Saturday, 4 March 2017

THE JOY OF A CHRISTIAN

20170303 THE JOY OF A CHRISTIAN

Readings at Mass
Liturgical Colour: Violet.

First reading
Isaiah 58:1-9 ©
Thus says the Lord:
Shout for all you are worth,
  raise your voice like a trumpet.
Proclaim their faults to my people,
  their sins to the House of Jacob.
They seek me day after day,
  they long to know my ways,
like a nation that wants to act with integrity
  and not ignore the law of its God.
They ask me for laws that are just,
  they long for God to draw near:
‘Why should we fast if you never see it,
  why do penance if you never notice?’
Look, you do business on your fast-days,
  you oppress all your workmen;
look, you quarrel and squabble when you fast
  and strike the poor man with your fist.
Fasting like yours today
  will never make your voice heard on high.
Is that the sort of fast that pleases me,
  a truly penitential day for men?
Hanging your head like a reed,
  lying down on sackcloth and ashes?
Is that what you call fasting,
  a day acceptable to the Lord?
Is not this the sort of fast that pleases me
 – it is the Lord who speaks –
to break unjust fetters and
  undo the thongs of the yoke,
to let the oppressed go free,
  and break every yoke,
to share your bread with the hungry,
  and shelter the homeless poor,
to clothe the man you see to be naked
  and not turn from your own kin?
Then will your light shine like the dawn
  and your wound be quickly healed over.
Your integrity will go before you
  and the glory of the Lord behind you.
Cry, and the Lord will answer;
  call, and he will say, ‘I am here.’

Responsorial Psalm
Psalm 50(51):3-6,18-19 ©
A humbled, contrite heart, O God, you will not spurn.
Have mercy on me, God, in your kindness.
  In your compassion blot out my offence.
O wash me more and more from my guilt
  and cleanse me from my sin.
A humbled, contrite heart, O God, you will not spurn.
My offences truly I know them;
  my sin is always before me
Against you, you alone, have I sinned;
  what is evil in your sight I have done.
A humbled, contrite heart, O God, you will not spurn.
For in sacrifice you take no delight,
  burnt offering from me you would refuse,
my sacrifice, a contrite spirit.
  A humbled, contrite heart you will not spurn.
A humbled, contrite heart, O God, you will not spurn.

Gospel Acclamation
cf.Ps129:5,7
Glory and praise to you, O Christ!
My soul is waiting for the Lord,
I count on his word,
because with the Lord there is mercy
and fullness of redemption.
Glory and praise to you, O Christ!
Or
cf.Amos5:14
Glory and praise to you, O Christ!
Seek good and not evil so that you may live,
and that the Lord God of hosts may really be with you,
because with the Lord there is mercy
and fullness of redemption.
Glory and praise to you, O Christ!

Gospel
Matthew 9:14-15 ©
John’s disciples came to Jesus and said, ‘Why is it that we and the Pharisees fast, but your disciples do not?’ Jesus replied, ‘Surely the bridegroom’s attendants would never think of mourning as long as the bridegroom is still with them? But the time will come for the bridegroom to be taken away from them, and then they will fast.’

THE JOY OF A CHRISTIAN


SCRIPTURE READINGS: [ ISAIAH 58:1-9; PS 50:3-6,18-19; MATTHEW 9:14-15]
Clearly, today’s scripture readings is on the theme of fasting.  Friday, as we know, is always associated with the passion and death of our Lord.  That is why Fridays remain a day of abstinence and penance in the Catholic Church.  For Jesus did command us in today’s gospel, “the time will come for the bridegroom to be taken away from them and then they will fast.”  Unfortunately, like the Israelites and the Jews of Jesus’ time, we fast for the wrong reasons. Our fasting is only an external action detached from the real spirit of fasting.
It is not surprising therefore that most Catholics do not welcome the season of Lent because of the penitentiary spirit. The emphasis on penance, mortification and fasting goes against our grain.  The body longs for comfort and enjoyment.  It is certainly not easy to restrain our appetite and the desire for comfort and pleasure. We are sensual beings. As a result, Lent becomes a somber period.  It dampens all festivity mood.  We wish it will end quickly so that we can get back our life.
In other words, Catholics and many people often think that religion takes away life, joy and happiness.  For many, religion is reduced to dos and don’ts.  It is concerned with the observance of laws and regulations.  Worse still, disobedience to the laws is followed by threats of punishment and destruction.  Many are obeying the laws not because they see the value of the laws but simply out of fear.  So much so that deep in our hearts, we think that this God whom we worship is so unreasonable.  He takes pleasure in making our lives miserable.  He does not feel with us.  He takes away our joy and freedom of life.  And so, if you see a sad Christian, most likely he or she is Catholic because he or she is preoccupied with observance of the laws and earning merits to get into heaven.  He thinks that to get to heaven, we must be in the good books of our Lord and that our chance of getting to heaven is to accumulate merits through good works.  Seeing how sad and restricted Christians are, in the name of freedom and happiness, many choose to become freethinkers.
But this is not the religion that Jesus came to preach.  He came to give us life abundantly.  He was not obsessed with the observance of the laws although He did not discard them completely.  He was more concerned with love and right relationship with God and our fellowmen.  For Jesus, religion must bring joy, love and peace.   It must add value to our life and not make us live less, rather to live more.  Against such narrow and rigid application of the laws, Jesus made it clear that the laws are meant for man and not man for the laws.  So in response to the disciples of John, “why is it that we and the Pharisees fast, but your disciples do not?” Jesus replied, “Surely the bridegroom’s attendants would never think of mourning as long as the bridegroom is still with them?”
Indeed, true religion is about the joy of relationship with God. This relationship is always spoken in the scriptures in terms of romance and marriage.  God is our bridegroom, not our judge or slave master.  We are called to intimacy with Him.  In coming to know Jesus, we will be filled with a joy that the world cannot give.  Thus, the centrality of the Christian message is the joy of love and intimacy.  It is not about suffering, carrying of the cross or doing penance.   Indeed, which married couple fasts on their married day? Neither do the guests fast during the wedding celebration.  It is a time of merry-making and festivity because for the married couple, it is a once-in-a-lifetime experience of being honored and treated like royalty.   As for the relatives and guests, they want to participate in the joy and love of the wedding couple.  Christianity too is one of joy when we are deeply in love with the Lord and with the Christian community.
The joy of faith in Christ also leads us to share this joy with our fellowmen.  In the process, this joy in us is increased and doubled.  By living a life of love, sharing and rendering assistance to our brothers and sisters, we come to identify ourselves with them.  Through service to our fellowmen, we become more in touch with our humanity.  Quite often, in our secular and worldly pursuits, we become ambitious and so focused on our projects and business that people become simply digits and tools for us to accomplish our tasks.  We numb our feelings, always acting logically, no longer able to feel with the pains and struggles of our fellowmen.  In giving ourselves to others we find life, for that is what the Lord said to us, “He who finds his life will lose it, and he who loses his life for my sake will find it.”  (Mt 10:39)  This is what the prophet assures us if we love our brothers and sisters by acting justly with them.  “Then will your light shine like the dawn and your wound be quickly healed over. Your integrity will go before you and the glory of the Lord behind you. Cry, and the Lord will answer; call, and he will say, ‘I am here.’”
But Christian joy is not all joy without pain or sorrows.  The Lord was very realistic when in the same breath He said, “But the time will come for the bridegroom to be taken away from them and then they will fast.”  One thing is clear, earthly joys and human ties and friendships, inclusive of spousal relationships, cannot last forever on this earth.  All human joys are limited joy.  They do not last.  Fasting is to remind us of the transient joys of this world so that we do not cling to them.  We cannot cling to our beauty, our office, our position, our wealth and our friends because they too will have to go.  Whatever we have, we enjoy them for as long as they last.  But we should not cling to them.
Because such things do not last, we must cling to God who is the ultimate Bridegroom.  Only relationship with God can last forever.  Fasting and penance are meant to help us go beyond this world to the ultimate of life.  They are meant to help us yearn for God and for the eternal values of life.   Only in God can we find ultimate joy and peace.  So even in Christian sorrow that the world is passing, there is a deep joy and peace because we know they point to what cannot pass away and eternal, that is God alone.
Christian joy also includes the cross.  When Jesus made the remark about the right time to mourn, He was making a veiled reference to His passion and death ahead of Him.  Jesus was truthful and cognizant of the fact that fidelity to the truth and love of God would often require suffering.  Witnessing to God’s love and mercy would often attract opposition from those who are against God.  Even then, because Christian joy includes the cross, it is a paradoxical joy because when we suffer for love and in love, it brings us a joy beyond comparison.  All parents and spouses suffer for the love of their spouse and children.  But they suffer with joy because they suffer in love.  When we seek to witness for Christ and the gospel, we will be persecuted.  “Beware of men; for they will deliver you up to councils, and flog you in their synagogues, and you will be dragged before governors and kings for my sake, to bear testimony before them and the Gentiles.”  (Mt 10:17f)
Christian joy also includes the absence of the bridegroom in our lives.  When we live a life of sin, we feel emptiness and a vacuum in our lives.  Knowing that we are away from God makes us feel sad.  Although we can try to suppress our conscience and our desire for peace and joy, we know we are cheating ourselves.  Even for those of us who are deep in sin and have left God for a long time, we know that deep in our hearts we want to come back to Him and be reconciled.  But this emptiness is God’s way to lure us back to Him.  Through the prophet Hosea, the Lord said, “I am going to lead her out into the wilderness and speak to her heart.  There she will respond to me as she did when she was young, as she did when she came out of the land of Egypt. I will betroth you to myself forever, betroth you with integrity and justice, with tenderness and love; I will betroth you to myself with faithfulness, and you will come to know the Lord.”  (Hos 2:16-17, 21-22)
Within this context, we can appreciate the relevance of fasting, not as an end itself but a means to rediscover what really matters in life.  Through fasting, we come to realize the importance of God and our loved ones in our life.  Joy is about right and loving relationships.  The others are secondary, especially material things and popularity.   Fasting helps us to discipline ourselves so that we can dispose ourselves to the love of God in prayer, and identification with the sufferings of our fellowmen.  Mortification, penance and fasting are simply ways by which to help us appreciate what we have, how much others are suffering, so that we can share with them our blessings and resources.  The Lord said, “Is not this the sort of fast that pleases me – it is the Lord who speaks – to break unjust fetters and undo the thongs of the yoke, to let the oppressed go free, and break every yoke, to share your bread with the hungry, and shelter the homeless poor, to clothe the man you see to be naked and not turn from your own kin?”  Through disciplining the body, we hope that we can exercise control over our spirit, our mind and heart in choosing and doing the right thing.  If we do not exercise control over our body, it would be impossible to control our mind.  May this Lenten season be used wisely as an occasion for us to renew our love for God and for our fellowmen in truth and in love.


Written by The Most Rev William Goh Roman Catholic Archbishop of Singapore © All Rights Reserved

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