Wednesday, 21 February 2018

SUSTAINING THE ZEAL OF THE SHEPHERD

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Readings at Mass
Liturgical Colour: White.

First reading
1 Peter 5:1-4 ©

Watch over the flock, not simply as a duty but gladly
Now I have something to tell your elders: I am an elder myself, and a witness to the sufferings of Christ, and with you I have a share in the glory that is to be revealed. Be the shepherds of the flock of God that is entrusted to you: watch over it, not simply as a duty but gladly, because God wants it; not for sordid money, but because you are eager to do it. Never be a dictator over any group that is put in your charge, but be an example that the whole flock can follow. When the chief shepherd appears, you will be given the crown of unfading glory.

Responsorial Psalm
Psalm 22(23) ©
The Lord is my shepherd: there is nothing I shall want.
The Lord is my shepherd;
  there is nothing I shall want.
Fresh and green are the pastures
  where he gives me repose.
Near restful waters he leads me,
  to revive my drooping spirit.
The Lord is my shepherd: there is nothing I shall want.
He guides me along the right path;
  he is true to his name.
If I should walk in the valley of darkness
  no evil would I fear.
You are there with your crook and your staff;
  with these you give me comfort.
The Lord is my shepherd: there is nothing I shall want.
You have prepared a banquet for me
  in the sight of my foes.
My head you have anointed with oil;
  my cup is overflowing.
The Lord is my shepherd: there is nothing I shall want.
Surely goodness and kindness shall follow me
  all the days of my life.
In the Lord’s own house shall I dwell
  for ever and ever.
The Lord is my shepherd: there is nothing I shall want.

Gospel Acclamation
Mt16:18
Glory and praise to you, O Christ!
You are Peter, 
and on this rock I will build my Church.
And the gates of the underworld can never hold out against it.
Glory and praise to you, O Christ!

Gospel
Matthew 16:13-19 ©

You are Peter and on this rock I will build my Church
When Jesus came to the region of Caesarea Philippi he put this question to his disciples, ‘Who do people say the Son of Man is?’ And they said, ‘Some say he is John the Baptist, some Elijah, and others Jeremiah or one of the prophets.’ ‘But you,’ he said ‘who do you say I am?’ Then Simon Peter spoke up, ‘You are the Christ,’ he said ‘the Son of the living God.’ Jesus replied, ‘Simon son of Jonah, you are a happy man! Because it was not flesh and blood that revealed this to you but my Father in heaven. So I now say to you: You are Peter and on this rock I will build my Church. And the gates of the underworld can never hold out against it. I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven: whatever you bind on earth shall be considered bound in heaven; whatever you loose on earth shall be considered loosed in heaven.’


22 FEBRUARY, 2018, Thursday, Chair of St Peter, The Apostle
SUSTAINING THE ZEAL OF THE SHEPHERD

SCRIPTURE READINGS: [ 1 Peter 5:1-4Psalm 23:1-6Matthew 16:13-19 ]
St Peter made it clear from the outset that to be a shepherd is to be a witness to the sufferings of Christ.  He said, “I have something to tell your elders: I am elder myself, and a witness to the sufferings of Christ.”  This is something we do not think much about.  Many of us tend to focus on the privileges, the limelight and the glory of being a shepherd of Christ.  Some might even think that priesthood can be an escape from the responsibilities of married life; that it is just another form of a bachelor lifestyle with an iron rice bowl.   Indeed, this is the way the priestly and religious vocation is sometimes being promoted.  They show you pictures of the joy of ministering to the people of God and living like brothers and sisters in the community.  It is the same for marriage as well.  Often, married life is presented in such a blissful and loving manner, one is persuaded to believe it to be the ideal life, a lifelong romance every day.
But they do not tell you as Jesus did, “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me”. (Mt 16:24) Indeed, it is only when you have become a priest, a religious or when you get married, that you realize that the ideal and the reality do not match.  It is only a goal to be reached and to strive for.  Unless we are prepared, many of us will become disillusioned, whether we enter a priestly and religious state of life or get married.  We see many marriages start so well, but when the reality of building strong relationships sets in, clouded by financial and work issues, in-laws and children, sickness and the elderly, etc, some cannot take it and want to divorce.  So too many priests suffer disillusionment and burn out when they get into the thick and thin of the ministry; and some eventually leave the priesthood.
Often the laity do not understand the challenges and sufferings of their shepherds.  Conversely, priests and religious are guilty too of not being able to identify with the struggles of the ordinary man and woman, especially at work and family life.  This is understandable as we live in quite different worlds in terms of lifestyle, needs and struggles.   Although the situations are different, the feelings are similar.
When St Peter exhorted the elders to “be the shepherds of the flock of God that is entrusted to you” it is often taken for granted.  How many of us parents are always conscious of our role as shepherds of the flock under our care?  Do we see them as God’s children entrusted to our care, or do we see them as our children and property for us to dispose as we see fit?  The truth is that priests often forget that the people of God under their charge belong to God.  We are only caretakers.  They do not belong to us and therefore we cannot do as we wish with them, but only according to what the Lord wants of us.   As St Peter says, “because God wants it.”
This situation happens because we see them as strangers and workers.  There is a lack of intimacy between the shepherd and the sheep.  This can also happen between parents and children when the former are seen as financial providers and disciplinary masters.   Many parents are so absorbed in their career, business, work and their social life so much so they neglect to spend quality and personal time with their children.  So too for the priest.  He is more concerned with the work, the activities of the church, the administration, but he does not know the sufferings, the aspirations and the struggles of his people.  This is why sometimes shepherds lack empathy for the sheep.  They are treated like a case that should be gotten rid of quickly.
Secondly, St Peter exhorts the shepherd to “watch over it, not simply as a duty but gladly.”  Loving those who love us is easy. (cf Mt 5:46f)  But when those whom we love and sacrifice our life for take us for granted and even bite the hand that feeds them, it is a different take.   When they misunderstand our kindness and actions, slander us in public, complain about us and level charges against us that are not true, how do you continue to love them gladly?  When we are unappreciated, it is only natural for us to retaliate or at least give up loving them.  Isn’t this how parents and workers feel when they are unappreciated, or worse still, accused of things they never did?
Thirdly, St Peter says, in exercising authority as a shepherd, “never be a dictator over any group that is put in your charge.”   Indeed, there are cases when those in authority are dictatorial in the way they command those under their charge.  They make decisions without consultation and enforce rules against the will of the larger community.   But in many cases, the real dictator is not the shepherd but the sheep under his or her charge.  They are the ones demanding that the shepherd does this and that.  Whatever decisions the shepherd makes, he or she is condemned by his or her detractors and opponents.  Everyone wants his or her opinion not just to be heard but to be followed.  This is the greatest challenge in any community – fostering unity through persuasion to bring all to a common stance, because the truth is that it is impossible to please everyone.   That is why some just give up and stop taking initiative, because there are just too many opinions for just about everything.  But of course, they too will be condemned for being lazy and complacent.   So they resign from leadership!
This explains why shepherds – priests, leaders and parents – suffer disillusionment and low morale.   Instead of working for the love of the people, which was their initial motive, they do exactly what St Peter warns us, not to work “for sordid money, but because you are eager to do it.”  The zeal and eagerness is often lost because of the frustrations in leadership.  When they experience rejection, alienation, loneliness and fatigue, they start to look for compensation in their lives.  Some would indulge in worldly pleasures, socializing, eating and drinking, holidaying, or just hang out with close friends who could give them the consolation and support they need.  Others, fed up with the ministry, eventually leave and live their own lives.  Those who do not leave because they have no choice, become a problem to everyone, including themselves.  They end up as irritable, edgy, grumpy, angry and impatient priests.
How, then, can anyone who is in leadership truly live out the call of St Peter to “be an example that the whole flock can follow.”?   How can we be calm in the face of difficulties and challenges?  How can we remain patient and forgiving and not vindictive when we are accused falsely and misunderstood?  How can we continue to love and help those who are our enemies and who hurt us and our name?   It is indeed very challenging to repay good for evil, kindness for injury.
There is only one way, when the shepherds are in union with the Chief Shepherd, our Lord Jesus Christ.   Only when we are one with Christ our good shepherd, can we find solace and consolation.  We seek His consolation particularly in prayer and meditation.   With the psalmist, we say, “Fresh and green are the pastures where he gives me repose.  Near restful waters he leads me, to revive my drooping spirit.”  In prayer, we seek His wisdom.  “He guides me along the right path; he is true to his name.  If I should walk in the valley of darkness no evil would I fear.  You are there with your crook and your staff; with these you give me comfort.” Indeed, let our prayer be, “The Lord is my shepherd; there is nothing I shall want.”
Secondly, with St Peter, shepherds need to confess from their heart, “You are the Christ, the Son of the living God.”  Without this confession of faith in Christ, our faith will be weak and built on sand.  How else do we explain why priests, religious and very active and zealous Catholics leave the Church because they have been hurt or disillusioned?  This is because their faith is founded in human beings and in their activities, not on Christ as the Son of the Living God.  Only with this faith, could Jesus say to St Peter, “You are Peter and on this rock I will build my Church. And the gates of the underworld can never hold out against it. I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven: whatever you bind on earth shall be considered bound in heaven; whatever you loose on earth shall be considered loosed in heaven.”
Only because of our faith in Christ, can we submit in obedience to the Holy Father as the Vicar of Christ on earth even though we might disagree with him.   In humility, we recognize him as the Lord’s appointed vicar for the Church.  Being in union with the Holy Father, is what today’s feast is inviting us to do.  The chair of St Peter speaks of his authority to govern and rule the Church.  In the final analysis, he has been given the gift of revelation in authentic teaching as Jesus said, “Simon son of Jonah, you are a happy man! Because it was not flesh and blood that revealed this to you but my Father in heaven.”  By extension, the local Church is invited to be in union with the local bishop, just as he is in union with the Holy Father.
In the final analysis, let us realize that as shepherds we do not work just for this world but for the world to come.  This is our ultimate dream.  St Peter urges us in our suffering to think of the destiny ahead of us; to consider the future of the people we help and our future destiny.  St Peter asked us to keep our eyes on heaven.  Our suffering is not an end itself but for our glory.  St Peter consoles us, “I have a share in the glory that is to be revealed. When the chief shepherd appears, you will be given the crown of unfading glory.”  So we have only one life to live, let us live it well.  We have one love, for God and for His people, let us give all we can.

Written by The Most Rev William Goh, Roman Catholic Archbishop of Singapore © All Rights Reserved


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