Thursday, 22 August 2019

EVANGELIZE THROUGH A LIVING FAITH AND UNCONDITIONAL LOVE

20190823 EVANGELIZE THROUGH A LIVING FAITH AND UNCONDITIONAL LOVE


23 AUGUST, 2019, Friday, 20th Week, Ordinary Time
Readings at Mass
Liturgical Colour: Green.

First reading
Ruth 1:1,3-6,14-16,22 ©

Ruth the Moabitess is brought to Bethlehem by Naomi
In the days of the Judges famine came to the land and a certain man from Bethlehem of Judah went – he, his wife and his two sons – to live in the country of Moab. Elimelech, Naomi’s husband, died, and she and her two sons were left. These married Moabite women: one was named Orpah and the other Ruth. They lived there about ten years. Then both Mahlon and Chilion also died and the woman was bereft of her two sons and her husband. So she and her daughters-in-law prepared to return from the country of Moab, for she had heard that the Lord had visited his people and given them food. Then Orpah kissed her mother-in-law and went back to her people. But Ruth clung to her.
  Naomi said to her, ‘Look, your sister-in-law has gone back to her people and to her god. You must return too; follow your sister-in-law.’
  But Ruth said, ‘Do not press me to leave you and to turn back from your company, for
‘wherever you go, I will go,
wherever you live, I will live.
Your people shall be my people,
and your God, my God.’
This was how Naomi, she who returned from the country of Moab, came back with Ruth the Moabitess her daughter-in-law. And they came to Bethlehem at the beginning of the barley harvest.

Responsorial Psalm
Psalm 145(146):5-10 ©
My soul, give praise to the Lord.
or
Alleluia!
He is happy who is helped by Jacob’s God,
  whose hope is in the Lord his God,
who alone made heaven and earth,
  the seas and all they contain.
My soul, give praise to the Lord.
or
Alleluia!
It is he who keeps faith for ever,
  who is just to those who are oppressed.
It is he who gives bread to the hungry,
  the Lord, who sets prisoners free,
My soul, give praise to the Lord.
or
Alleluia!
the Lord who gives sight to the blind,
  who raises up those who are bowed down,
the Lord, who protects the stranger
  and upholds the widow and orphan.
My soul, give praise to the Lord.
or
Alleluia!
It is the Lord who loves the just
  but thwarts the path of the wicked.
The Lord will reign for ever,
  Zion’s God, from age to age.
My soul, give praise to the Lord.
or
Alleluia!

Gospel Acclamation
Ps118:18
Alleluia, alleluia!
Open my eyes, O Lord, that I may consider
the wonders of your law.
Alleluia!
Or:
Ps24:4,5
Alleluia, alleluia!
Teach me your paths, my God,
make me walk in your truth.
Alleluia!

Gospel
Matthew 22:34-40 ©

The commandments of love
When the Pharisees heard that Jesus had silenced the Sadducees they got together and, to disconcert him, one of them put a question, ‘Master, which is the greatest commandment of the Law?’ Jesus said, ‘You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the greatest and the first commandment. The second resembles it: You must love your neighbour as yourself. On these two commandments hang the whole Law, and the Prophets also.’

EVANGELIZE THROUGH A LIVING FAITH AND UNCONDITIONAL LOVE

SCRIPTURE READINGS: [ Ruth 1:1.3-6.14-16.22Ps 146:5-10Mt 22:34-40   ]
Quite often, Catholics are at a lost when it comes to the work of evangelization.  Many feel diffident to talk about their faith for fear that they cannot answer the questions and objections that people might have with regard to the faith or even belief in God.  Sometimes parents also find it difficult to get their children to attend church services or to practise the faith.  Many of their children no longer go to church or believe in God.  They feel helpless in converting them.  This is also true if we have unbelievers at home, whether it is our spouse or siblings or in-laws.  How can we help them to accept Christ, especially when we are not allowed to preach to them since it only drives them further away?
Today, the scripture readings give us the answer.  In the gospel, Jesus said, “You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.  This is the greatest and the first commandment.  The second resembles it: you must love your neighbour as yourself.”  Why is this the case?  Why must we love God and only then our neigbours?
This two-fold principle laid down by the Lord seems to be contradicted in the first reading because it was the love of Naomi for her daughters-in-law that inspired Ruth to follow her.  From a cursory reading, this seems to be the case.  The love of neighbour is the way to bring people to love God and have faith in Him.
Ruth was certainly inspired by the faith of Naomi, her mother-in-law and her unconditional love for them.  Indeed, how many of us can have Naomi’s disposition if, like her, we went through so much sufferings; first experiencing famine and having to migrate to a foreign land with her husband.  Then her husband died, leaving her a widow.  As if that was not enough, her two sons also died. What greater loss can a woman have than to lose her husband and her two sons?  Anyone who was in her shoes would have felt the abandonment of God. Most of us would have completely given up our faith in God’s love.  We would have become resentful and angry with God.  But not Naomi.  She remained faithful and in love with God.
But it was not just the faith of Naomi; it was her unconditional and non-possessive love.  She is certainly a class above many of our mothers-in-law!  Being a widow in a foreign land, and then returning home to her country, how could she, a woman, survive without a man to care for her?  Yet, she was not concerned about her security and self-interests.  She understood the hearts of her daughters-in-law.  They were Moabites and they had their own gods.  She did not want to force them to come along with her to Israel because she had nothing to offer them.  She was conscious that both of them were still young and they had a future ahead of them.  Hence, instead of keeping them with her, she said to them, “Go back each of you to your mother’s house. The Lord grant that you may find security, each of you in the house of your husband.  Turn back, my daughters, why will you go with me? Turn back, my daughters, go your way, for I am too old to have a husband. No, my daughters, it has been far more bitter for me than for you, because the hand of the Lord has turned against me.” (cf Ruth 1:8-13) What generosity and selflessness! She was ready to let them go unconditionally.  She did not try to keep them with her by using emotional blackmail; that she would be left alone with no one to look after her.  She was more worried about their future than hers!
In the face of such exemplary and unyielding faith in God and her unconditional love for them, one of her daughters-in-law chose to remain with her.  “Ruth clung to her. Naomi said to her, ‘Look, your sister-in-law has gone back to her people and to her god. You must return too; follow your sister-in-law.’  But Ruth said, ‘Do not press me to leave you and to turn back from your company, for wherever you go, I will go, wherever you live, I will live.”  If the faith and love of Naomi was inspiring, the reciprocal love of Ruth was equally moving and touching.  She did not have to stay back and suffer with Naomi but she insisted on following her back.
Ruth further said to her, “Your people shall be my people, and your God, my God.”  Indeed, when we love someone, we love all that the person loves as well.  This is the true meaning of love.  Because Ruth loved Noami, she also chose to love her people and make them her own; and so also Noami’s God.  Loving someone is to make the person happy and happiness includes loving those others that the person loves.  It is the same for Jesus.  The second person of the Trinity emptied Himself to become man because He loves His Father.   “I do as the Father has commanded me, so that the world may know that I love the Father.  (Jn 14:31)  Jesus gave up His life freely for the love of His Father and those whom the Father loved, which is humanity.  “For this reason the Father loves me, because I lay down my life in order to take it up again. No one takes it from me, but I lay it down of my own accord. I have power to lay it down, and I have power to take it up again. I have received this command from my Father.”  (Jn 10:17f)
So whilst it is true that Ruth was converted to the faith and followed Naomi back to Israel because of the love and faith of Noami, this would not have happened unless Noami had first loved God.  If Noami could love so unconditionally and freely without being possessive, it was because she must have first loved God.  Without a deep faith in God and love for Him, she would not have had the courage to go back home alone without any of her children with her.  In spite of her misfortunes and sufferings, she continued to place her total trust in God.  This explains why the Lord insisted that loving God is the first and the greatest of all commandments.
But why should we love God if we were in Naomi’s situation, feeling the abandonment of God?  The truth is that unless we love God first, He would not be able to show us His love.  Only when we trust in Him against all odds and possibilities, would He be able demonstrate to us the power of His love when He shows His hand.  Loving God is but to give God access to our lives and to welcome Him into our hearts.  In loving God, we allow Him to love us.  That is why we are called to spend time in personal prayer and intimacy with the Lord.  It is not so much that God needs us to spend time with Him; rather, it is to give Him the hospitality that is required for Him to touch our hearts and enlighten our minds.  When we pray to Him, read the Word of God or celebrate the Eucharist or join in worship, we allow God to enter into our hearts.
Prayer and worship is where our relationship with God begins.  This is when love begins.  When we fall in love with Jesus, we will be like Ruth, who was inspired to love God and His people the way Noami loved her.  In being loved by Jesus, we, too, would seek to love His Father the way He loves us, to do His Father’s will the way He did, to reach out to the poor, the suffering and the sick as He showed us; and to forgive our enemies unconditionally the way He has forgiven us.  Evangelization therefore is the by-product of our own faith in God and His love for us.  We begin to share the good news with others in such a way that they are inspired to do the same because they see God’s love in us and our love for others.  If our loved ones have lost their faith, it is because we have been poor examples of faith and unconditional and non-possessive love for them.
If we love like Noami, there will be many Ruths in our lives.  Of course, having said that, we must remember that conversion is the work of God.  Not all will respond like Ruth in following her mother-in-law.  Orpah chose to return to her homeland.  This does not mean she was uninspired or ungrateful.  She was responding to God’s call.  She, too, having learnt from Naomi about unconditional love, would have done the same for her children and her loved ones.


Written by The Most Rev William Goh, Roman Catholic Archbishop of Singapore © All Rights Reserved

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