20171221 BEING A JOYFUL
MESSENGER OF LOVE
Readings
at Mass
Liturgical
Colour: Violet.
EITHER:
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First
reading
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Song of Songs 2:8-14 ©
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I hear my Beloved.
See how he comes
leaping on the mountains,
bounding over the hills.
My Beloved is like a gazelle,
like a young stag.
See where he stands
behind our wall.
He looks in at the window,
he peers through the lattice.
My Beloved lifts up his voice,
he says to me,
‘Come then, my love,
my lovely one, come.
For see, winter is past,
the rains are over and gone.
The flowers appear on the earth.
The season of glad songs has come,
the cooing of the turtledove is heard
in our land.
The fig tree is forming its first figs
and the blossoming vines give out their fragrance.
Come then, my love,
my lovely one, come.
My dove, hiding in the clefts of the rock,
in the coverts of the cliff,
show me your face,
let me hear your voice;
for your voice is sweet
and your face is beautiful.’
OR:
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Alternative
First reading
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Zephaniah 3:14-18 ©
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Shout for joy, daughter of Zion,
Israel, shout aloud!
Rejoice, exult with all your heart,
daughter of Jerusalem!
The Lord has repealed your sentence;
he has driven your enemies away.
The Lord, the king of Israel, is in your midst;
you have no more evil to fear.
When that day comes, word will come to Jerusalem:
Zion, have no fear,
do not let your hands fall limp.
The Lord your God is in your midst,
a victorious warrior.
He will exult with joy over you,
he will renew you by his love;
he will dance with shouts of joy for you
as on a day of festival.
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Responsorial Psalm
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Psalm 32(33):2-3,11-12,20-21 ©
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Ring out your joy to the Lord, O you just; O
sing him a song that is new.
Give thanks to the Lord upon the harp,
with a ten-stringed lute sing him songs.
O sing him a song that is new,
play loudly, with all your skill.
Ring out your joy to the Lord, O you just; O
sing him a song that is new.
His own designs shall stand for ever,
the plans of his heart from age to age.
They are happy, whose God is the Lord,
the people he has chosen as his own.
Ring out your joy to the Lord, O you just; O
sing him a song that is new.
Our soul is waiting for the Lord.
The Lord is our help and our shield.
In him do our hearts find joy.
We trust in his holy name.
Ring out your joy to the Lord, O you just; O
sing him a song that is new.
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Gospel Acclamation
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Alleluia, alleluia!
Key of David, who open the gates of the eternal kingdom,
come to liberate from prison
the captive who lives in darkness.
Alleluia!
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Or
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Alleluia, alleluia!
Emmanuel,
our king and lawgiver,
come and save us,
Lord our God.
Alleluia!
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Gospel
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Luke 1:39-45 ©
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Mary set out and went as quickly as she could to a town in the
hill country of Judah. She went into Zechariah’s house and greeted Elizabeth.
Now as soon as Elizabeth heard Mary’s greeting, the child leapt in her womb and
Elizabeth was filled with the Holy Spirit. She gave a loud cry and said, ‘Of
all women you are the most blessed, and blessed is the fruit of your womb. Why
should I be honoured with a visit from the mother of my Lord? For the moment
your greeting reached my ears, the child in my womb leapt for joy. Yes, blessed
is she who believed that the promise made her by the Lord would be fulfilled.’
21 DECEMBER, 2017, Thursday, 3rd Week of Advent
BEING A JOYFUL MESSENGER OF LOVE
SCRIPTURE READINGS: [ Song of Songs
2:8-14 or Zep 3:14-18a; Ps 32:2-3,11-12,20-21; Luke 1:39-45 ]
Many of us
are living a joyless life. We are grouchy, irritable, negative in thought and words, jealous
and always putting others down. Such people unconsciously drive people
away from them. Then they lament, “I have no friends. No one loves
me. I feel lonely and rejected.” But what is the cause? It is
because they do not reach out to others. Instead of extending their hands
in friendship, being warm, gracious, welcoming and affirming, we drive people
away from us by our low self-esteem and insecurity.
So how do
they overcome their insecurity and lack of capacity to love? They drown themselves in
work and in studies, hoping that they would be recognized for their work and
academic achievements. They seek glory and honour from the world.
Or else, they indulge in fine dining, expensive holidays and
shopping. But their hearts remain empty because they know that the
praise of the world is shallow. The moment we are no longer performing or
at the top, the world will abandon us. Food and holidays without our loved ones
are meaningless.
Indeed, for
such people, the most important thing in life is missing. They do not
have a beloved. In spite of our success, even when we have plenty of money and
luxuries and are doing well in our career, achieving fame and recognition,
without someone to share our joys and our fruits, life is incomplete. It
is empty. This is because we are created for love. We cannot just
live for ourselves or seek to love ourselves directly. We live and love
ourselves only when we live for others and love others.
However, one
cannot love unless one is loved. This is the basic axiom of life. We cannot give what we do
not have. We need to be loved. This is why in the first reading,
from the Book of Song of Songs, we have the beautiful description of a lover
seeking for her beloved. Only when we are loved, can we find
the strength and the joy to share our love with others. This was the case
of Mary in the gospel. When she was so loved by God to be chosen to be
the mother of the Saviour, her immediate concern was not about herself but to
share her love and joy with her cousin, Elizabeth, who was pregnant in her old
age. Her reaching out to Elizabeth was spontaneous and
immediate. The gospel says, “Mary set out at that time and went as
quickly as she could to a town in the hill country of Judah.”
To find our
beloved, we must wait patiently. Some of us are still waiting for our beloved to
come into our lives. We must be patient. We cannot rush into any
relationship. When our beloved comes, we will know. The waiting and
the yearning in our hearts must keep us attentive to the voice of our
beloved. Like the lover, she said, “I hear my Beloved. See how he
comes leaping on the mountains, bounding over the hills. My Beloved is like a
gazelle, like a young stag. See where he stands behind our wall. He looks in at
the window, he peers through the lattice.”
Sometimes,
our beloved is not ready to be reconciled with us. This was true in the
case of today’s first reading. The Book of Song of Songs should be read
in the context of the book of lamentations. Israel was the bride of God
but they abandoned the Lord. She was unfaithful and worshipped the
idols. So they were banished to Babylon to reflect on their actions and
so come to repentance. Very often it is in suffering and pain that we
come to understand ourselves better. This is true in a broken
relationship. Not all failed relationships are to be seen
negatively. They are stepping stones to build stronger relationships
through our mistakes. The next time, we learn how to be more mature and
giving in love.
When the time
of waiting is over, when “winter is past, the rains are over and gone. The flowers
appear on the earth. The season of glad songs has come, the cooing of the
turtledove is heard in our land. The fig tree is forming its first figs and the
blossoming vines give out their fragrance.” So we must be
patient. The joy of meeting her beloved helped her to forget all
her past and all her sufferings. When she heard the voice of her beloved,
she was filled with joy. The patient waiting for her beloved to come was
worth the wait. She was complete.
Yet, we
cannot love generously and selflessly unless we are filled with God’s love. This is why we need
to seek our true beloved, which is our Lord who alone can give us the capacity
to love. If our love is dependent on human love, then we are drawing out
the love from each other. But that kind of love is so conditional.
I love you as much as you love me. And if we lack the capacity to love,
then it means that human love will remain unsatisfying since we cannot truly
love each other fully. For this reason, the capacity to love cannot come
from human love alone but ultimately from the love of God.
Consequently,
we are called to be loved by God. “Come then, my love, my lovely one,
come. My
dove, hiding in the clefts of the rock, in the coverts of the cliff, show me
your face, let me hear your voice; for your voice is sweet and your face is
beautiful.” The Lord our beloved desires us. He wants to love
us. The Lord is coming into our lives. How is He coming
into our lives?
Firstly,
through the infilling of the Holy Spirit. It is notable that Mary set out
immediately to share her joy after she was overshadowed by the Holy Spirit. She set out in haste
to share the joy of her election as the mother of the savior but more
importantly, the joy of her cousin in her old age conceiving a
child. We read that when Mary reached her house, the Holy Spirit
also touched the heart of Elizabeth and she in turn, infused with the Holy
Spirit, cried out in joy, exclaiming, “Of all women you are the most blessed,
and blessed is the fruit of your womb. Why should I be honoured with a visit
from the mother of my Lord? For the moment your greeting reached my ears, the
child in my womb leapt for joy.” It was the same Holy Spirit that
inspired Elizabeth with the knowledge of Mary as the mother of the Saviour even
before Mary could tell her what happened. Through this confirmation of
Elizabeth, Mary too was reassured that what the Lord said to her was true.
Secondly,
that joy is always the manifestation of a loving encounter with God. We
read how John the Baptist was also filled with the joy of the Holy Spirit in
the womb of Elizabeth, fulfilling the prophecy of the angel when he said to
Zechariah, “even before his birth he will be filled with the Holy
Spirit.” (Lk 1:15) The joy of John the Baptist was visible when he
encountered the Lord in the womb of Mary. “Now as soon as Elizabeth heard
Mary’s greeting, the child leapt in her womb and Elizabeth was filled with the
Holy Spirit.” So all of them were filled with the Spirit through the
encounter between the two mothers and the two sons. When we are filled
with the Holy Spirit, joy is always the manifestation.
Thirdly, this
joy is genuine joy because it is a joy to rejoice with others. Mary did not visit
Elizabeth to boast of her new position as the mother of the Saviour. She
went to celebrate with Elizabeth in her pregnancy and to render her
assistance. On the other hand, Elizabeth did not grudge that Mary
has a greater honour than her for she was carrying the savior, whereas she was
only carrying the forerunner of the Lord. She did not envy Mary but was
able to rejoice with her. She acknowledged with great humility that she
was graced with the honour of the Mother of her Lord visiting her and she
acknowledged that it was Mary’s faith in the impossible that God graced her
with this role of being the mother of the Saviour. “Yes, blessed is she who
believed that the promise made her by the Lord would be fulfilled.” Mary
and Elizabeth were one with each other in joy. We too will know we have
the liberating joy of the Holy Spirit if we can rejoice with those who rejoice.
(Rom 12:15)
So today, if
we want to be filled with the joy of the Holy Spirit and be able to share that
joy with others in unconditional love, we need to wait patiently for the Lord
to enter into our lives. We must begin by yearning for Him like a lover for her
beloved. Whilst we spend the time waiting, we do not wait passively, but
take the trouble to look for the Lord so that when we find Him, we will be able
to enter into His joy. With the psalmist, we pray, “Our soul is
waiting for the Lord. The Lord is our help and our shield. In him do our hearts
find joy. We trust in his holy name.”
Finally, we
can help each other to encounter the Lord by being messengers of joy and love
to each other, like Mary and Elizabeth, encouraging each other in our journey and rejoicing with
each other in our discovery. Indeed, we must never travel alone in our
faith journey. Mary and Elizabeth had each other. So we have the
church to journey with us. She is there to encourage us and to assist
us. So let us, “Ring out your joy to the Lord, O you just; O sing
him a song that is new. Give thanks to the Lord upon the harp, with a
ten-stringed lute sing him songs. O sing him a song that is new, play loudly,
with all your skill.” Through worshiping and sharing the Word of God, our
living testimonies of God’s love in our lives, we too can help each other to
encounter the Lord in our hearts.
Written by The Most Rev William Goh, Roman Catholic Archbishop of
Singapore © All Rights Reserved
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