Friday, 22 May 2026

THE BELOVED DISCIPLE

20260523 THE BELOVED DISCIPLE

 

23 May 2026, Saturday, 7th Week of Easter

First reading

Acts 28:16-20,30-31

In Rome, Paul proclaimed the kingdom of God without hindrance from anyone

On our arrival in Rome Paul was allowed to stay in lodgings of his own with the soldier who guarded him.

  After three days he called together the leading Jews. When they had assembled, he said to them, ‘Brothers, although I have done nothing against our people or the customs of our ancestors, I was arrested in Jerusalem and handed over to the Romans. They examined me and would have set me free, since they found me guilty of nothing involving the death penalty; but the Jews lodged an objection, and I was forced to appeal to Caesar, not that I had any accusation to make against my own nation. That is why I have asked to see you and talk to you, for it is on account of the hope of Israel that I wear this chain.’

  Paul spent the whole of the two years in his own rented lodging. He welcomed all who came to visit him, proclaiming the kingdom of God and teaching the truth about the Lord Jesus Christ with complete freedom and without hindrance from anyone.


How to listen


Responsorial Psalm

Psalm 10(11):4-5,7

The upright shall see your face, O Lord.

or

Alleluia!

The Lord is in his holy temple,

  the Lord, whose throne is in heaven.

His eyes look down on the world;

  his gaze tests mortal men.

The upright shall see your face, O Lord.

or

Alleluia!

The Lord tests the just and the wicked;

  the lover of violence he hates.

The Lord is just and loves justice;

  the upright shall see his face.

The upright shall see your face, O Lord.

or

Alleluia!


Gospel Acclamation

Col3:1

Alleluia, alleluia!

Since you have been brought back to true life with Christ,

you must look for the things that are in heaven, where Christ is,

sitting at God’s right hand.

Alleluia!

Or:

cf.Jn16:7,13

Alleluia, alleluia!

I will send you the Spirit of truth, says the Lord;

he will lead you to the complete truth.

Alleluia!


Gospel

John 21:20-25

This disciple is the one who vouches for these things and we know that his testimony is true

Peter turned and saw the disciple Jesus loved following them – the one who had leaned on his breast at the supper and had said to him, ‘Lord, who is it that will betray you?’ Seeing him, Peter said to Jesus, ‘What about him, Lord?’ Jesus answered, ‘If I want him to stay behind till I come, what does it matter to you? You are to follow me.’ The rumour then went out among the brothers that this disciple would not die. Yet Jesus had not said to Peter, ‘He will not die’, but, ‘If I want him to stay behind till I come.’

  This disciple is the one who vouches for these things and has written them down, and we know that his testimony is true.

  There were many other things that Jesus did; if all were written down, the world itself, I suppose, would not hold all the books that would have to be written.

 

THE BELOVED DISCIPLE


SCRIPTURE READINGS: [Acts 28:16-20,30-31Ps 11:4-5,7Jn 21:20-25]

At the Ascension, the Lord instructed His disciples to bring the Gospel to the ends of the Earth. He said, “It is not for you to know the times or periods that the Father has set by his own authority. But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you; and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.” (Acts 1:7f) This command of the Lord was fulfilled in principle by Paul; when he brought the Gospel to Rome, it essentially meant it had reached “the ends of the earth.” Rome was quite a distance from Jerusalem, and as the capital of the Roman Empire where the emperor ruled, the Gospel in Rome would now have the potential to be disseminated throughout the Roman Empire and beyond.

As we come to the close of the season of Easter and on the Eve of Pentecost, as Church, we continue the work of the apostles and missionaries before us in spreading the Good News to all creation. We can learn from Paul who, having encountered the Risen Lord on the way to Damascus and then called to be the apostle to the Gentiles, gave his entire life to the proclamation of the Gospel. He first preached to the Jews in diaspora, and when rejected, then proclaimed the Gospel to the Gentiles, where many were converted to the Faith. He conducted three main missionary journeys, starting from Antioch and moving to Asia Minor and Greece, establishing churches in major cities like Ephesus and Corinth.

Finally, in his last missionary journey, he arrived in Rome as a prisoner. Though physically confined under house arrest, he continued to preach in the name of Jesus, offering the Gospel of repentance and forgiveness of sins to all who came to visit him. In the final analysis, proclaiming the kingdom of God is essentially speaking about the Lord Jesus Christ and his saving work in his death and resurrection (Lk 24:46-47). Paul made it a point to speak to the leading Jews, attesting to his innocence and his love for his people. He reiterated that “it is on account of the hope of Israel that I wear this chain.” It is a hope that the Jews of Rome also shared, including faith in the resurrection of the dead. For Paul, this resurrection is inseparably linked to Jesus who was crucified and raised from the dead. Indeed, Acts ended on a triumphal note. The Gospel could not be chained by human beings or even by space. No one can bind the Word of God. Paul continued to bear witness to the Gospel in complete freedom, without fear or compromise. He proclaimed the Gospel with boldness both in his teaching and preaching – the former to enlighten the mind and the intellect, the latter to strike the heart and the will.

How, then, can we be powerful and convicted witnesses to our Lord? The Gospel provides us with a clue: we need to become that beloved disciple of the Lord. Who is this Beloved Disciple in John’s Gospel? It is significant that the fourth Gospel refuses to identify him by name. Although tradition believes that the fourth Gospel was written by John himself, or one of his disciples sharing the mind and heart of John, he is never mentioned by name. There is a certain modesty and a desire to be self-effacing. John never projected himself in the Gospel because he wants us all to become a true disciple of the Lord. Indeed, at the end of the Gospel of John, he reveals the purpose of his writing: “Now Jesus did many other signs in the presence of his disciples, which are not written in this book. But these are written so that you may come to believe that Jesus is the Messiah, the Son of God, and that through believing you may have life in his name.” (Jn 20:30f)

How, then, can we also become that beloved disciple of the Lord? We notice that the Gospel mentions the beloved disciple only four times, and always towards the end of the Gospel during the most significant events, namely, at the Last Supper, at the foot of the cross, at the resurrection, and in a post-resurrection appearance. The beloved disciple is so called because the Gospel frequently describes him as “the disciple the Lord loved.” In today’s Gospel passage, Peter was curious and questioned the Lord. He “saw the disciple Jesus loved following them – the one who had leaned on Jesus’ breast at the supper and had said to him, ‘Lord, who is it that will betray you?’ Seeing him, Peter said to Jesus, ‘What about him, Lord?’ Jesus answered, “If I want him to stay behind till I come, what does it matter to you? You are to follow me.”

What does it mean when the Lord said this about the beloved disciple? Clearly, the evangelist himself remarked, “Yet Jesus had not said to Peter, ‘He will not die,’ but, ‘If I want him to stay behind till I come.’ This disciple is the one who vouches for these things and has written them down, and we know that his testimony is true. There are many things that Jesus did; if all were written down, the world itself, I suppose, would not hold all the books that would have to be written.” In other words, the beloved disciple is the one who remains behind until the Lord comes at the end of time. In that sense we are all that beloved disciple of the Lord.

That we are called to be the beloved disciple like John and the apostles were, is actualised by our Lord at the foot of the cross. There, “standing near the cross of Jesus were his mother, and his mother’s sister, Mary the wife of Clopas, and Mary Magdalene. When Jesus saw his mother and the disciple whom he loved standing beside her, he said to his mother, ‘Woman, here is your son.’ Then he said to the disciple, ‘Here is your mother.’ And from that hour the disciple took her into his own home.” (Jn 19:25-27) By so doing, the Lord entrusted the unnamed beloved disciple – who represents all of us – to Mary – who now assumes the role of that woman prophesied earlier at the Wedding of Cana to be the mother of the Church. Anyone who takes Mary to be his or her mother, is that beloved disciple of the Lord. Rightly so, the beloved disciple of the Lord must stay close to Mary so that we can learn from her about the person of our Lord, His mind and heart, and most of all, how to suffer with Jesus in the work of redemption. Mary who united herself mind and heart with the Lord in both joys and in sorrows, is the one who can show us how to cooperate with our Lord in His salvific work.

Secondly, the beloved disciple was reclining next to our Lord at the Last Supper when Peter “motioned to him to ask Jesus of whom he was speaking. So while reclining next to Jesus, he asked him, ‘Lord, who is it?’ Jesus answered, ‘It is the one to whom I give this piece of bread when I have dipped it in the dish.’ So when he had dipped the piece of bread, he gave it to Judas son of Simon Iscariot.” Intimacy with the Lord is also given to us when we celebrate the Eucharist, because in the Eucharist, we are nourished by the Word of God and also by the Bread of Life – His body and blood. We must cultivate a deep love for the Eucharist and, most of all, make ourselves pure and holy before we receive Him. Otherwise, we risk the fate of Judas, who ate and drank to his own condemnation, ultimately leading to his despair and suicide. St Paul reminded the Christians, “Whoever, therefore, eats the bread or drinks the cup of the Lord in an unworthy manner will be answerable for the body and blood of the Lord. Examine yourselves, and only then eat of the bread and drink the cup. For all who eat and drink without discerning the body, eat and drink judgement against themselves. For this reason, many of you are weak and ill, and some have died.” (1 Cor 11:27-30)

Finally, a true disciple of the Lord must be one who has encountered the Risen Lord in his or her own life. We read that “The other disciple, who reached the tomb first, also went in, and he saw and believed for as yet they did not understand the scripture, that he must rise from the dead.” (Jn 20:8) Intimacy with the Lord is the prerequisite for encountering the Risen Lord. This was John’s way, and this should be our way as beloved disciples of the Lord. Once we encounter His love and His resurrection, we will be ready to suffer with our Lord – like John, who was exiled to Patmos but continued to proclaim the Gospel through his writing and preaching, living to a ripe old age. Let us follow the way of Peter, Paul, and John, the three beloved disciples of our Lord, in missionary discipleship until our journey is done. When Jesus said to Peter, “Follow me” (Jn 21:19), it is also a call from Christ to us. We should not worry about how the Lord wants us to serve Him, nor should we compare ourselves with others. We must simply follow Him according to the role and plan He has for us. Each one of us is called to serve Him in different ways, as we see in the contrasting vocations of Peter and John.

Best Practices for Using the Daily Scripture Reflections

  • Encounter God through the spirit of prayer and the scripture by reflecting and praying the Word of God daily. The purpose is to bring you to prayer and to a deeper union with the Lord on the level of the heart.
  • Daily reflections when archived will lead many to accumulate all the reflections of the week and pray in one sitting. This will compromise your capacity to enter deeply into the Word of God, as the tendency is to read for knowledge rather than a prayerful reading of the Word for the purpose of developing a personal and affective relationship with the Lord.
  • It is more important to pray deeply, not read widely. The current reflections of the day would be more than sufficient for anyone who wants to pray deeply and be led into an intimacy with the Lord.

Note: You may share this reflection with someone. However, please note that reflections are not archived online nor will they be available via email request.


Written by His Eminence, Cardinal William SC Goh, Roman Catholic Archbishop of Singapore © All Rights Reserved. 

Thursday, 21 May 2026

IDEALISM GIVES WAY TO REALISM

20260522 IDEALISM GIVES WAY TO REALISM

 

22 May 2026, Friday, 7th Week of Easter

First reading

Acts 25:13-21

'I ordered Paul to be remanded until I could send him to Caesar'

King Agrippa and Bernice arrived in Caesarea and paid their respects to Festus. Their visit lasted several days, and Festus put Paul’s case before the king. ‘There is a man here’ he said ‘whom Felix left behind in custody, and while I was in Jerusalem the chief priests and elders of the Jews laid information against him, demanding his condemnation. But I told them that Romans are not in the habit of surrendering any man, until the accused confronts his accusers and is given an opportunity to defend himself against the charge. So they came here with me, and I wasted no time but took my seat on the tribunal the very next day and had the man brought in. When confronted with him, his accusers did not charge him with any of the crimes I had expected; but they had some argument or other with him about their own religion and about a dead man called Jesus whom Paul alleged to be alive. Not feeling qualified to deal with questions of this sort, I asked him if he would be willing to go to Jerusalem to be tried there on this issue. But Paul put in an appeal for his case to be reserved for the judgement of the august emperor, so I ordered him to be remanded until I could send him to Caesar.’


How to listen


Responsorial Psalm

Psalm 102(103):1-2,11-12,19-20

The Lord has set his sway in heaven.

or

Alleluia!

My soul, give thanks to the Lord

  all my being, bless his holy name.

My soul, give thanks to the Lord

  and never forget all his blessings.

The Lord has set his sway in heaven.

or

Alleluia!

For as the heavens are high above the earth

  so strong is his love for those who fear him.

As far as the east is from the west

  so far does he remove our sins.

The Lord has set his sway in heaven.

or

Alleluia!

The Lord has set his sway in heaven

  and his kingdom is ruling over all.

Give thanks to the Lord, all his angels,

  mighty in power, fulfilling his word.

The Lord has set his sway in heaven.

or

Alleluia!


Gospel Acclamation

Jn14:26

Alleluia, alleluia!

The Holy Spirit will teach you everything

and remind you of all I have said to you.

Alleluia!


Gospel

John 21:15-19

Feed my lambs, feed my sheep

Jesus showed himself to his disciples, and after they had eaten he said to Simon Peter, ‘Simon son of John, do you love me more than these others do?’ He answered, ‘Yes Lord, you know I love you.’ Jesus said to him, ‘Feed my lambs.’ A second time he said to him, ‘Simon son of John, do you love me?’ He replied, ‘Yes, Lord, you know I love you.’ Jesus said to him, ‘Look after my sheep.’ Then he said to him a third time, ‘Simon son of John, do you love me?’ Peter was upset that he asked him the third time, ‘Do you love me?’ and said, ‘Lord, you know everything; you know I love you.’ Jesus said to him, ‘Feed my sheep.

‘I tell you most solemnly,

when you were young

you put on your own belt

and walked where you liked;

but when you grow old

you will stretch out your hands,

and somebody else will put a belt round you

and take you where you would rather not go.’

In these words he indicated the kind of death by which Peter would give glory to God. After this he said, ‘Follow me.’

 

IDEALISM GIVES WAY TO REALISM


SCRIPTURE READINGS: [Acts 25:13-21Ps 103:1-2,11-12,19-20Jn 21:15-19]

Most of us have great ideals. But when we are not in charge, we like to criticise those who are, because we think that those in authority do not measure up to our ideals. We criticise the government, church leaders, our bosses, and our parents as well. We always feel that they are not doing what they should be doing. We feel that they are backward, outdated, out-of-touch, and not responsive to situations, etc. We feel that our parents do not know how to live out their marriage; that they do not know how to raise their children. We seem to have all the answers. We are just waiting for that day when we can take over their jobs and show them what they should do. We have great aspirations and hope that we can change lives and make a real difference in society. When President Obama took office, he called for “change.” When President Trump took office, he said, “I will make America great again!” When South Korean President Moon Jae-in took office, in a similar vein he said, “I will build a new nation. I will make a great Korea, a proud Korea!”

But the reality is that when the day comes for us to take over, we will realise that it is not so easy after all. Indeed, those of us who are married today have come to realise that marriage is not a bed of roses, and that building a relationship with our spouse is a challenging task, and that looking after our children is sometimes an impossible task! What more if one has to deal with difficult in-laws or elderly members at home. So too, all those who assume office – whether in the government, in church, or any corporation or organisation – will face the same challenges. Many bishops and priests become jaded after assuming office for a while because it so difficult to get anything moving or get everyone to agree on anything. Church members, too, become disillusioned because of the bureaucracy in the Church. The list goes on and on.

This too was the case for the apostles and Paul. They too had great dreams for IsraelPeter wanted to die for Jesus and follow Him wherever He went. Peter declared, “Though they all fall away because of you, I will never fall away.”  (Mt 26:33) Again, he repeated, “I will lay down my life for you.” (Jn 13:37) Yet, when the time came for Peter to prove himself, he vehemently denied that he knew Christ when a maid or a servant identified him as one of His followers. So too did the rest of the apostles; all of them fled when Jesus was arrested. Only John was at the foot of the cross with Mary, the Mother of Jesus, and some other women. The irony is that James and John had once told Jesus that they were ready to drink the cup that He was to drink. (cf Mt 20:22)

Indeed, like all those before us, when it is our chance to take charge of things, we find that our ideals cannot be reached. There are too many constraints. It is easy for us to give great advice to those in authority because we see things from our own narrow perspective and lack the breadth of their views. We think we have the solution to all their problems. But often, we do not realise that every leader and every person in office is faced with certain limitations in terms of manpower, resources, and finance. No one can do whatever he likes – not even the President of the United States or the Pope!

That was also the experience of the Roman governor, Festus, as we see in today’s First Reading. He had taken over from Felix and the case of Paul was not yet settled. Unlike Felix, Festus was a just and honest governor. He wanted to do the right thing. The Jews wanted him to condemn Paul to death but he knew that Paul did not warrant a death sentence. He knew that the Jews were jealous of him and felt threatened by him over some religious disagreement. As he was not comfortable in making a judgement on Paul, he proposed that Paul be tried in Jerusalem since it was a religious matter. But Paul knew very well that the judgment in Jerusalem would not be fair and just. Instead, he appealed to Rome for judgement. We can be sure that Festus was relieved that he did not have to make a bad judgement, as he did not want to offend the Jews at the start of his office.

That is why we must learn to be humble and be more realistic. It is easy to be opinionated when we are not in charge or involved in the situation. It is easy to dish out great advice when we are not in it. St Peter learned a great lesson; he was totally humbled by his sin of apostasy. He was so ashamed of himself for denying Christ. If not for Jesus, he could never have forgiven himself for what he did. Until it happened, he never realised that he was a coward. So when Jesus met him again, He asked Peter, “do you love me more than these others do?” If this question was in reference to his profession as a fisherman – an invitation to follow Jesus by giving up everything, including his trade – he would have likely answered positively, just as he did when he was first called. But this time, Peter was no longer cocky and dismissive. He no longer wished to compare himself with others. And so the reply was simply, “‘Yes Lord, you know I love you.” He did not dare to say that he loved Jesus most. Peter, now aware of his own limitations, was realistic in his love for the Lord. When Jesus asked him whether he loved him in an “agape” manner – that is total, unconditional, complete, and self-sacrificing – Peter replied with the word, “phileo”, which is essentially the love of a friend. Peter was no longer full of himself. It was better for him to just say to Jesus that He knew how much he loved Him; he would love Jesus as much as he could. “Lord, you know everything; you know I love you.”

Indeed, we see how Peter was healed by the threefold affirmation of love for the Lord. Jesus gave him the chance to redeem himself by overwriting his threefold denial. With that, Jesus now had greater confidence in him, appointing him as the shepherd of his sheep. Previously, Jesus had told Peter, “Where I am going you cannot follow me now; but you shall follow afterward.” (Jn 13:36) But after his restoration, the Lord not only asked him to feed and look after His lambs and sheep, but He said to Peter, “Follow me.” Only those who have been healed of their pride and arrogance can become great leaders for the Lord. Otherwise, arrogance in leadership will destroy them and those whom they are leading. Whilst it is important for leaders to have great dreams, they must learn humility and realism. We cannot do everything we hope to do. Peter no longer was obstinate and insistent on having his own way. The Lord said, “I tell you most solemnly, when you were young you put on your own belt and walked where you liked; but when you grow old you will stretch out your hands, and somebody else will put a belt round you and take you where you would rather not go.”

Indeed, the ways of God are not ours. “The Lord has set his sway in heaven and his kingdom is ruling over all.” Though James and John did not get to sit on the right and left hand of the throne of Jesus, they did drink the cup eventually. James was beheaded, and John was sent into exile. And although he did not suffer martyrdom, he offered his whole life for the Gospel. Peter, like James, was also executed. The evangelist noted, “In these words he indicated the kind of death by which Peter would give glory to God.” St Paul, too, never realised his dream of bringing the Gospel to the ends of the world. He never expected that circumstances would happen in such a way that he was literally brought to Rome to proclaim the Gospel. The ways of God are unimaginable. Man proposes but God disposes.

What we need to do is simply to surrender our lives to Him. We must allow the Holy Spirit to work in our lives. Our mission is dependent on the Holy Spirit. Success is not just our work, but that of divine plan and providence. Jesus too surrendered His mission to the Holy Spirit at His death on the cross. So all we need to do is to cooperate with His grace at every step in our lives. God will lead the way. We cannot determine the end or the outcome because it is the grace of God. Let us listen to the Lord, “Follow me!”

Best Practices for Using the Daily Scripture Reflections

  • Encounter God through the spirit of prayer and the scripture by reflecting and praying the Word of God daily. The purpose is to bring you to prayer and to a deeper union with the Lord on the level of the heart.
  • Daily reflections when archived will lead many to accumulate all the reflections of the week and pray in one sitting. This will compromise your capacity to enter deeply into the Word of God, as the tendency is to read for knowledge rather than a prayerful reading of the Word for the purpose of developing a personal and affective relationship with the Lord.
  • It is more important to pray deeply, not read widely. The current reflections of the day would be more than sufficient for anyone who wants to pray deeply and be led into an intimacy with the Lord.

Note: You may share this reflection with someone. However, please note that reflections are not archived online nor will they be available via email request.


Written by His Eminence, Cardinal William SC Goh, Roman Catholic Archbishop of Singapore © All Rights Reserved.