Friday 30 December 2016

WORLD PEACE BEGINS WITH THE PEACE OF GOD IN US

20161231 WORLD PEACE BEGINS WITH THE PEACE OF GOD IN US

Readings at Mass
Liturgical Colour: White.

First reading
1 John 2:18-21 ©
Children, these are the last days;
you were told that an Antichrist must come,
and now several antichrists have already appeared;
we know from this that these are the last days.
Those rivals of Christ came out of our own number, but they had never really belonged;
if they had belonged, they would have stayed with us;
but they left us, to prove that not one of them
ever belonged to us.
But you have been anointed by the Holy One,
and have all received the knowledge.
It is not because you do not know the truth that I am writing to you
but rather because you know it already
and know that no lie can come from the truth.

Responsorial Psalm
Psalm 95(96):1-2,11-13 ©
Let the heavens rejoice and earth be glad.
O sing a new song to the Lord,
  sing to the Lord all the earth.
  O sing to the Lord, bless his name.
Proclaim his help day by day,
Let the heavens rejoice and earth be glad.
Let the heavens rejoice and earth be glad,
  let the sea and all within it thunder praise,
let the land and all it bears rejoice,
  all the trees of the wood shout for joy
at the presence of the Lord for he comes,
  he comes to rule the earth.
Let the heavens rejoice and earth be glad.
With justice he will rule the world,
  he will judge the peoples with his truth.
Let the heavens rejoice and earth be glad.

Gospel Acclamation

Alleluia, alleluia!
A hallowed day has dawned upon us.
Come, you nations, worship the Lord,
for today a great light has shone down upon the earth.
Alleluia!
Or
Jn1:14,12
Alleluia, alleluia!
The Word became flesh, and dwelt among us.
To all who received him he gave power to become children of God.
Alleluia!

Gospel
John 1:1-18 ©
In the beginning was the Word:
and the Word was with God
and the Word was God.
He was with God in the beginning.
Through him all things came to be,
not one thing had its being but through him.
All that came to be had life in him
and that life was the light of men,
a light that shines in the dark,
a light that darkness could not overpower.
A man came, sent by God.
His name was John.
He came as a witness,
as a witness to speak for the light,
so that everyone might believe through him.
He was not the light,
only a witness to speak for the light.
The Word was the true light
that enlightens all men;
and he was coming into the world.
He was in the world
that had its being through him,
and the world did not know him.
He came to his own domain
and his own people did not accept him.
But to all who did accept him
he gave power to become children of God,
to all who believe in the name of him
who was born not out of human stock
or urge of the flesh
or will of man
but of God himself.
The Word was made flesh,
he lived among us,
and we saw his glory,
the glory that is his as the only Son of the Father,
full of grace and truth.
John appears as his witness. He proclaims:
‘This is the one of whom I said:
He who comes after me ranks before me
because he existed before me.’
Indeed, from his fullness we have, all of us, received –
yes, grace in return for grace,
since, though the Law was given through Moses,
grace and truth have come through Jesus Christ.
No one has ever seen God;
it is the only Son, who is nearest to the Father’s heart,
who has made him known.


WORLD PEACE BEGINS WITH THE PEACE OF GOD IN US

SCRIPTURE READINGS: [1 JOHN 2:18-21; JOHN 1:1-18 ]
The liturgy begins by speaking about the last days.  Chronologically, we are indeed in the last day of the year.  In a theological sense, we are also living in the last days because with the first coming of Christ at Christmas, we are now waiting for the second coming when He will reveal Himself.  “For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation to all, training us to renounce impiety and worldly passions, and in the present age to live lives that are self-controlled, upright, and godly, while we wait for the blessed hope and the manifestation of the glory of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ.” (Titus 2:11-13)  The last days therefore refer to the eschatological time, the time of Christ’s coming in contrast to the chronological time.
Christ is the light of humanity.  He reveals to us the reality of sin and how life is to be lived in selfless service for the glory of God and for the salvation of humanity.   “Through him all things came to be, not one thing had its being but through him. All that came to be had life in him and that life was the light of men, a light that shines in the dark, a light that darkness could not overpower.” In Christ, we see the fullness of grace and love.  “Indeed, from his fulness we have, all of us, received – yes, grace in return for grace, since, though the Law was given through Moses, grace and truth have come through Jesus Christ. No one has ever seen God; it is the only Son, who is nearest to the Father’s heart, who has made him known.”  Christ is the revealer of God’s heart, which is compassion, mercy and love.  Jesus is the truth in person.  “The Word was made flesh, he lived among us, and we saw his glory, the glory that is his as the only Son of the Father, full of grace and truth.”
At the same time, we are living in an age of Anti-Christ.  “Children, these are the last days; you were told that an Antichrist must come, and now several antichrists have already appeared; we know from this that these are the last days.”   Secularism, relativism, materialism, a culture of death and individualism is the new idolatry in our times.   It is all about me, my pleasure, my needs, my enjoyment, without concern for the future of humanity or making sacrifices for the good of others.   We live in a world of amorality when there are no values, no distinction between good and evil, no falsehood and no truth.  Peace comes only when we are enlightened in the truth and live by the truth.
There is no peace in the world so long as we worship the anti-Christ and the selfish values of the world.  When we no longer live for God and for others but for ourselves, then such self-centered values will produce division and war; families are fragmented with dysfunctional children, broken and wounded by the sins of humanity.  The moment we reject God in our lives, we lose sight of the truth and the meaning of love.
Worst of all, the Anti-Christ comes from our own circle.  Since the beginning of the early Church, the Church has faced traitors of the faith and those who made easy compromises. “Those rivals of Christ came out of our own number.”  We have many Catholics who, instead of defending the Church and helping to enlighten those who do not understand the teachings of the Church, especially on morality, are attacking the Church. Instead of trying to understand the challenges facing the Church, they prefer to listen to the world and join them in discrediting the Church.  In other words, they choose to listen to the Anti-Christ, the enemies, the traitors of the Church, instead of the authoritative teachers and the Catholic community.  
But why?  The answer is clear.  St John said, “But they had never really belonged; if they had belonged, they would have stayed with us; but they left us, to prove that not one of them ever belonged to us.”  They are baptized but they are not living in the truth.  They might be baptised but they do not know their faith.  They are poorly instructed and never nurtured their faith because of complacency.  Some have not grown in personal faith because they never prayed or cultivated a personal relationship with the Lord.  Many are confused by the distorted facts and false arguments of the world.  Some prefer to subscribe to all they read in the social media instead of consulting the official sites of the Church.  They prefer to listen to gossips and critics of the Church rather than clarifying with the authorities of the Church.  Hence, Jesus warns us about the anti-Christ. “Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing but inwardly are ravenous wolves. You will know them by their fruits. Are grapes gathered from thorns, or figs from thistles?”  (Mt 7:15f) We betray our faith not just by our words but by our life and counter-witnessing. 
But we thank God that many are faithful to the Church in spite of attempts to discredit the Church and her teachings. We are grateful for those Catholics who courageously stand by the Church in good and bad times.  There are many good Catholics, professionals and influential people who are ready to witness for Christ.  They are not ashamed of Christ and would come to His defense and the defense of the Church when she is under attack.  They are like John the Baptist who was willing to be a witness to the light. “A man came, sent by God. His name was John. He came as a witness, as a witness to speak for the light, so that everyone might believe through him. He was not the light, only a witness to speak for the light.”  He was humble.  He never claimed to be the light or take away Christ’s position even though he was so popular with the people.  Instead, with truthfulness and humility, he said, “This is the one of whom I said: He who comes after me ranks before me because he existed before me.”  We need witnesses to show and enlighten all men in the truth, which is Christ Himself.
Do you belong to the Lord or to the Anti-Christ? Only those who belong to the Lord know the truth.   “But you have been anointed by the Holy One, and have all received the knowledge. It is not because you do not know the truth that I am writing to you but rather because you know it already and know that no lie can come from the truth.”   Those who are in the know and take the trouble to understand the Church, her teachings and direction will show support, sympathy and encouragement.
How?  By welcoming Him into our lives.  On this last day of the year we are invited to belong to the family of Jesus.  To welcome Him is to welcome the light and the truth. “The Word was the true light that enlightens all men; and he was coming into the world. He was in the world that had its being through him, and the world did not know him.”  We must take the Word of God seriously.  We also constantly give thanks to God for this, that when you received the word of God that you heard from us, you accepted it not as a human word but as what it really is, God’s word, which is also at work in you believers.  (1 Th 2:13)  Jesus is the Word of God.  St Paul reminds us that “the church of the living God, the pillar and bulwark of the truth.”  (1 Tim 3:15)  Let us not be included among those who have no room for Jesus in their hearts. “He came to his own domain and his own people did not accept him.”
In welcoming Him, we become children of God and belong to His family members.  “But to all who did accept him he gave power to become children of God, to all who believe in the name of him who was born not out of human stock or urge of the flesh or will of man but of God himself.”  With Christ and His Church, we can overcome the onslaughts of the world.  We are not alone.  “All that came to be had life in him and that life was the light of men, a light that shines in the dark, a light that darkness could not overpower.”   Indeed, Christ is the infant King who will rule the world in truth and love so that peace is restored.  “With justice he will rule the world; he will judge the peoples with his truth.”  With the psalmist, we can rejoice that He rules the world, not the anti-Christ, as they will be overcome. “Let the heavens rejoice and earth be glad, let the sea and all within it thunder praise, let the land and all it bears rejoice, all the trees of the wood shout for joy at the presence of the Lord for he comes, he comes to rule the earth.”
We are on the eve of the New Year.  Peace will be assured as we begin the New Year in the Lord and of the Lord.  The last day is also the first day of the year. St John affirms “In the beginning was the Word: and the Word was with God and the Word was God. He was with God in the beginning.”   Our calendar is in the Year of the Lord, that is Anno Domini although the world is trying to secularize our calendar by changing it to CE, that is, in the Christian Era.  Yet the truth remains that our calendar is after the birth of our Lord.  They do not want to acknowledge that Jesus is the Christ, the Word made flesh.  This is the same heresy that prevailed during John’s time.  They want to put God out of this world.  So long as this world is not ruled by Christ, there will be no peace.   “Those who are re-modelled after one pattern must have a spirit like the model.  The birthday of the Lord is the birthday of peace: for thus says the Apostle, He is our peace, who made both one; because whether we are Jew or Gentile, through Him we have access in one Spirit to the Father.”  (Pope St Leo)   So let Christ rule the world and our lives if we want peace.   Hence, the 1st of January is always celebrated as the World Day for Peace.


Written by The Most Rev William Goh Roman Catholic Archbishop of Singapore © All Rights Reserved

THE FAMILY AS EVANGELIZING AGENT

20161230 THE FAMILY AS EVANGELIZING AGENT

Readings at Mass
Liturgical Colour: White.

First reading
Ecclesiasticus 3:3-7,14-17 ©
The Lord honours the father in his children,
  and upholds the rights of a mother over her sons.
Whoever respects his father is atoning for his sins,
  he who honours his mother is like someone amassing a fortune.
Whoever respects his father will be happy with children of his own,
  he shall be heard on the day when he prays.
Long life comes to him who honours his father,
  he who sets his mother at ease is showing obedience to the Lord.
My son, support your father in his old age,
  do not grieve him during his life.
Even if his mind should fail, show him sympathy,
  do not despise him in your health and strength;
for kindness to a father shall not be forgotten
  but will serve as reparation for your sins.

Responsorial Psalm
Psalm 127(128):1-5 ©
O blessed are those who fear the Lord and walk in his ways!
O blessed are those who fear the Lord
  and walk in his ways!
By the labour of your hands you shall eat.
  You will be happy and prosper.
O blessed are those who fear the Lord and walk in his ways!
Your wife will be like a fruitful vine
  in the heart of your house;
your children like shoots of the olive,
  around your table.
O blessed are those who fear the Lord and walk in his ways!
Indeed thus shall be blessed
  the man who fears the Lord.
May the Lord bless you from Zion
  all the days of your life!
O blessed are those who fear the Lord and walk in his ways!

Reading 2, Colossians 3:12-21

12 As the chosen of God, then, the holy people whom he loves, you are to be clothed in heartfelt compassion, in generosity and humility, gentleness and patience.
13 Bear with one another; forgive each other if one of you has a complaint against another. The Lord has forgiven you; now you must do the same.
14 Over all these clothes, put on love, the perfect bond.
15 And may the peace of Christ reign in your hearts, because it is for this that you were called together in one body. Always be thankful.
16 Let the Word of Christ, in all its richness, find a home with you. Teach each other, and advise each other, in all wisdom. With gratitude in your hearts sing psalms and hymns and inspired songs to God;
17 and whatever you say or do, let it be in the name of the Lord Jesus, in thanksgiving to God the Father through him.
18 Wives, be subject to your husbands, as you should in the Lord.
19 Husbands, love your wives and do not be sharp with them.
20 Children, be obedient to your parents always, because that is what will please the Lord.
21 Parents, do not irritate your children or they will lose heart.



Gospel Acclamation
Col3:15,16
Alleluia, alleluia!
May the peace of Christ reign in your hearts;
let the message of Christ find a home with you.
Alleluia!

Gospel
Matthew 2:13-15,19-23 ©
After the wise men had left, the angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream and said, ‘Get up, take the child and his mother with you, and escape into Egypt, and stay there until I tell you, because Herod intends to search for the child and do away with him.’ So Joseph got up and, taking the child and his mother with him, left that night for Egypt, where he stayed until Herod was dead. This was to fulfil what the Lord had spoken through the prophet:
I called my son out of Egypt.
After Herod’s death, the angel of the Lord appeared in a dream to Joseph in Egypt and said, ‘Get up, take the child and his mother with you and go back to the land of Israel, for those who wanted to kill the child are dead.’ So Joseph got up and, taking the child and his mother with him, went back to the land of Israel. But when he learnt that Archelaus had succeeded his father Herod as ruler of Judaea he was afraid to go there, and being warned in a dream he left for the region of Galilee. There he settled in a town called Nazareth. In this way the words spoken through the prophets were to be fulfilled:
‘He will be called a Nazarene.’

THE FAMILY AS EVANGELIZING AGENT


Today, marriage and family life is more than ever under threat, like the Holy Family in today’s gospel.  We read how they had to flee from King Herod who felt threatened by the birth of the Messiah.  They went to take refuge in Egypt, like many refugees do today in times of war.  Upon coming back, they had to stay in Nazareth instead of going back to Judaea because King Archelaus, who succeeded his father Herod as ruler of Judaea, was known to be a blood thirsty and evil king.  And it was at Nazareth that Jesus grew up under the tutelage of Mary and Joseph.  Like the Holy Family, today, our families face threats from within and from without.  Marriage and the family are under siege from all fronts.  Indeed, there is much confusion over one’s identity today simply because we are not even clear of what is marriage or family. 
What are the three major challenges facing family life in Singapore? Firstly, we have an aging population.  We have a growing number of elderly persons.  In a rapid and fast moving economy and a country that is affluent, it becomes more and more difficult to look after our elderly.  Most of our people are working full time and they cannot find time to look after their elderly, more so when they are no longer mobile or are suffering from a loss of memory.   Young people who are absorbed in their career and in making money not only have no time for their parents but often do not contribute to the expenses of the household.  Many are not assuming their responsibilities to care for the elderly.   In the light of such demands, we should not be surprised that some quarters are calling for the use of euthanasia, so that the elderly who are sick need not be a burden to society.
The first reading reminds us of how important it is to look after our elderly at home and to give them a dignified lifestyle.  The book of Sirach teaches us that “the Lord honours the father in his children, and upholds the rights of a mother over her sons.”   To honour our parents is something basic in life.  It is the fourth commandment that many have forgotten.  Taking care of our elderly is an essential aspect of family life.  Those who do not look after their elderly set a bad example for their children to follow; and they will do likewise to their parents when they are old.   But if we care for our elderly, we will reap the fruits of love and compassion.
We need to exercise patience and compassion for our elderly.  Sirach says, “My son, support your father in his old age, do not grieve him during his life. Even if his mind should fail, show him sympathy, do not despise him in your health and strength; for kindness to a father shall not be forgotten but will serve as reparation for your sins.”   We must also recognize that they are human beings.  Not only do they need physical and material support, they also have emotional and spiritual needs.  As caregivers, we must seek to understand the psychology of the elderly so that we can feel with them, understand them and give them the necessary assurance of love, comfort and insecurity.  For all the love and patience they extended to us when we were young, we are called to accord the same patience, understanding and love for them.  We must not forget that one day we too will be like them.
The second challenge facing our families is the relationship between husbands and wives.  In seeking for a higher quality of life, many married couples put their career first, before their spouse and children.   Many put their needs, enjoyment and desires before their family.   This weakens the marriage and family bonds.  In order to sustain their lifestyle, many opt to have one or no children so that they can have greater freedom to go wherever they like.  Many just work to enjoy the pleasures of life; good food, nice houses, big cars and luxurious holidays.  The lack of communication and the long absence from each other easily lead to a breakdown of intimacy.  As a result, many seek extra marital relationships to fill the vacuum in their lives.
Marriage can be strengthened only when there is a communion of love.    There can be unity only when wives are willing to cooperate with their husbands, but husbands must first and foremost seek to put their wife’s interests before theirs. But when husbands put their own interests and selfish needs before their wife’s, it would be difficult to expect the wife to surrender her life to him.  Unless, husbands and wives make time for each other; regularly sharing their lives with each other, their thoughts, their joys, woes and struggles, they would not be able to feel with and for each other.  Is your spouse your confidante and your best friend?  If not, certainly it is a sign that your love for each other is diminishing.
The third challenge facing the family concerns the raising children.  It is ironical that many think that children would be a source of unity in marriage.  Some women think that having children will keep the marriage together.  This is not always the case.  More often than not, spouses disagree bitterly over how the children should be raised.  This can lead to personal differences, soured relationships, anger, constant bickering, quarrels and resentment.  Of course, when couples are united in mind and heart, they will work and collaborate to find the best way to bring up the children.  Two heads are always better than one, provided there is constant communion, dialogue and the willingness to defer to each other in humility and charity.
St Paul warns parents not to be overly ambitious and put too much pressure on their children.  Whilst children should be obedient to their parents always, “because that is what will please the Lord”, St Paul in the same vein warns parents to “never drive your children to resentment or you will make them feel frustrated.”  Our young people are under tremendous stress today. But instead of receiving encouragement and support from their parents, some parents drive their children to do more than they could.  Children do not feel the unconditional love of their parents.  They think that their parents love them only when they do well in their studies.  As a consequence, they suffer from low self-esteem and a sense of inadequacy.  This leads to insecurity and jealousy, especially if their siblings or friends are performing better than them.
There is also a fourth challenge that we seldom take seriously.  This is the social effects of globalization and migration.  With migration the family is no longer cohesive.  Conjugal bonds and family relationships are weakened because of prolonged separation.  Often, children grow up without one parent at home to nurture them.  Parents are reduced to mere financial providers.  Although the children might have a better quality of life, often they have no holistic upbringing or guidance from their parents, many of whom are working overseas.  It is difficult and challenging to maintain a long distance relationship.  That is why a higher quality of living often leads to a lower quality of family life.
If the situation has worsened it is because the faith of our families is weak and not well founded.   We lack the spiritual foundation to ground our families.  Instead of abiding in the gospel values, the values advocated are those from the world.   We live in an age of consumerism.  In an age of mass communication, everyone is busy with their digital devices and communication is no longer personal but through devices.  Individualism and materialism prevail in our society with negative impact on family life.
Consequently, St Paul urges us to build a home founded on the values of the gospel. “You are God’s chosen race, his saints; he loves you and you should be clothed in sincere compassion, in kindness and humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with one another; forgive each other as soon as a quarrel begins. The Lord has forgiven you; now you must do the same. Over all these clothes, to keep them together and complete them, put on love. And may the peace of Christ reign in your hearts, because it is for this that you were called together as parts of one body. Always be thankful.”  Unless our Catholics are formed in the gospel values and grow in Christian virtues of compassion, forgiveness and humility, charity and patience will be lacking.
It is critical that if we want our families to be evangelizers for the family in the world and society, we need to strengthen the intimacy of our married couples and the unity of the family.  Only then can we become truly an inspiring force in society. Let us “never say or do anything except in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.”   May our families be the light of authentic love and unity in the world.


Written by The Most Rev William Goh Roman Catholic Archbishop of Singapore © All Rights Reserved