20181212
OVERCOME WEARINESS
WITH CHRIST
Isa 40:25-31
25 To whom then will you compare me,
that
I should be like him? says the Holy One.
26 Lift up your eyes on high and see:
who
created these?
He
who brings out their host by number,
calling
them all by name;
by
the greatness of his might,
and
because he is strong in power not one is missing.
27 Why do you say,
O
Jacob, and speak, O Israel,
“My
way is hid from the Lord,
and
my right is disregarded by my God”?
28 Have you not known? Have you not heard?
The Lord is the everlasting God,
the
Creator of the ends of the earth.
He
does not faint or grow weary,
his
understanding is unsearchable.
29 He gives power to the faint,
and
to him who has no might he increases strength.
30 Even youths shall faint and be weary,
and
young men shall fall exhausted;
31 but they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength,
they
shall mount up with wings like eagles,
they
shall run and not be weary,
they
shall walk and not faint.
Ps 103:1-4
1 Bless the Lord, O my soul;
and
all that is within me, bless his holy name!
2 Bless the Lord, O my soul,
and
forget not all his benefits,
3 who forgives all your iniquity,
who
heals all your diseases,
4 who redeems your life from the Pit,
who
crowns you with steadfast love and mercy,
8 The Lord is merciful and gracious,
slow
to anger and abounding in steadfast love.
10 He does not deal with us according to our
sins,
nor
requite us according to our iniquities.
Mt 11:28-30
28 Come to me, all who labor
and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you,
and learn from me; for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest
for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy, and
my burden is light.”
12 DECEMBER, 2018, Wednesday, 2nd Week,
Advent
OVERCOME WEARINESS WITH CHRIST
SCRIPTURE
READINGS: [ISA 40:25-31; Ps
103:1-4, 8, 10; MT
11:28-30 ]
“Young
men may grow tired and weary, youths may stumble.” If the young who
have so much energy in them can grow tired and weary, what more for older
people who have responsibilities in life, either for the family, at work or in
organizations that they lead. Young people tend to be more carefree and
live for themselves. They tend to take life easy as they are still
dependent on their parents. But as they grow older, they learn not just
to take care of themselves but of others as they assume greater
responsibilities in life. Soon, they will come to know that life is not
just about living for oneself but to live for others, their loved ones, family,
friends, society, church and nation.
When
we are given new responsibilities, initially, we work with much passion and
excitement. We are enthusiastic and creative. Newly wedded couples
are happy, loving and romantic. A newly ordained priest wakes up to each
new day with much zeal and looks forward to new adventures and how to bring the
love of Christ and the Good News to others. So too is a new worker or a
new boss in a company. But the fact of life is that we get used to our
work, position and even the people around us. Very soon, we get tired of
our work, privileges, honors and even the people we work and live with.
We enter into the drudgery of life. Work and relationship become a
routine without excitement and joy. Marriage becomes stale and boring.
Work becomes a chore to get over with as soon as possible. Children whom
we welcome so happily into our homes become a burden rather than a bundle of
joy.
What
is the cause of weariness? The real weariness is not so much physical
weariness. For physical fatigue, all we need is to have a good
rest. Sleep and rest will restore the physical energy. Physical
rest will come naturally because we are physically drained. We will sleep
well knowing that we have done a good day’s job. We sleep peacefully with
a clear conscience, entrusting all that we could not complete to the Lord to
take care. Those who have worked hard and have done their best should be
able to sleep in peace without much disturbance. They would not have
insomnia and nightmares because their hearts and minds are at peace.
Whoever has done good and live a life of integrity sleeps soundly in the
Lord. Only a man with a clear conscience can sleep and rest in peace.
So
when Jesus said, “Come to me, all you who labour and are overburdened, and I
will give you rest”, He was referring not to those who were physically tired
but those suffering from spiritual emptiness and emotional
disillusionment. The weariness that sleep cannot resolve is the
exhaustion that comes from sin, selfishness and the law. Many of us are
burdened by the fact that we have not kept the laws. Observing the laws
of God are not always easy. Many of us live in guilt and fear because we
have failed to keep the laws. Then there are those burdened by sins and
their past. They live in regret and cannot forgive themselves or those
who have hurt them. Because of their pride and ego, they are not humble
to learn and grow.
Others
are overburdened because of insecurity and ambition. They need to prove
themselves, get attention from others, be praised and honored. So they
are filled with envy and jealousy. In their desire for success, they work
themselves to death and lose the perspective of life. They even neglect
their family and friends and God, simply because they want to prove to others
that they are successful in their career. Yet, even when they arrive, which
is an impossible goal, they remain dissatisfied. When our lives are
filled with anxiety, fear, difficult relationships, and competition with our
opponents, creating many enemies along the way, we become weary.
Instead
of realizing that it is our sins of pride, selfishness and ambition that are
causing us unhappiness and anxiety and failed relationships, we blame God and
others. That was the case of the Israelites in exile. They felt
that God had abandoned them and no longer care for them. In their exile,
they began to doubt the love and power of God. They forgot that it
was their sins that caused them to suffer. The Lord reprimanded them
saying, “How can you say, Jacob, how can you insist, Israel, ‘My destiny is
hidden from the Lord, my rights are ignored by my God’? Did you not know? Had
you not heard?”
The
truth is that our God is all-powerful and yet all merciful. “To whom
could you liken me and who could be my equal?’ says the Holy One. Lift your
eyes and look. Who made these stars if not he who drills them like an army,
calling each one by name? So mighty is his power, so great his strength, that
not one fails to answer.” God is our creator and He is all omnipotent and
omniscient. God is in control over His creation and His divine providence will
see us through. We should not doubt His love and His rule over creation. “The
Lord is an everlasting God; he created the boundaries of the earth. He does not
grow tired or weary, his understanding is beyond fathoming.” He is also
all merciful and compassionate when we sin against Him. The psalmist’s
experience was such when he prayed, “It is he who forgives all your guilt, who
heals every one of your ills, who redeems your life from the grave, who crowns
you with love and compassion. The Lord is compassion and love, slow to anger
and rich in mercy. He does not treat us according to our sins nor repay us
according to our faults.”
What
needs to change is not God’s providence and plan for us, but we need to change
our attitudes towards life. Jesus shows us how to find renewed
strength when we become weary and tired. He invites us to come to
Him. Indeed, as the prophet assures us, “those who hope in the Lord renew
their strength, they put out wings like eagles. They run and do not grow weary,
walk and never tire.” How is this possible? How can we find new
enthusiasm in life, in our relationships, in our marriage, in our work and in
our ministry? Jesus said, “Shoulder my yoke and learn from me, for I am
gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. Yes,
my yoke is easy and my burden light.”
To
shoulder the yoke of Jesus and learn from Him is to look at life from His
perspective. The yoke that we are asked to carry is the yoke of
Jesus. If Jesus asks us to carry the yoke with Him, it is because He
wants us to carry the cross the way He carried it, not with resentment or anger
but with loving obedience and self-sacrifice for the good of others, the glory
of God and one’s personal growth in holiness. In life, the pain of suffering
is not so much the physical suffering itself but the way we carry that
suffering. When it is carried in love and for love, even that suffering
becomes a great joy. When we suffer for the sake of our loved ones,
when we deprive ourselves of something so that others can enjoy, we feel
happy. So we do not mind suffering if we suffer for a greater good and
for our loved ones. That was the way Jesus suffered. He did not
carry the cross reluctantly but He chose to do it for us. He came to give
us life abundantly by dying for us.
Anything
that is done for love will not dissipate us. Instead, it will only
empower us to do more. When sacrifices are done for the sake of love,
there is no competition, no anxiety and no expectations. Only when we
work for ourselves, do we find tensions. Indeed, when one has no ambition
except to do good and leave the rest to God, a person can work with all his
heart and yet not worry too much about the result. As St Teresa of
Kolkata reminds us, we are called to be faithful, not successful. Hence,
Jesus said, “Shoulder my yoke and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in
heart, and you will find rest for your souls.” Only those who are
ambitious, crave for power, recognition and material gains are restless.
Finally,
it must be noted that the yoke of an animal is made in such a way that it fits
the animal. Otherwise, it would be uncomfortable and injure the
animal. In the same way too, we all have our crosses and responsibilities
in life. But we must realize that God never gives us a cross beyond what
we can carry. Every cross fits us just rightly. We too must accept
whatever crosses that come our way. There is a reason for
everything. Instead of denying or running away, we must, like Jesus, carry
our cross and follow after Him. So let us not complain about our
crosses. If we were to take other crosses, they will not fit us and we
will suffer even much more. God does not tempt or try us beyond our
strength.
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