Monday, 26 June 2017

THE GOLDEN PRINCIPLE

20170627 THE GOLDEN PRINCIPLE

Readings at Mass
Liturgical Colour: Green.

First reading
Genesis 13:2,5-18 ©
Abram was a very rich man, with livestock, silver and gold. Lot, who was travelling with Abram, had flocks and cattle of his own, and tents too. The land was not sufficient to accommodate them both at once, for they had too many possessions to be able to live together. Dispute broke out between the herdsmen of Abram’s livestock and those of Lot’s. (The Canaanites and the Perizzites were then living in the land.) Accordingly Abram said to Lot, ‘Let there be no dispute between me and you, nor between my herdsmen and yours, for we are brothers. Is not the whole land open before you? Part company with me: if you take the left, I will go right; if you take the right, I will go left.’
  Looking round, Lot saw all the Jordan plain, irrigated everywhere – this was before the Lord destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah – like the garden of the Lord or the land of Egypt, as far as Zoar. So Lot chose all the Jordan plain for himself and moved off eastwards. Thus they parted company: Abram settled in the land of Canaan; Lot settled among the towns of the plain, pitching his tents on the outskirts of Sodom. Now the people of Sodom were vicious men, great sinners against the Lord.
  The Lord said to Abram after Lot had parted company with him, ‘Look all round from where you are towards the north and the south, towards the east and the west. All the land within sight I will give to you and your descendants for ever. I will make your descendants like the dust on the ground: when men succeed in counting the specks of dust on the ground, then they will be able to count your descendants! Come, travel through the length and breadth of the land, for I mean to give it to you.’
  So Abram went with his tents to settle at the Oak of Mamre, at Hebron, and there he built an altar to the Lord.

Responsorial Psalm
Psalm 14(15):2-5 ©
The just will live in the presence of the Lord.
Lord, who shall dwell on your holy mountain?
He who walks without fault;
he who acts with justice
and speaks the truth from his heart;
he who does not slander with his tongue.
The just will live in the presence of the Lord.
He who does no wrong to his brother,
who casts no slur on his neighbour,
who holds the godless in disdain,
but honours those who fear the Lord.
The just will live in the presence of the Lord.
He who keeps his pledge, come what may;
who takes no interest on a loan
and accepts no bribes against the innocent.
Such a man will stand firm for ever.
The just will live in the presence of the Lord.

Gospel Acclamation
Mt11:25
Alleluia, alleluia!
Blessed are you, Father, 
Lord of heaven and earth,
for revealing the mysteries of the kingdom
to mere children.
Alleluia!
Or
Jn8:12
Alleluia, alleluia!
I am the light of the world, says the Lord;
anyone who follows me will have the light of life.
Alleluia!

Gospel
Matthew 7:6,12-14 ©
Jesus said to his disciples: ‘Do not give dogs what is holy; and do not throw your pearls in front of pigs, or they may trample them and then turn on you and tear you to pieces.
  ‘So always treat others as you would like them to treat you; that is the meaning of the Law and the Prophets.
  ‘Enter by the narrow gate, since the road that leads to perdition is wide and spacious, and many take it; but it is a narrow gate and a hard road that leads to life, and only a few find it.’


THE GOLDEN PRINCIPLE

SCRIPTURE READINGS: [ Gn 13:2.5-18; Ps 14:2-5; Mt 7:26. 12-14  ]
“Do not do unto others what you would not like others to do unto you.”  This is the golden principle taught by Confucius and found in many religions.  This is the fundamental principle of ethics.  If all of us live by this principle, there will be no wars, no killings, no crimes, no poverty, no irresponsible living.  If only everyone lives by this principle, there will be peace, harmony, progress and prosperity for all peoples in the world.  This golden principle does not require much thinking but feeling.  One does not need to be a moralist to understand and accept this golden principle.  It is natural that all of us seek justice, fair play, and our rights.  Buddhists do not kill simply because killing provokes killing.  Jesus speaks about forgiving our enemies, otherwise we will cause endless retaliation.
Then why is it that we do not practise this golden rule of life?  It is because we are sinners.  We are self-centered, inward-looking, irresponsible, ego-centered and do not care for others.   We love ourselves but often at the expense of others.  We only think about our interests, needs and convenience.  If everyone behaves in this manner, there will be much resentment, unhappiness and anger.  This explains why the book of Leviticus reminds us to love our neighbour as ourselves.  (cf Lev 19:18; Mk 12:31) If we love ourselves, we must love our neighbours the same way.   There cannot be double standards, one for ourselves and the other for our neighbours, because we all share the same humanity, the desire for love, acceptance, justice and our basic needs.
But even if we can observe this basic principle of life, it is not good enough.  Jesus asked us to go one step further.  Instead of phrasing this principle in a negative form, He put it in a positive form.  “So always treat others as you would like them to treat you; that is the meaning of the Law and the Prophets.”  Jesus is not simply asking us to avoid doing anything that is wrong or that we would not like others to do to us.   With discipline, we might be able to avoid doing harm to others or cause others to suffer on our account.  But it is more difficult to do good to others because there is no limit to what good we are called to do.  Love has no limits.
This explains why this golden principle reformulated by our Lord is the crown of the entire Sermon on the Mount.  Loving God in our neighbours is the highest form of love.  The Law and the prophets have the same message, which is to love God and our neighour.  As St Paul said, “Owe no one anything, except to love one another; for the one who loves another has fulfilled the law.  The commandments, ‘You shall not commit adultery; You shall not murder; You shall not steal; You shall not covet’; and any other commandment, are summed up in this word, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’  Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore, love is the fulfilling of the law.”  (Rom 13:8-10)
This is the narrow gate that the Lord urges us all to enter.  “Enter by the narrow gate, since the road that leads to perdition is wide and spacious, and many take it; but it is a narrow gate and a hard road that leads to life, and only a few find it.”  The narrow gate is the gate of love and self-sacrifice.  This gate requires self-discipline and self-emptying for others.  It is not the wide gate that attracts the lazy, the self-indulgent, the self-centered.  Unfortunately, not many people are capable of love for God and for others.   Most people care for themselves and at most, for their loved ones.  Even the latter is not true love for others because to love their loved ones is to love themselves as their loved ones will affect their peace, security, joy and happiness.  They love their loved ones because their happiness is inter-dependent.  But to love those beyond their circle of friends? That love is not forthcoming because they have nothing to gain from that relationship of giving.  
To inspire us, we have Abram.  We are told that he “was a very rich man, with livestock, silver and gold” and “Lot, who was travelling with Abram, had flocks and cattle of his own, and tents too.”  Abram was concerned about the more important things of life, which is harmonious relationship.  He put good relationship above wealth and business.  Abram said to Lot, “Let there be no dispute between me and you, nor between my herdsmen and yours, for we are brothers.  Is not the whole land open before you?  Part company with me: if you take the left, I will go right; if you take the right, I will go left.”   He knew that if the problem was not checked, there would be further misunderstandings between his men and his nephew’s workers.  To avoid any escalation of contentious conflicts, he proposed that each of them went their own way.
What was noble of Abram was not simply that he saw that family ties were more important than wealth, but he deferred to Lot in his choice of land.  He did not decide anything for his own interests but left the decision as to where he would settle with his flocks to his nephew.   Being the elder, he could simply have told Lot to take the portion of the land which he wanted to give.  Instead, he was indifferent to whatever land was given to him.   This shows the magnanimity of Abram.  He was a just man and he cared for Lot’s interests over his own.  He was not one who would grab everything for himself.  Instead, he thought of the good of others over his own.
What was the secret of Abram’s attitude towards wealth and relationship?  He was a man who lived in the presence of God.   He is the just man that the responsorial psalm speaks about.  “Lord, who shall dwell on your holy mountain?  He who walks without fault; he who acts with justice and speaks the truth from his heart; he who does not slander with his tongue. He who does no wrong to his brother, who casts no slur on his neighbour, who holds the godless in disdain, but honours those who fear the Lord.  He who keeps his pledge, come what may; who takes no interest on a loan and accepts no bribes against the innocent. Such a man will stand firm forever.”  The scriptures portray Abram as a generous man who was hospitable to strangers.  He would come to the aid of Lot when he and his men were captured.  He was a man of compassion who interceded for the city when God wanted to punish the people.  Constantly, he was a man who practiced the golden principle of doing unto others what he would like others to do unto him.
Indeed, whoever is generous will be blessed abundantly by the Lord in return.  This was what St Paul wrote, “The one who sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and the one who sows bountifully will also reap bountifully. Each of you must give as you have made up your mind, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver. And God is able to provide you with every blessing in abundance, so that by always having enough of everything, you may share abundantly in every good work. You will be enriched in every way for your great generosity, which will produce thanksgiving to God through us.” (2 Cor 9:6-8,11)  Truly, the more Abram used his resources to bless others, the more abundantly the Lord blessed him in return.  He became the father of many nations and was blessed with wealth.
In contrast, Lot was selfish and inward-looking, thinking only about his interests and his wealth.  He did not consider the interests of Abram.  Eventually, save for his daughters, he lost his wife and his sons-in-law when God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah because of the wickedness of the people.  Jesus also warns us in the gospel not to “give dogs what is holy; and do not throw your pearls in front of pigs, or they may trample them and then turn on you and tear you to pieces.”  Within this context, we must be careful how we make use of the blessings we have received from the Lord.  Many of us, instead of using the resources the Lord has blessed us to bless others, use them for the wrong purposes, or for ourselves.

Written by The Most Rev William Goh, Roman Catholic Archbishop of Singapore © All Rights Reserved


Sunday, 25 June 2017

THE COMPLEXITY OF DISCERNMENT AND JUDGMENT

20170626 THE COMPLEXITY OF DISCERNMENT AND JUDGMENT

Readings at Mass
Liturgical Colour: Green.

First reading
Genesis 12:1-9 ©
The Lord said to Abram, ‘Leave your country, your family and your father’s house, for the land I will show you. I will make you a great nation; I will bless you and make your name so famous that it will be used as a blessing.
‘I will bless those who bless you:
I will curse those who slight you.
All the tribes of the earth
shall bless themselves by you.’
So Abram went as the Lord told him, and Lot went with him. Abram was seventy-five years old when he left Haran. Abram took his wife Sarai, his nephew Lot, all the possessions they had amassed and the people they had acquired in Haran. They set off for the land of Canaan, and arrived there.
  Abram passed through the land as far as Shechem’s holy place, the Oak of Moreh. At that time the Canaanites were in the land. The Lord appeared to Abram and said, ‘It is to your descendants that I will give this land.’ So Abram built there an altar for the Lord who had appeared to him. From there he moved on to the mountainous district east of Bethel, where he pitched his tent, with Bethel to the west and Ai to the east. There he built an altar to the Lord and invoked the name of the Lord. Then Abram made his way stage by stage to the Negeb.

Responsorial Psalm
Psalm 32(33):12-13,18-20,22 ©
Happy the people the Lord has chosen as his own.
They are happy, whose God is the Lord,
  the people he has chosen as his own.
From the heavens the Lord looks forth,
  he sees all the children of men.
Happy the people the Lord has chosen as his own.
The Lord looks on those who revere him,
  on those who hope in his love,
to rescue their souls from death,
  to keep them alive in famine.
Happy the people the Lord has chosen as his own.
Our soul is waiting for the Lord.
  The Lord is our help and our shield.
May your love be upon us, O Lord,
  as we place all our hope in you.
Happy the people the Lord has chosen as his own.

Gospel Acclamation
Jn17:17
Alleluia, alleluia!
Your word is truth, O Lord:
consecrate us in the truth.
Alleluia!
Or
Heb4:12
Alleluia, alleluia!
The word of God is something alive and active:
it can judge secret emotions and thoughts.
Alleluia!

Gospel
Matthew 7:1-5 ©
Jesus said to his disciples: ‘Do not judge, and you will not be judged; because the judgements you give are the judgements you will get, and the amount you measure out is the amount you will be given. Why do you observe the splinter in your brother’s eye and never notice the plank in your own? How dare you say to your brother, “Let me take the splinter out of your eye,” when all the time there is a plank in your own? Hypocrite! Take the plank out of your own eye first, and then you will see clearly enough to take the splinter out of your brother’s eye.’


THE COMPLEXITY OF DISCERNMENT AND JUDGMENT

SCRIPTURE READINGS: [ Gn 12:1-9; PS 32:12-13,18-20,22; Mt 7:1-5  ]
Jesus said to his disciples: “Do not judge and you will not be judged.”  This exhortation of Jesus does not mean that we have to dispense judgement in all forms and at all times.  We need to discern and make judgement every day, from personal matters at home to work and society.  No one can live without making judgments.   In fact, not to discern and judge, especially when we are in position of authority, would be irresponsible.
However, we must be responsible in judgment.  This is what Jesus is warning us.  This is “because the judgments you will give are the judgments that you will get, and the amount you measure out is the amount you will be given.”  In other words, how we judge or fail to judge will determine how others will judge us.   In our judgments, we reveal to people who we really are, our thinking and our values and most of all our heart.   So the point is not that we should not judge but how we should judge.
Because judgment is rather complex, we must avoid the pitfalls of making rash and sweeping judgments on people and situations.  Indeed, the greatest pitfall in making judgment is prejudice and fear.  This prejudice comes from the conditioning of our past and the fear of the future.  This explains why Jesus warned us, “Why do you observe the splinter in your brother’s eye and never notice the plank in your own?  How dare you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the splinter out of your eye’, when all the time there is a plank in your own?  Hypocrite!  Take the plank out of your own eye first, and then you will see clearly enough to take the splinter out of your brother’s eye.”
Truly, in our judgments most of us are coloured by our past experiences, bad or good.  Negative experiences make us negative towards new situations.  Positive experiences make us willing to trust and be more receptive.  Of course, more often than not it is our fear of the future that makes us judge in a certain way.  We all have our fears and we want to protect our turf.  Thus, we tend to judge a situation in favour of our interests.  Quite often, much as we try to remain objective, we are also motivated by our interests and hindered by our insecurity and anxiety.  We never see things as they are but as we are!  So we need to remove the plank of prejudice from our eyes first.
How, then, do we overcome our prejudices in rendering judgment?  Firstly, the only judgment we are permitted is objective judgement based on facts.  We can only read the facts and come to a conclusion.  But we cannot determine the real motive of a person.  His conscience is between him and God alone.  For this reason, St Paul also asked us to leave judgment to God.  “Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God; for it is written, ‘Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.’ No, if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals upon his head.”  (Rom 12:9-20)   Judgement is therefore always objective and based on external forum.  We can only say that an action is wrong but we cannot come to a conclusion that the person is a sinner or meant evil.  Only God knows his heart and intentions.
Secondly, our judgment must not be one that destroys but builds.  That is to say, passing judgment is to help a person to become better and not to destroy him.  Often unconsciously, we say negative things about a person because we feel threatened.  We need to put the person down in order to make us feel better.  In our judgment of others, the motive must always be to help and to improve.  Judgment is never destructive but always constructive.  It is to make things better not make things worse.
So in making decisions we must ask whether that decision is truly for the good of others or for ourselves.  If a judgment is made to protect our interests, then such a judgment is skewed.  This is true especially when we are asked to take up an appointment or an office.  Do you agree because it benefits us or because it benefits the people under our care?  Our motives must be selfless and be other-centered.
Thirdly, in judgment, we must never make it alone without the help of others.  It is our duty to consult others as well; especially those who are able to help us to make proper judgment.  Consultation helps us to see the situation from different perspectives and angles. Otherwise, we might allow our past experiences to limit us in our judgment.  All of us are limited by our experiences and our fears.  So to ensure that our judgment takes into consideration all the perspectives, no one should judge without proper consultation. This is especially true for those in authority.
Fourthly, we must consult God in prayer.  In all judgment, we need to bring God into the picture.  All judgement must take place in prayer.  We need to bring our judgments to God in prayer, and ask for the grace to remove the blindness from our eyes, the fears from our heart so that we can look at every situation objectively without personal interest.  Using scriptures for discernment is ideal because “the word of God is something alive and active: it can judge secret emotions and thoughts.”  (Heb 4:12)  We need to put on the mind of Christ and with the heart of Jesus look at the situation and at people.  The only judgment that is permitted is a judgment from the perspective of Christ, which is one of compassion, understanding and forgiveness.  Jesus does not condemn people, not even sinners.  But He seeks to understand them and reach out to them.  Even if He were harsh with the religious leaders, it was because He loved them and wanted to shake them out of their blindness and hypocrisy.
However, if judgment were that simple, then life would be so easy.  The truth is that judgment is not always logical.  This was the case of Abraham.  We read that he was already old and a wealthy man too at the time when the Lord spoke to him. Logically, it would have been foolish for Abram to begin a new life when he should be retiring gracefully.  It was not that he was poor but he was living a comfortable life.  At that age, who would want to start life all over again, when one is not even sure how more years one has left.  Objectively, he was foolish to take the risk and uproot his family, venturing to a place they did not know.  But he did!
This brings us to another level of judgment from the perspective of faith.  Abram heard God saying to him, “Leave your country, your family and your father’s house, for the land I will show you.  I will make you a great nation; I will bless you and make your name so famous that it will be used as a blessing.  I will bless those who bless you: I will curse those who slight you. All the tribes of the earth shall bless themselves by you.”   On the basis of God’s promises, he obeyed the voice of God.  He trusted in God’s promises and he realized God’s promises by obedience in faith.
Most of us are insecure and want to protect our interests. We walk by sight rather than by faith, Abram teaches us that sometimes in life God wants us to give up our security and human reasoning and simply trust Him alone.  He wants to give us new opportunities and a greater life ahead of us.  But so long as we want to cling to what is familiar, then we will miss the great opportunities that God wishes to give to us.  Thus, we need to have faith, to respond to such a call from the Lord.  It takes courage.  It involves risks and trust.  But without faith, we will never be able to find true happiness in life.
The judgment on the level of faith must of course take place in prayer.  This aspect of judgment presumes a special revelation from the Lord which normally takes place in a religious encounter.  All great saints, founders of religious orders and great leaders are often inspired by God. In the final analysis, prayer is the most critical part of discernment and judgment.  For this reason, we read that wherever Abram went, he would erect an altar to the Lord.  The altar is not simply a place of communion with God but also a reminder of His love and fidelity to us.  This explains why most shrines are erected as a consequence of a religious experience that occurred, whether an apparition or some deep religious encounter.
Of course, even in prayer, we can also deceive ourselves.  Many tell us that the Lord is telling them to do this and that.  More often than not, they lack depth and maturity in prayer.  At times they are praying to themselves rather than listening to God. Personal discernment requires consultation with authorities and deeply spiritually matured Christians who can guide us to discern objectively and hear the voice of God.  In most instances, when a judgment is correct, it would resonate with most people and confirmed by the authorities.  When our judgment is not aligned to the established objective laws provided in the scriptures and the rightful appointed authority, in humility we must discern further.  We must not allow presumption and pride to blind us in our judgment as we will only hurt ourselves and others.  Even great saints and charismatic leaders in their inspiration to do something great would often turn to legitimate authority for endorsement as a sign of God’s confirmation.  When what we decide is against appointed authority, we must understand that obedience is what the Lord asks of us as in the case of Abram.

Written by The Most Rev William Goh, Roman Catholic Archbishop of Singapore © All Rights Reserved