Wednesday, 27 February 2019

PROTECTING THE VULNERABLE

20190228 PROTECTING THE VULNERABLE


28 FEBRUARY, 2019, Thursday, 7th Week, Ordinary Time
Readings at Mass
Liturgical Colour: Green.

First reading
Ecclesiasticus 5:1-10 ©

Do not delay your return to the Lord
Do not give your heart to your money,
  or say, ‘With this I am self-sufficient.’
Do not be led by your appetites and energy
  to follow the passions of your heart.
And do not say, ‘Who has authority over me?’
  for the Lord will certainly be avenged on you.
Do not say, ‘I sinned, and what happened to me?’
  for the Lord’s forbearance is long.
Do not be so sure of forgiveness
  that you add sin to sin.
And do not say, ‘His compassion is great,
  he will forgive me my many sins’;
for with him are both mercy and wrath,
  and his rage bears heavy on sinners.
Do not delay your return to the Lord,
  do not put it off day after day;
for suddenly the Lord’s wrath will blaze out,
  and at the time of vengeance you will be utterly destroyed.
Do not set your heart on ill-gotten gains,
  they will be of no use to you on the day of disaster.

Responsorial Psalm
Psalm 1:1-4,6 ©
Happy the man who has placed his trust in the Lord.
Happy indeed is the man
  who follows not the counsel of the wicked;
nor lingers in the way of sinners
  nor sits in the company of scorners,
but whose delight is the law of the Lord
  and who ponders his law day and night.
Happy the man who has placed his trust in the Lord.
He is like a tree that is planted
  beside the flowing waters,
that yields its fruit in due season
  and whose leaves shall never fade;
  and all that he does shall prosper.
Happy the man who has placed his trust in the Lord.
Not so are the wicked, not so!
For they like winnowed chaff
  shall be driven away by the wind:
for the Lord guards the way of the just
  but the way of the wicked leads to doom.
Happy the man who has placed his trust in the Lord.

Gospel Acclamation
cf.Lk8:15
Alleluia, alleluia!
Blessed are those who, 
with a noble and generous heart,
take the word of God to themselves
and yield a harvest through their perseverance.
Alleluia!
Or:
cf.1Th2:13
Alleluia, alleluia!
Accept God’s message for what it really is:
God’s message, and not some human thinking.
Alleluia!

Gospel
Mark 9:41-50 ©

If your hand should cause you to sin, cut it off
Jesus said to his disciples:
  ‘If anyone gives you a cup of water to drink just because you belong to Christ, then I tell you solemnly, he will most certainly not lose his reward.
  ‘But anyone who is an obstacle to bring down one of these little ones who have faith, would be better thrown into the sea with a great millstone round his neck. And if your hand should cause you to sin, cut it off; it is better for you to enter into life crippled, than to have two hands and go to hell, into the fire that cannot be put out. And if your foot should cause you to sin, cut it off; it is better for you to enter into life lame, than to have two feet and be thrown into hell. And if your eye should cause you to sin, tear it out; it is better for you to enter into the kingdom of God with one eye, than to have two eyes and be thrown into hell where their worm does not die nor their fire go out. For everyone will be salted with fire. Salt is a good thing, but if salt has become insipid, how can you season it again? Have salt in yourselves and be at peace with one another.’

PROTECTING THE VULNERABLE

SCRIPTURE READINGS: [Ecclesiasticus 5:1-8Ps 1:1-4,6Mk 9:41-50 ]
The gospel text today must be seen in relation to the earlier saying of Jesus that, “Whoever welcomes one such child in my name welcomes me, and whoever welcomes me welcomes not me but the one who sent me.” (Mk 9:37) In saying this, Jesus gives us the basic principle for human rights.  Every person, even if he were a child, insignificant he might appear to us, is a child of God.  Every person is identified with the Lord and belongs to the Father.  To welcome a child is to welcome the Lord who is one with the Father.  The dignity of a person lies in the fact that he or she is a child of God and a brother or sister of our Lord Jesus Christ.  For this reason, the Lord said, “If anyone gives you a cup of water to drink just because you belong to Christ, then I tell you solemnly, he will most certainly not lose his reward.”
It is within this context that we are called to reflect on the protection of the vulnerable.  Who are those considered vulnerable?  First and foremost, the vulnerable would be those who are children, innocent and receptive.  By extension, the vulnerable would include domestic helpers, low wage foreign workers, those who are physically and mentally challenged, the elderly and even those adults who emotionally weak.  These groups of people must be protected from abuses, especially sexual and physical abuse by those who take advantage of them.  Indeed, abusing the vulnerable is considered such a heinous sin and crime against humanity and society.  This is particularly true with regard to sexual and physical abuse of children.   That is why the State has increased the penalties for such offences.  So serious is the sin against vulnerable people, especially children, that the Lord said, “But anyone who is an obstacle to bring down one of these little ones who have faith, would be better thrown into the sea with a great millstone round his neck.”
However, in truth, those who are abusing others have become vulnerable as well.  Pedophiles were once victims of traumatic sexual exposure, molestation, or even rape before they became predators and oppressors.  This is true even for those with sex addictions.  It is always the result of an awakening to a sexual experience in their childhood or teens, for which they were not properly prepared.  Similarly, with respect to other forms of addictions such as pornography, sex, gambling and alcohol.  On one hand, they are predators and oppressors, but from the perspective of the counsellors, they were also equally vulnerable to those areas of addiction.
How should we deal with abusers of such vulnerable people?  They are harming others and society because they are considered predators and oppressors.  However, they are also harming themselves because they are vulnerable to young children, sex, gambling and alcohol.  The truth is, when one is suffering from an emotional, psychological disorder such as pedophilia, sex addiction or gambling, they are not able to control themselves.  It is a disorder of the mind because they cannot resist even if they desire to.  This is the power of conditioning through exposure, experience and repeated experiences.  Therefore, we need to protect others from them, and them from others, so that no one gets hurt, including the predators.
Hence, the appropriate measure to take against them is to cut them off from their sins.  This is what the Lord suggests.  “If your hand should cause you to sin, cut it off; it is better for you to enter into life crippled, than to have two hands and go to hell, into the fire that cannot be put out.  And if your foot should cause you sin, cut it off; it is better for you to enter life lame, than to have two feet and be thrown into hell.  And if your eye should cause you to sin, tear it out; it is better for you to enter into the kingdom of God with one eye, than to have two eyes and be thrown into hell where their worm does not die nor their fire go out.”
In other words, we need to put them in a place where they are safe so that others can be safe.  We must remove them from the occasions of sin.  This is the appropriate punishment.  Because of the severity of some crimes like pedophilia and drug addictions, the world asks for severe punishment in prison and in some places, caning as well.  However, is this the best way to protect society by imposing such forms of punishment?    Can physical punishment heal those who are already psychologically addicted to one thing or another?  Of course, if we speaking about those who commit crimes deliberately, freely and knowingly, physical punishment could certainly help.  Even then, education and reformation is necessary to enlighten the criminal so that he or she would have a change of heart and mind.  In this way, when he or she is released from prison, they will not reoffend again.
Consequently, we must be clear about the purpose of punishment.  Is it to take revenge?  Or is it to prevent further offences and to send a message to society that this crime in intolerable?  If the purpose of punishment is to seek revenge, an eye for an eye, then as Mahatma Ghandi says, “The whole world goes blind!”  Such an approach is not Christian at all.  Even the Lord said, “You have heard that it was said, ‘An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.’ But I say to you, Do not resist an evildoer. But if anyone strikes you on the right cheek, turn the other also; and if anyone wants to sue you and take your coat, give your cloak as well; and if anyone forces you to go one mile, go also the second mile.”  (Mt 5:38-41)
Instead, the Lord asks of us to forgive and pray for them.  “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be children of your Father in heaven; for he makes his sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the righteous and on the unrighteous.”  (Mt 5:43-45) However, this does not mean that we continue to allow the offender to keep on offending others.   We need to keep them safe by not allowing them to harm others and themselves further.  So regardless, whether we put them in prison or confine them to a certain place and be kept under constant vigilance, we must do it out of mercy for those who are vulnerable to sex, pedophilia, drugs, etc.   At the same time, we need to educate them and heal them of their past wounds of sexual abuse and physical abuse.
Unless we do this, sex predators and abusers, drug addicts, gambling and alcohol addicts will not have the courage to submit themselves to healing.  Their pride will prevent them from seeking help.  This is what the first reading is warning us about. “Do not be led by your appetites and energy to follow the passions of your heart. And do not say, ‘Who has authority over me?'”  Indeed, those who are suffering from disorder and addictions are seldom willing to admit that they are in that state.  They think they can handle the problem on their own.  They fall into self-sufficiency, like the rich man.  “Do not give your heart to your money, or say, ‘With this I am self-sufficient.'”   Over-confidence is the downfall of man because it is the offspring of pride.  As a result, they will fall into sin and commit offences.
What is worse is that they seek false consolation from God.  They are guilty and instead of seeking help, they try to console themselves that God is always merciful and forgiving.  Sirach warns such people for thinking that “the Lord’s forbearance is long. Do not be so sure of forgiveness that you add sin to sin. And do not say, ‘His compassion is great, he will forgive me my many sins’; for with him are both mercy and wrath, and his wage bears heavy on sinners. Do not delay your return to the Lord, do not put it off day after day; for suddenly the Lord’s wrath will blaze out, and at the time of vengeance you will be utterly destroyed.”  It is true that God is merciful, but unless we repent, we will hurt ourselves even more and those people we love and the innocent people around us.
Instead, let us turn to the Lord for assistance by walking in the way of the Lord, in truth and love.  “Happy the man who has placed his trust in the Lord. Happy indeed is the man who follows not the counsel of the wicked; nor lingers in the way of sinners nor sits in the company of scorners, but whose delight is the law of the Lord and who ponders his law day and night. He is like a tree that is planted beside the flowing waters, that yields its fruit in due season and whose leaves shall never fade; and all that he does shall prosper.”  Indeed, this is what the Lord asks of us, that we be salted.  For everyone will be salted with fire.  Salt is a good thing, but if salt has become insipid, how can you season it again?  Have salt in yourselves and be at peace with one another.”  To be salted means to preserve ourselves from sin and from harming others and ourselves through living a life of integrity.  But to be salted also means that we must be imbued with the Word of God and the mind of Christ so that we can act justly, love tenderly and walk humbly before God. (cf Micah 6:8) By so doing, we bring peace to ourselves and to others.

Written by The Most Rev William Goh, Roman Catholic Archbishop of Singapore © All Rights Reserved


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