting and praying the Word of God daily. The purpose is to bring you to prayer and to a deeper union with the Lord on the level of the heart.
- Daily reflections when archived will lead many to accumulate all the reflections of the week and pray in one sitting. This will compromise your capacity to enter deeply into the Word of God, as the tendency is to read for knowledge rather than a prayerful reading of the Word for the purpose of developing a personal and affective relationship with the Lord.
- It is more important to pray deeply, not read widely. The current reflections of the day would be more than sufficient for anyone who wants to pray deeply and be led into an intimacy with the Lord.
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