Tuesday, 3 February 2026

THE GRAVITY OF THE SIN OF A LEADER

20260204 THE GRAVITY OF THE SIN OF A LEADER

 

04 February 2026, Wednesday, 4th Week in Ordinary Time

First reading

2 Samuel 24:2,8-17

David takes the guilt on himself to save Israel

King David said to Joab and to the senior army officers who were with him, ‘Now go throughout the tribes of Israel from Dan to Beersheba and take a census of the people; I wish to know the size of the population.’ Having covered the whole country, they returned to Jerusalem at the end of nine months and twenty days. Joab gave the king the figures for the census of the people; Israel numbered eight hundred thousand armed men capable of drawing sword, and Judah five hundred thousand men.

  But afterwards David’s heart misgave him for having taken a census of the people. ‘I have committed a grave sin’ David said to the Lord. ‘But now, Lord, I beg you to forgive your servant for this fault. I have been very foolish.’ But when David got up next morning, the following message had come from the Lord to the prophet Gad, David’s seer, ‘Go and say to David, “The Lord says this: I offer you three things; choose one of them for me to do to you.”’

  So Gad went to David and told him. ‘Are three years of famine to come on you in your country’ he said ‘or will you flee for three months before your pursuing enemy, or would you rather have three days’ pestilence in your country? Now think, and decide how I am to answer him who sends me.’ David said to Gad, ‘This is a hard choice. But let us rather fall into the power of the Lord, since his mercy is great, and not into the power of men.’ So David chose pestilence.

  It was the time of the wheat harvest. The Lord sent a pestilence on Israel from the morning till the time appointed and plague ravaged the people, and from Dan to Beersheba seventy thousand men of them died. The angel stretched out his hand towards Jerusalem to destroy it, but the Lord thought better of this evil, and he said to the angel who was destroying the people, ‘Enough! Now withdraw your hand.’ The angel of the Lord was beside the threshing-floor of Araunah the Jebusite. When David saw the angel who was ravaging the people, he spoke to the Lord. ‘It was I who sinned;’ he said ‘I who did this wicked thing. But these, this flock, what have they done? Let your hand lie heavy on me then, and on my family.’


How to listen


Responsorial Psalm

Psalm 31(32):1-2,5-7

Forgive, Lord, the guilt of my sin.

Happy the man whose offence is forgiven,

  whose sin is remitted.

O happy the man to whom the Lord

  imputes no guilt,

  in whose spirit is no guile.

Forgive, Lord, the guilt of my sin.

But now I have acknowledged my sins;

  my guilt I did not hide.

I said: ‘I will confess

  my offence to the Lord.’

And you, Lord, have forgiven

  the guilt of my sin.

Forgive, Lord, the guilt of my sin.

So let every good man pray to you

  in the time of need.

The floods of water may reach high

  but him they shall not reach.

Forgive, Lord, the guilt of my sin.

You are my hiding place, O Lord;

  you save me from distress.

You surround me with cries of deliverance.

Forgive, Lord, the guilt of my sin.


Gospel Acclamation

Mt4:4

Alleluia, alleluia!

Man does not live on bread alone,

but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.

Alleluia!

Or:

Jn10:27

Alleluia, alleluia!

The sheep that belong to me listen to my voice, 

says the Lord, 

I know them and they follow me.

Alleluia!


Gospel

Mark 6:1-6

'A prophet is only despised in his own country'

Jesus went to his home town and his disciples accompanied him. With the coming of the sabbath he began teaching in the synagogue and most of them were astonished when they heard him. They said, ‘Where did the man get all this? What is this wisdom that has been granted him, and these miracles that are worked through him? This is the carpenter, surely, the son of Mary, the brother of James and Joset and Jude and Simon? His sisters, too, are they not here with us?’ And they would not accept him. And Jesus said to them, ‘A prophet is only despised in his own country, among his own relations and in his own house’; and he could work no miracle there, though he cured a few sick people by laying his hands on them. He was amazed at their lack of faith.

 

THE GRAVITY OF THE SIN OF A LEADER


SCRIPTURE READINGS: [2 SM 24:28-17Ps 32:1-25-7Mk 6:1-6]

Many aspire to be leaders, but few understand the responsibilities and the weight of a leader’s burden. Most people view leadership in terms of power, glory, honour, status, and even wealth. Yet, many fail to realise that leaders are accountable not only to themselves but also to the community, organisation, or nation they serve. Ultimately, leaders are responsible to God and to the people under their care.

Today’s Scripture readings emphasise the grave responsibility that rests on leaders. Every decision a leader makes has far-reaching consequences that extend beyond themselves to their community. A single wrong decision could destroy not just the leader or their family but an entire nation, as in the case of David. This principle applies to all forms of leadership–political, corporate, or religious–or even to roles as parents and teachers. Their success is the community’s success, and their failure is the community’s failure. Their honour reflects the community’s honour, and likewise, their shame becomes the community’s shame.

Because our decisions and actions carry such serious implications, leaders must approach both official duties and personal conduct with care. Mistakes and sins do not affect only the individual; they ripple outward. When the head of a family commits a crime, the entire family–and sometimes the broader clan–bears the shame. Children may suffer public ridicule for the misdeeds of their parent. Leadership, therefore, is not confined to professional decisions; even our personal lives are on display. Failure in personal life undermines our credibility as leaders. If we cannot manage our own household well, how can we manage the household of God or the affairs of a nation? As Scripture reminds us: “He must manage his own household well, keeping his children submissive and respectful in every way. For if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how can he take care of God’s church?” (1 Tim 3:4-5)

This was the lesson King David learned, albeit at great cost to the lives of his people. He did not fully think through his decision and came to regret it–but by then it was too late. In his impulsiveness, he ordered a census of the people to determine the strength of his army and military might. Instead of relying on the power of God, he relied on himself and the strength of his soldiers. This was an affront to the Lord, who in the Bible is described as the Lord of Hosts, the military commander of Israel who fights the battles for His people. As a result, the Lord was angered with David and the people for their lack of faith and trust in Him. David was deeply sorry for this rash decision. Indeed, as leaders, how often do we act without thinking through the consequences and implications of our choices for those we serve? We sometimes make decisions lightly, without prayerful consideration or proper discernment of the spirits, and fail to examine our true motives.

How do we avoid such pitfalls so that the people we lead and serve do not suffer because of our actions? We must recognise that the greatest temptation for a leader is pride. Many leaders believe they know everything. Accustomed to having people at their beck and call, they can become arrogant, demanding, impatient, and presumptuous. Just because others defer to them and few dare to contradict them, they begin to believe they are omnipotent and omniscient, knowing everything and how everything must be done. Ironically, leaders often struggle to submit to higher authority, yet expect complete submission from those under their charge. The pride of a leader is almost always the cause of their fall from grace.

When his right-hand man, Joab, advised David against conducting the census, he refused to listen. It would have been enough for David to trust in God, but he was too proud and blind to his own pride. As is often the case, those under a leader comply with orders, even against their better judgment, as Joab did.

Indeed, when King David ordered the census, it was done out of pride. He wanted to feel great about himself because of his accomplishments for Israel. True, under David there was peace and prosperity after 400 years of fighting and war. He had united Judah and Israel into one nation and had conquered, or at least subjugated, the surrounding foreign nations.

Similarly, in the Gospel, the townsfolk of Jesus’ village did not welcome Him because of pride. “Most of them were astonished when they heard him. They said, ‘Where did this man get all this? What is this wisdom that has been granted him, and these miracles that are worked through him? This is the carpenter, surely the son of Mary, the brother of James and Joses and Jude and Simon? His sisters, too, are they not here with us?’ And they would not accept him.” Their pride manifested as prejudice. It was too difficult for them to believe that someone among them, known as a simple carpenter, could possess such wisdom and power. It was too humiliating for them to admit that Jesus was greater than they were.

When we allow pride and prejudice to colour our judgments, we must face the consequences of our sins. What we sow, we reap. So too with David: even as he reaped the consequences of his sinful pride, God in His mercy gave him a choice. “So Gad went to David and told him, ‘Are three years of famine to come on your country,’ he said, ‘or will you flee for three months before your pursuing enemy, or would you rather have three days’ pestilence in your country? Now think, and decide how I am to answer him who sends me.'”

Yet, when we consider the sin of King David, we also see God’s saving grace, even in the midst of his failings. A leader does not have to be perfect at all times; God does not demand impeccable leadership. But, like David, we must be quick and humble enough to admit our mistakes and make amends immediately. In his moment of folly, David called for the census, but upon realising what he had done, he repented.

David was sincerely sorry for the sins that caused the people to suffer on his behalf. His sorrow is reflected in today’s responsorial psalm. Even in his sin and suffering, David continued to rely on the mercy of God. He told Gad, “‘This is a hard choice. But let us rather fall into the power of the Lord, since his mercy is great, and not into the power of men.’ So David chose pestilence.” As leaders, we need not be perfect at all times, but we must be humble like David: acknowledge our failures, learn from our mistakes, seek forgiveness from God and from those we lead, and then move on.

Indeed, the greatness of King David lay in his being truly a man after the heart of God, the Good Shepherd. He knew his weaknesses and sins, yet he trusted in the Lord’s mercy and confessed his faults whenever confronted or upon realisation. He did not blame anyone for his transgressions, whether it was his adultery with Bathsheba or the calling of the census. He took full responsibility without excuse: “Forgive, Lord, the guilt of my sin.” He also accepted the punishment for his sins, choosing to suffer on behalf of the nation and to bear the guilt himself and even with his family. He put the safety and well-being of his people above his own interests and even those of his loved ones. Such was the kind of leadership David displayed.

We too are called to imitate King David in carrying out our responsibilities as leaders. We must always be conscious that, as leaders, we are public figures and no longer private citizens. Everything we do, whether in public or private, is under scrutiny. Enemies wait for our mistakes to discredit us and bring shame to the community or organisation we serve. As such, leaders must be vigilant, not only over their public actions but also their personal conduct, so as not to cause scandal or harm. The readings today remind us that pride and lack of faith can deprive our communities of the healing grace of God.

St. Paul reminds us as well: “We are putting no obstacle in anyone’s way, so that no fault may be found with our ministry, but as servants of God we have commended ourselves in every way: through great endurance, in afflictions, hardships, calamities, beatings, imprisonments, riots, labours, sleepless nights, hunger; by purity, knowledge, patience, kindness, holiness of spirit, genuine love, truthful speech, and the power of God; with the weapons of righteousness for the right hand and for the left; in honour and dishonour, in ill repute and good repute. We are treated as impostors, and yet are true; as unknown, and yet are well known; as dying, and see–we are alive; as punished, and yet not killed; as sorrowful, yet always rejoicing; as poor, yet making many rich; as having nothing, and yet possessing everything” (1 Cor 6:3-10).

Best Practices for Using the Daily Scripture Reflections

  • Encounter God through the spirit of prayer and the scripture by reflecting and praying the Word of God daily. The purpose is to bring you to prayer and to a deeper union with the Lord on the level of the heart.
  • Daily reflections when archived will lead many to accumulate all the reflections of the week and pray in one sitting. This will compromise your capacity to enter deeply into the Word of God, as the tendency is to read for knowledge rather than a prayerful reading of the Word for the purpose of developing a personal and affective relationship with the Lord.
  • It is more important to pray deeply, not read widely. The current reflections of the day would be more than sufficient for anyone who wants to pray deeply and be led into an intimacy with the Lord.

Note: You may share this reflection with someone. However, please note that reflections are not archived online nor will they be available via email request.


Written by His Eminence, Cardinal William SC Goh, Roman Catholic Archbishop of Singapore © All Rights Reserved. 

Monday, 2 February 2026

THE LOGIC OF THE HEART

20260203 THE LOGIC OF THE HEART

 

03 February 2026, Tuesday, 4th Week in Ordinary Time

First reading

2 Samuel 18:9-10, 14, 24-25, 30-19:3

David mourns Absalom

Absalom happened to run into some of David’s followers. Absalom was riding a mule and the mule passed under the thick branches of a great oak. Absalom’s head caught fast in the oak and he was left hanging between heaven and earth, while the mule he was riding went on. Someone saw this and told Joab. ‘I have just seen Absalom’ he said ‘hanging from an oak.’ Joab took three lances in his hand and thrust them into Absalom’s heart while he was still alive there in the oak tree.

  David was sitting between the two gates. The lookout had gone up to the roof of the gate, on the ramparts; he looked up and saw a man running all by himself. The watch called out to the king and told him. The king said, ‘If he is by himself, he has good news to tell.’ The king told the man, ‘Move aside and stand there.’ He moved aside and stood waiting.

  Then the Cushite arrived. ‘Good news for my lord the king!’ cried the Cushite. ‘The Lord has vindicated your cause today by ridding you of all who rebelled against you.’ ‘Is all well with young Absalom?’ the king asked the Cushite. ‘May the enemies of my lord the king’ the Cushite answered ‘and all who rebelled against you to your hurt, share the lot of that young man.’

  The king shuddered. He went up to the room over the gate and burst into tears, and weeping said, ‘My son Absalom! My son! My son Absalom! Would I had died in your place! Absalom, my son, my son!’ Word was brought to Joab, ‘The king is now weeping and mourning for Absalom.’ And the day’s victory was turned to mourning for all the troops, because they learned that the king was grieving for his son. And the troops returned stealthily that day to the town, as troops creep back ashamed when routed in battle.


How to listen


Responsorial Psalm

Psalm 85(86):1-6

Turn your ear, Lord, and give answer.

Turn your ear, O Lord, and give answer

  for I am poor and needy.

Preserve my life, for I am faithful;

  save the servant who trusts in you.

Turn your ear, Lord, and give answer.

You are my God, have mercy on me, Lord,

  for I cry to you all the day long.

Give joy to your servant, O Lord,

  for to you I lift up my soul.

Turn your ear, Lord, and give answer.

O Lord, you are good and forgiving,

  full of love to all who call.

Give heed, O Lord, to my prayer

  and attend to the sound of my voice.

Turn your ear, Lord, and give answer.


Gospel Acclamation

Jn14:6

Alleluia, alleluia!

I am the Way, the Truth and the Life, says the Lord;

No one can come to the Father except through me.

Alleluia!

Or:

Mt8:17

Alleluia, alleluia!

He took our sicknesses away,

and carried our diseases for us.

Alleluia!


Gospel

Mark 5:21-43

Little girl, I tell you to get up

When Jesus had crossed in the boat to the other side, a large crowd gathered round him and he stayed by the lakeside. Then one of the synagogue officials came up, Jairus by name, and seeing him, fell at his feet and pleaded with him earnestly, saying, ‘My little daughter is desperately sick. Do come and lay your hands on her to make her better and save her life.’ Jesus went with him and a large crowd followed him; they were pressing all round him.

  Now there was a woman who had suffered from a haemorrhage for twelve years; after long and painful treatment under various doctors, she spent all she had without being any the better for it, in fact, she was getting worse. She had heard about Jesus, and she came up behind him through the crowd and touched his cloak. ‘If I can touch even his clothes,’ she had told herself ‘I shall be well again.’ And the source of the bleeding dried up instantly, and she felt in herself that she was cured of her complaint. Immediately aware that power had gone out from him, Jesus turned round in the crowd and said, ‘Who touched my clothes?’ His disciples said to him, ‘You see how the crowd is pressing round you and yet you say, “Who touched me?”’ But he continued to look all round to see who had done it. Then the woman came forward, frightened and trembling because she knew what had happened to her, and she fell at his feet and told him the whole truth. ‘My daughter,’ he said ‘your faith has restored you to health; go in peace and be free from your complaint.’

  While he was still speaking some people arrived from the house of the synagogue official to say, ‘Your daughter is dead: why put the Master to any further trouble?’ But Jesus had overheard this remark of theirs and he said to the official, ‘Do not be afraid; only have faith.’ And he allowed no one to go with him except Peter and James and John the brother of James. So they came to the official’s house and Jesus noticed all the commotion, with people weeping and wailing unrestrainedly. He went in and said to them, ‘Why all this commotion and crying? The child is not dead, but asleep.’ But they laughed at him. So he turned them all out and, taking with him the child’s father and mother and his own companions, he went into the place where the child lay. And taking the child by the hand he said to her, ‘Talitha, kum!’ which means, ‘Little girl, I tell you to get up.’ The little girl got up at once and began to walk about, for she was twelve years old. At this they were overcome with astonishment, and he ordered them strictly not to let anyone know about it, and told them to give her something to eat.

 

THE LOGIC OF THE HEART


SCRIPTURE READINGS: [2 SM 18:9-10,1424-2530 – 2 SM 19:3Ps 86:1-6Mk 5:21-43]

In the first reading, we read of the death of David’s son, Absalom. On the level of justice, it seems that he received his just deserts. For the crime of treason and rebellion, he deserved death. And as if by divine justice, his head was caught in the thick branches of a great oak. “He was left hanging between heaven and earth, while the mule he was riding went on.” This gave David’s men a great opportunity to kill him, and that was what Joab, the commander of the army, did. “Joab took three lances in his hand and thrust them into Absalom’s heart while he was still alive there in the oak tree.”

Logically, that was the right thing to do to an enemy. This was retribution for causing so many to die in the battle. We read how “the men of Israel were defeated there by the servants of David, and the slaughter there was great on that day, twenty thousand men. The battle spread over the face of all the country, and the forest claimed more victims that day than the sword” (2 Sm 18:7f). Even though Joab went against the wishes of King David to spare the life of Absalom (cf. 2 Sm 18:5), strict justice demanded that Absalom be adequately punished for his heinous crime against the king and the kingdom.

But this is not the way God would have dealt with us. God considers every one of us His sons and daughters. It is true that perhaps if Absalom had not been David’s son, David might not have considered sparing his life. However, Absalom was his son. This is where the heart has its own logic apart from the head. No matter how evil a son or daughter may be, he or she remains the child of his or her parents. It is said that with our loved ones we apply the law of love, but with our enemies we apply the law of justice. When there is love, we regard the person, even when he has wronged us, with compassion. This is the way God deals with us, because He loves us.

David’s attitude towards the death of Absalom prefigured the story of the Prodigal Father in the Gospel. Like the Father, he did not wish the death of his son. Like the Prodigal Father, “David was sitting between the two gates,” waiting for his son to return safely and restored. Like Jesus, who grieves over our sinfulness and self-destruction–as in the case of Judas and the stubbornness of the Jewish religious leaders–David too wept when he was told that Absalom had been killed. “The king shuddered. He went up to the room over the gate and burst into tears, and weeping said, ‘My son Absalom, my son, my son!'” Just like David, God weeps over us, as Jesus did over Jerusalem (cf. Lk 21:41-44).

Only those who love others as if they were their own will learn how to feel with the Father and with King David. The trouble is that most of us do not see others–especially our enemies–as our loved ones, or better still, as our own children. Hence, the approach becomes hard justice, an eye for an eye. Thus, we can understand the disappointment of Joab and his men when they heard how David mourned for his son. They felt betrayed and angry that David did not also consider how many had given up their lives to protect him from his enemies. Joab reprimanded the king, saying, “Today you have covered with shame the faces of all your officers who have saved your life today, and the lives of your sons and your daughters, and the lives of your wives and your concubines, for loving those who hate you and hating those who love you. You have made it clear today that commanders and officers are nothing to you; for I perceive that if Absalom were alive and all of us were dead today, then you would be pleased” (2 Sm 19:5f). Indeed, we can understand where Joab was coming from. Hence, he said, “So go out at once and speak kindly to your servants; for I swear by the Lord, if you do not go, not a man will stay with you this night; and this will be worse for you than any disaster that has come upon you from your youth until now” (2 Sm 19:7).

This same tension between love and the law is played out again in the Gospel. The first case is that of Jairus, one of the synagogue officials. He came to Jesus, “fell at his feet and pleaded with him earnestly, saying, ‘My little daughter is desperately sick. Do come and lay your hands on her, so that she may be made well and live.'” As a synagogue ruler, he would have known that the Pharisees and the scribes considered Jesus a deviant rabbi who should not be welcomed or even acknowledged, much less shown such reverence. But in the face of his daughter’s imminent death, this father would do anything–even sacrificing his honour, dignity, and position as a synagogue leader–to have his daughter healed. Any parent would do anything to save his son or daughter.

The second instance was that of the woman suffering from haemorrhage due to her menstrual discharge and uterine disorder.According to the law of Leviticus, “when a woman has a discharge of blood that is her regular discharge from her body, she shall be in her impurity for seven days, and whoever touches her shall be unclean until the evening” (Lev 15:19). Consequently, she should not have been in social contact with anyone, lest she make them unclean. Yet, in her desperation, she came up behind Jesus “through the crowd and touched his cloak. ‘If I can touch even his clothes,’ she had told herself, ‘I shall be well again.’ And the source of the bleeding dried up instantly, and she felt in herself that she was cured of her complaint.”

What was Jesus’ response to both of these incidents? It was the way of love, the logic of the heart. Faith was lacking among the people, except perhaps Jairus, for they said to him, “‘Your daughter is dead; why put the Master to any further trouble?’ But Jesus overheard this remark and said to the official, ‘Do not be afraid; only have faith.’ And he allowed no one to go with him except Peter, James, and John, the brother of James. As far as Jesus was concerned, ‘The child is not dead, but asleep.’ But they laughed at him. So he turned them all out and, taking with him the child’s father and mother and his own companions, he went into the place where the child lay.”

In Jesus’ understanding, the truly dead are those who have no faith and are trapped in sin; the child was only asleep. “Taking the child by the hand, he said to her, ‘Talitha, kum,’ which means, ‘Little girl, I tell you, get up.’ The little girl got up at once and began to walk about, for she was twelve years old.” Jesus felt deeply for Jairus in his pain at losing his daughter. His only concern was to relieve the suffering of the little girl and her parents.

Similarly, even though Jesus felt the touch of someone who was unclean, He was able to transcend the law. “Immediately aware that power had gone out from him, Jesus turned around in the crowd and said, ‘Who touched my clothes?’ His disciples said to him, ‘You see how the crowd is pressing around you, and yet you say, ‘Who touched me?’ But he continued to look all around to see who had done it.” His disciples could not see who was unclean, unlike Jesus. This revealed the weakness of the law in itself. Without someone declaring that he or she was unclean, those who touched such a person would become unclean without even knowing it. So, does it really matter in the end? 

Jesus knew that the woman was unclean, yet He allowed her to touch Him because He placed the well-being of the person above ritual observance. The woman was suffering from embarrassment and inconvenience and was unable to be socially connected with others because of her illness. Yet she was freed by the Lord. “Then the woman came forward, frightened and trembling because she knew what had happened to her, and she fell at his feet and told him the whole truth. ‘My daughter,’ he said, ‘your faith has restored you to health; go in peace and be free from your complaint.'”

Furthermore, like Jairus, even though the woman’s faith was imperfect, the Lord met her at her level. She may have touched the cloak of Jesus with a certain superstitious understanding, much like some of our devotees today. People touch statues or use handkerchiefs to touch healers and sacred objects, believing that they will be healed of their illnesses or protected from harm. Some practices of popular religiosity may appear superstitious in nature and are often frowned upon by intellectuals and theologians who know the Scriptures well. 

But Jesus did not stop her. He allowed her fragile faith to grow by revealing that it was not his cloak that healed her, but the power that went out from Him. Jesus is the one who heals, not a superstitious object or piece of clothing. We need to help our more naïve devotees move beyond the sacramental sign to the Lord who is our true healer. Yet we cannot simply suppress such expressions of faith and love, because these are the means that speak to ordinary and simple people. We must educate them, but we should not dismiss or prevent them from encountering the Lord in this way. We too must be patient and not overly judgmental of the simple faith of our lay people. What is most important is that they are brought to faith in Christ.

Best Practices for Using the Daily Scripture Reflections

  • Encounter God through the spirit of prayer and the scripture by reflecting and praying the Word of God daily. The purpose is to bring you to prayer and to a deeper union with the Lord on the level of the heart.
  • Daily reflections when archived will lead many to accumulate all the reflections of the week and pray in one sitting. This will compromise your capacity to enter deeply into the Word of God, as the tendency is to read for knowledge rather than a prayerful reading of the Word for the purpose of developing a personal and affective relationship with the Lord.
  • It is more important to pray deeply, not read widely. The current reflections of the day would be more than sufficient for anyone who wants to pray deeply and be led into an intimacy with the Lord.

Note: You may share this reflection with someone. However, please note that reflections are not archived online nor will they be available via email request.


Written by His Eminence, Cardinal William SC Goh, Roman Catholic Archbishop of Singapore © All Rights Reserved.