Sunday, 30 July 2017

A DISCERNING HEART

20170730 A DISCERNING HEART
Readings at Mass
Liturgical Colour: Green.

First reading
1 Kings 3:5,7-12 ©
The Lord appeared to Solomon in a dream and said, ‘Ask what you would like me to give you.’ Solomon replied, ‘O Lord my God, you have made your servant king in succession to David my father. But I am a very young man, unskilled in leadership. Your servant finds himself in the midst of this people of yours that you have chosen, a people so many its number cannot be counted or reckoned. Give your servant a heart to understand how to discern between good and evil, for who could govern this people of yours that is so great?’ It pleased the Lord that Solomon should have asked for this. ‘Since you have asked for this’ the Lord said ‘and not asked for long life for yourself or riches or the lives of your enemies, but have asked for a discerning judgement for yourself, here and now I do what you ask. I give you a heart wise and shrewd as none before you has had and none will have after you.’

Responsorial Psalm
Psalm 118(119):57,72,76-77,127-130 ©
Lord, how I love your law!
My part, I have resolved, O Lord,
  is to obey your word.
The law from your mouth means more to me
  than silver and gold.
Lord, how I love your law!
Let your love be ready to console me
  by your promise to your servant.
Let your love come and I shall live
  for your law is my delight.
Lord, how I love your law!
That is why I love your commands
  more than finest gold,
why I rule my life by your precepts,
  and hate false ways.
Lord, how I love your law!
Your will is wonderful indeed;
  therefore I obey it.
The unfolding of your word gives light
  and teaches the simple.
Lord, how I love your law!

Second reading
Romans 8:28-30 ©
We know that by turning everything to their good, God co-operates with all those who love him, with all those he has called according to his purpose. They are the ones he chose specially long ago and intended to become true images of his Son, so that his Son might be the eldest of many brothers. He called those he intended for this; those he called he justified, and with those he justified he shared his glory.

Gospel Acclamation
Jn15:15
Alleluia, alleluia!
I call you friends, says the Lord,
because I have made known to you
everything I have learnt from my Father.
Alleluia!
Or
Mt11:25
Alleluia, alleluia!
Blessed are you, Father, 
Lord of heaven and earth,
for revealing the mysteries of the kingdom
to mere children.kingdom.
Alleluia!
EITHER:
Gospel
Matthew 13:44-52 ©

He sells everything he owns and buys the field
Jesus said to the crowds, ‘The kingdom of heaven is like treasure hidden in a field which someone has found; he hides it again, goes off happy, sells everything he owns and buys the field.
  ‘Again, the kingdom of heaven is like a merchant looking for fine pearls; when he finds one of great value he goes and sells everything he owns and buys it.
  ‘Again, the kingdom of heaven is like a dragnet cast into the sea that brings in a haul of all kinds. When it is full, the fishermen haul it ashore; then, sitting down, they collect the good ones in a basket and throw away those that are no use. This is how it will be at the end of time: the angels will appear and separate the wicked from the just to throw them into the blazing furnace where there will be weeping and grinding of teeth.
  ‘Have you understood all this?’ They said, ‘Yes.’ And he said to them, ‘Well then, every scribe who becomes a disciple of the kingdom of heaven is like a householder who brings out from his storeroom things both new and old.’
OR:
Alternative Gospel
Matthew 13:44-46 ©

He sells everything he owns and buys the field
Jesus said to the crowds: ‘The kingdom of heaven is like treasure hidden in a field which someone has found; he hides it again, goes off happy, sells everything he owns and buys the field.
  ‘Again, the kingdom of heaven is like a merchant looking for fine pearls; when he finds one of great value he goes and sells everything he owns and buys it.’


A DISCERNING HEART

SCRIPTURE READINGS: [ 1 KGS 3:5,7-12ROM 8:28-30MT 13:44-52 or MT 13:44-46 ]
Everyone seeks happiness in life.  No one wants to suffer.  We seek the things that can make us happy; pleasure, comfort, love, unity and peace.  But what brings us misery is the means by which we use to achieve our desires.  Many of us mistake the means for the ends.  As a result, some of us are consumed by the means and forget the real objectives we seek in life.  Indeed, many of us think that money is everything when money is only a means to provide comfort and security.  But money cannot buy love or peace.  In fact, too much money causes us as much worry as one who lacks money.   The desire for wealth is the cause of much division, corruption, cheating, dishonesty and even killing.  It is the same for the desire for power.  We all desire security and we think that power can give us security when in truth the more powerful we are, the more insecure we become.  Rich and powerful people are the most insecure people in the world and that is why they need lots of security around them.
What we need is a discerning heart to know what is truly good for us, to distinguish the means from the ends.  What is the use of having the means when the end is not attained?  What is the use of having lots of money when the family is alienated and we are distant from each other because we have no time for one another? What is the use of power and fame at the expense of our freedom to be who we are and what we are, to go where we like?  Indeed, it is the lack of discernment that causes us to suffer much in life.  We make the wrong decisions.  We choose the wrong things in life.  Most of us tend to choose what is obvious or pleasing to the eye and heart without considering the long term implications.  This is the foolishness of the world today; the world of consumerism, the world of immediate gratification.  People today cannot wait.  They must get what they want in an instant.  So many of the policies that are put in place today are to satisfy the wants of the people but we do not think of the long term implications for our children, the future generation and the future of humanity.  Whether it is the question of euthanasia, divorce, same-sex union, promiscuity, and all the other bio ethical issues, and the effects of globalization and migration, ecology, we never really give serious thought to the implications of such trends.
The art of discernment is the theme of all the scripture readings today.  King Solomon, when invited to ask a gift from the Lord asked for a discerning heart.  “Give your servant a heart to understand how to discern between good and evil, for who could govern this people of yours that is so great?”  So too in the gospel, Jesus spoke of the parable of the dragnet.  “When it is full, the fishermen haul it ashore; then, sitting down, they collect the good ones in a basket and throw away those that are no use.”  Judgment is inevitable.
When we know how to make proper discernment, we will find ultimate happiness.  The Lord was pleased with Solomon.  “’Since you have asked for this’ the Lord said ‘and not asked for long life for yourself or riches or the lives of your enemies, but have asked for a discerning judgement for yourself, here and now I do what you ask. I give you a heart wise and shrewd as none before you has had and none will have after you.’”  Truly, when we make right choices, the rest would also be given to us.  We protect the other things of life as well, such as wealth, status and power.  When we use them wisely for the good and service of all, we preserve what we have and even increase them all the more.  Wise judgement will spare us the time to repair damages caused by imprudent decisions.
How, then, do we make proper discernment? Judgement on objective matters is much easier than matters of the heart.  King Solomon did very well as a king.  He was able to govern the people with wisdom, impartiality and justice.  Indeed, he was a very capable king and was able to unite the kingdom.  It was during his reign that the kingdom became prosperous, strong, united and famous, so much so that the Queen of Sheba came to visit him.  (cf 1 Kgs 10:1-13)
However, when it came to personal matters, Solomon made a mess of his life.  He did not know how to handle his personal affairs.  He had everything cut out for him.  He received a sound religious education from his father, King David.  He was a promising youth and intellectually brilliant.  He completed building the temple of Jerusalem for his father.  But what caused his downfall was his self-indulgence, his sin of the flesh.  Morally, he was weak and fell into the sin of lust.  He failed to listen to the prophet on avoiding bad companions.  He took in foreign wives that did not share his faith.  He turned to other gods as well, influenced by his pagan wives.  His wealth also became a source of temptation for him.  He was too extravagant and that led to increased taxation and suffering for the people.
How true for us too!  We can be successful in our career and in our work but when it comes to running the family, including our marriage, we are a failure.  We cannot live in peace and love with our spouse.  We are always fighting with each other, arguing and cannot agree on anything.  Instead of being a support and helpmate to each other, we become a checkmate and a judge.  We are not on good terms with our children and in-laws as well.  We do not have enough time to spend with them.  The relationship becomes distant and so we are strangers to each other.  We no longer enjoy each other’s company and we avoid each other more and more.  Very soon, from strangers, we become enemies of each other.   So what is the use of our success?  Successful in work and business but failure in famly life! This is the greatest form of failure and the cause of misery and loneliness!
How then do we discern?  We must put God first in our lives.  This is what the two parables of the pearl and treasure seek to teach us.  The first man discovers the treasure that is hidden in a field and he goes off to sell everything to buy it. He would pay anything to buy that treasure. This treasure meant everything to him.  The other merchant found a pearl of great value.  He too went and sold everything to buy it.  Such was the price they were willing to pay to obtain what they discerned to be the ultimate happiness in their lives.  Is God our treasure of all treasures?  Is Christ the Word of God and the Wisdom of God in person for us?  If so, then Jesus says, “Strive first for the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”  (Mt 6:33)
To seek the Kingdom of God and His righteousness is to live like sons and daughters of God.  As St Paul reminds us, “They are the ones he chose specially long ago and intended to become true images of his Son, so that his Son might be the eldest of many brothers. He called those he intended for this; those he called he justified, and with those he justified he shared his glory.”   We are called to live the life of Christ which is a life of love, service and compassion, for the glory of God and for the good of our fellowmen.
Consequently, as children of God, we live by the will of God.  When we put God as the ultimate treasure in our lives, all that we do will be subordinated to the rule of God in our lives.  Our measure of judgement will be the measure God judges us with.  The psalmist says, “you are justified in your sentence and blameless when you pass judgment.”  (Ps 51:4)  The responsorial psalm urges us to take the laws of God as our guiding principles in life. “Lord, how I love your law!  My part, I have resolved, O Lord, is to obey your word.  The law from your mouth means more to me than silver and gold. That is why I love your commands more than finest gold, why I rule my life by your precepts, and hate false ways.”
Indeed, if we cooperate with the will of God, then He will ensure that everything will turn out for our good.  This is what St Paul says.  “We know that by turning everything to their good, God co-operates with all those who love him, with all those that he has called according to his purpose.”   He will give us the necessary means, as He gave to Solomon the wisdom that he needed to guide his peoples, but He asks for our co-operation.  It is not enough to pray for the gifts of God, if we do not use them accordingly in our daily life.  Unless we use it well, we will only destroy ourselves and those under our care.  But if we do, then we will find ultimate happiness and joy in life.

Written by The Most Rev William Goh, Roman Catholic Archbishop of Singapore © All Rights Reserved


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