Sunday, 16 February 2020

HANDLING TRIALS IN LIFE WITH HOPE SUSTAINED BY FAITH

20200217 HANDLING TRIALS IN LIFE WITH HOPE SUSTAINED BY FAITH


17 February, 2020, Monday, 6th Week, Ordinary Time

Readings at Mass

Liturgical Colour: Green.

First reading
James 1:1-11 ©

Your faith is put to the test so that your patience may make you complete

From James, servant of God and of the Lord Jesus Christ. Greetings to the twelve tribes of the Dispersion.
  My brothers, you will always have your trials but, when they come, try to treat them as a happy privilege; you understand that your faith is only put to the test to make you patient, but patience too is to have its practical results so that you will become fully-developed, complete, with nothing missing.
  If there is any one of you who needs wisdom, he must ask God, who gives to all freely and ungrudgingly; it will be given to him. But he must ask with faith, and no trace of doubt, because a person who has doubts is like the waves thrown up in the sea when the wind drives. That sort of person, in two minds, wavering between going different ways, must not expect that the Lord will give him anything.
  It is right for the poor brother to be proud of his high rank, and the rich one to be thankful that he has been humbled, because riches last no longer than the flowers in the grass; the scorching sun comes up, and the grass withers, the flower falls; what looked so beautiful now disappears. It is the same with the rich man: his business goes on; he himself perishes.

Responsorial Psalm
Psalm 118(119):67-68,71-72,75-76 ©
Let your love come to me and I shall live.
Before I was afflicted I strayed
  but now I keep your word.
You are good and your deeds are good;
  teach me your statutes.
Let your love come to me and I shall live.
It was good for me to be afflicted,
  to learn your statutes.
The law from your mouth means more to me
  than silver and gold.
Let your love come to me and I shall live.
Lord, I know that your decrees are right,
  that you afflicted me justly.
Let your love be ready to console me
  by your promise to your servant.
Let your love come to me and I shall live.

Gospel Acclamation
Ps94:8
Alleluia, alleluia!
Harden not your hearts today,
but listen to the voice of the Lord.
Alleluia!
Or:
Jn14:6
Alleluia, alleluia!
I am the Way, the Truth and the Life, says the Lord;
No one can come to the Father except through me.
Alleluia!

Gospel
Mark 8:11-13 ©

No sign shall be given to this generation

The Pharisees came up and started a discussion with Jesus; they demanded of him a sign from heaven, to test him. And with a sigh that came straight from the heart he said, ‘Why does this generation demand a sign? I tell you solemnly, no sign shall be given to this generation.’ And leaving them again and re-embarking, he went away to the opposite shore.

HANDLING TRIALS IN LIFE WITH HOPE SUSTAINED BY FAITH

SCRIPTURE READINGS: [JAMES 1:1-11PS 119:67-6871-7275-76MK 8:11-13  ]
St James wrote, “My brothers, you will always have your trials.”  This is an obvious fact of life.  No one, no matter who we are, rich or poor, in high or ordinary position in life, young or old, will have trials and crosses to bear in life.  No one can escape from suffering in life.  This is why the Lord said to His disciples, “If any want to become my followers, let them deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me.”  (Mt 16:24)  Jesus is not asking us to take up His cross but our own!  But it is not enough simply to take up our cross because if we do, that cross will crush us and we would become bitter, resentful and broken in life.  Rather, we are called to take up our cross and follow after Him.  What does this entail?
It means that we place our faith in Him.  In contrast, the religious leaders in the gospel had no faith in Jesus.   “The Pharisees came up and started a discussion with Jesus; they demanded of him a sign from heaven, to test him.  And with a sigh that came straight from the heart he said, ‘Why does this generation demand a sign?  I tell you solemnly, no sign shall be given to this generation.'”  The truth is that they were not seeking signs for assurance but their minds were already fixated.  All they wanted was to find ways to disprove Jesus and discredit His teaching.  Indeed, the signs had already been given earlier.  They saw the healing of the paralytic, the woman with hemorrhage, the deaf man, the raising of Jairus’ daughter, the exorcism of the Gerasene Demoniac and the daughter of the Syrophoenician widow and the multiplication of loaves.  So what other signs were they seeking?
Indeed, many of us in our trials also doubt the love of God.  We lose faith in Him and confidence in His love.  This is because we only look at the cross we are carrying and the crosses in front of us.  When we just look at our own strength and the sufferings we carry, we feel so overwhelmed.  We say to ourselves, “how can we manage our work, how can we raise up our children in faith and love, how can we look after our elderly demented loved ones, how can we manage our illnesses, especially when it is terminal, how can we preserve and grow our business or organization”, etc.   In whatever we do, we will find opposition, detraction, discouragement and sometimes failure and disappointment.  We have so much fear and anxiety when we think of what is ahead of us.  But we forgot that at all these times He is with us.
In such a situation, we must focus our eyes not on our problems or our sufferings; rather, we must look at Jesus instead.  It is like our current situation.  Some Catholics are unhappy that the Mass has been suspended to protect the safety of our Catholics, especially the young and the elderly.   Yet it is in such times, that Catholics will learn to appreciate the Eucharist and the Mass they attend daily.  Too often we have taken the Mass for granted, until we are deprived of it.  But again, we thank God that through the use of technology, we can transmit the Mass into the homes of our people.  In fact, many wrote to tell us that they found the Mass rather meaningful when they watched the broadcast because they could pay better attention and this brought the family closer together, as those who could not go to church or have left the Church even participated in the on-line transmission.   Many felt God even more present as they reflected on the Mass readings and the homily and received Him in spiritual communion.  So God can come into our lives regardless of the obstacles.  What He needs is a docile and receptive heart to receive Him and welcome Him without reservation.  
In faith, we must believe that our trials are permitted by God because they help us to grow in patience and through patience, we “will become fully-developed, complete, with nothing missing.”  We are invited by St James to regard our suffering as a happy privilege and not a burden.  It is God’s way to purify us, not just in faith but in love for ourselves, and most of all, for our fellow brothers and sisters.  When we have to help people who are suffering, it is really a test of our capacity to love.  It stretches our heart to love like Jesus even unto death on the cross, especially when we have to attend to difficult people who are demanding, unreasonable, nasty and unappreciative.  Conversely, if we are the ones who are carrying the cross of illness and financial burden, we are called to accept them humbly and the assistance of others.  In our helplessness, we learn humility and identification with those who suffer.
Indeed, when we turn to Jesus, He will give us the wisdom to look at our suffering positively.  St James tells us.  “If there is any one of you who needs wisdom, he must ask God, who gives to all freely and ungrudgingly; it will be given to him.”  It is natural that when we suffer, we want to understand the reason and the meaning of our suffering.  St James asked us to pray for wisdom and understanding so that we do not feel that we are suffering in vain.   However, this wisdom of God is only given to those who have faith in Him.  Without faith, we cannot see our life and suffering from the perspective of God.  This is why the Lord tells us to take up our cross and follow Him; and to come to Him like a little child.  (cf Mt 18:3)
St Pio of Pietrelcina urged us to believe even when we are in darkness because it is in darkness that God speaks to us in our loneliness, helplessness and despair.  He said, “Don’t let your mind succumb to temptation and sorrow, for joy of the heart is life for the soul. Sorrow is no good for anything and causes our spiritual death.  It happens sometimes that the darkness of trial overwhelms your soul’s heaven; but this darkness is light! Thanks to it, you believe even in darkness; the mind feels lost, it fears no longer being able to see, no longer understanding anything. But this is the moment when the Lord speaks and makes himself present to the soul; and the soul listens, understands and loves in the fear of God.”
Indeed, the trials of life help us to be more realistic about how fragile we are.  The problem with the world is that the modern man thinks he can do all things and achieve happiness without the help of anyone, especially God.  Let us not think too highly of ourselves and the securities we put in, our money, our health, our family and career.  Tragedy can strike anytime.  We can meet with an accident that leaves us maimed or even killed.  Our health can fail us suddenly without our knowledge even if we have been exercising daily.   Our family can break apart because of infidelity or greed and jealousy.  Our career can be abruptly ended because the company had to close down.  This is what St James says, “It is right for the poor brother to be proud of his high rank, and the rich one to be thankful that he has been humbled, because riches last no longer than the flowers in the grass; the scorching sun comes up, and the grass withers, the flower falls; what looked so beautiful now disappears.  It is the same with the rich man: his business goes on; he himself perishes.”
For this reason, we should only rely on God and do our best in whatever situation we are in.  We must pray for an increase of faith.  St James wrote, “But he must ask with faith, and no trace of doubt, because a person who has doubts is like the waves thrown up in the sea when the wind drives.  That sort of person, in two minds, wavering between going different ways, must not expect that the Lord will give him anything.”   Faith will open our eyes to His presence in our daily life even when we are suffering.  He is with us even when we walk the narrow path of life.  And when the path gets too narrow, then we remember that He will carry us on His back and bring us safely to greener pastures.  We are never alone.  That was what He said to the disciples, “Be not afraid!”  Throughout the scriptures, these resounding words are heard through His prophets. “Do not fear, for I am with you, do not be afraid, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my victorious right hand.” (Isa 41:10)  “For I, the Lord your God, hold your right hand; it is I who say to you, “Do not fear, I will help you.”  (Isa 41:13 cf  Ps 23:4Dt 31:6,8Mt 10:29-31Jn 14:11 Pt 3:45:7)
Suffering will not overwhelm us if we suffer for love and if we know we are also supported by love.   This is the wisdom of God that will help us through when we suffer.  Let us therefore use trials to sanctify ourselves by growing and purifying our love for God and for our brothers and sisters.  At the same time, in our trials, turn to God in faith to feel His love.


Written by The Most Rev William Goh, Roman Catholic Archbishop of Singapore © All Rights Reserved

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