Monday, 7 October 2019

REACHING OUT TO OUR ENEMIES IN MERCY

08 OCTOBER, 2019, Tuesday, 27th Week, Ordinary Time
Readings at Mass
Liturgical Colour: Green.

First reading
Jonah 3:1-10 ©

The Ninevites repent, and God spares them
The word of the Lord was addressed to Jonah: ‘Up!’ he said ‘Go to Nineveh, the great city, and preach to them as I told you to.’ Jonah set out and went to Nineveh in obedience to the word of the Lord. Now Nineveh was a city great beyond compare: it took three days to cross it. Jonah went on into the city, making a day’s journey. He preached in these words, ‘Only forty days more and Nineveh is going to be destroyed.’ And the people of Nineveh believed in God; they proclaimed a fast and put on sackcloth, from the greatest to the least. The news reached the king of Nineveh, who rose from his throne, took off his robe, put on sackcloth and sat down in ashes. A proclamation was then promulgated throughout Nineveh, by decree of the king and his ministers, as follows: ‘Men and beasts, herds and flocks, are to taste nothing; they must not eat, they must not drink water. All are to put on sackcloth and call on God with all their might; and let everyone renounce his evil behaviour and the wicked things he has done. Who knows if God will not change his mind and relent, if he will not renounce his burning wrath, so that we do not perish?’ God saw their efforts to renounce their evil behaviour, and God relented: he did not inflict on them the disaster which he had threatened.

Responsorial Psalm
Psalm 129(130):1-4,7-8 ©
If you, O Lord, should mark our guilt: Lord, who would survive?
Out of the depths I cry to you, O Lord,
  Lord, hear my voice!
O let your ears be attentive
  to the voice of my pleading.
If you, O Lord, should mark our guilt: Lord, who would survive?
If you, O Lord, should mark our guilt,
  Lord, who would survive?
But with you is found forgiveness:
  for this we revere you.
If you, O Lord, should mark our guilt: Lord, who would survive?
Because with the Lord there is mercy
  and fullness of redemption,
Israel indeed he will redeem
  from all its iniquity.
If you, O Lord, should mark our guilt: Lord, who would survive?

Gospel Acclamation
Jn15:15
Alleluia, alleluia!
I call you friends, says the Lord,
because I have made known to you
everything I have learnt from my Father.
Alleluia!
Or:
Lk11:28
Alleluia, alleluia!
Happy are those 
who hear the word of God
and keep it.
Alleluia!

Gospel
Luke 10:38-42 ©

Martha works; Mary listens
Jesus came to a village, and a woman named Martha welcomed him into her house. She had a sister called Mary, who sat down at the Lord’s feet and listened to him speaking. Now Martha who was distracted with all the serving said, ‘Lord, do you not care that my sister is leaving me to do the serving all by myself? Please tell her to help me.’ But the Lord answered: ‘Martha, Martha,’ he said ‘you worry and fret about so many things, and yet few are needed, indeed only one. It is Mary who has chosen the better part; it is not to be taken from her.’

REACHING OUT TO OUR ENEMIES IN MERCY

SCRIPTURE READINGS: [Jonah 3:1-10Ps 130:1-4,7-8Lk 10:38-42]
It is a normal reaction to condemn our enemies or those who have done us wrong.  Our instinctive response is to wish our enemies evil and harm.  We rejoice to see them fall and suffer because of the harm they have done to us.  This revengeful attitude towards our foe is ingrained in many of us.  We want to seek justice and retribution against those who have hurt us.  This was the way Jonah precisely felt in the first reading.  When God instructed him earlier on to go to Nineveh to preach repentance to the inhabitants of 120,000, he sought to get away from the Lord and headed the opposite direction instead towards Tarshish in Spain.  It was simply too much for Jonah to bring himself to preach to the enemies of Israel, much less to pray for their conversion.  Rather, in the mind of Jonah, for all the harsh and cruel sufferings that the Assyrians had caused to Israel, they all deserved to be burnt and destroyed.
Isn’t that the way we also react, not just towards people who have sinned against us but even to people who have done wrong?  Today, we are faced with social media policing people who commit crimes or have done something inappropriate or wrong.  When we read the comments of people condemning the act, most of these comments lack charity.  In fact, most are reactive, nasty, judgmental, ruthless and merciless.   It is not wrong to condemn a sin or an evil deed, but to condemn the sinner is quite a different story because we do not know all the circumstances surrounding the incident and least of all, the circumstances the offender grew up in.  People are quick to pass judgments and use the most uncharitable words to destroy the sinner, to push him against the wall, leaving him no chance to return or to repent.
Indeed, how often in the scripture Jesus reminds us that before we judge others, we must first examine ourselves to see whether we are free from all sins.  “Judge not, that you not be judged. For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and the measure you give will be the measure you get. Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when there is the log in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.”  (Mt 7:1-5) And to the woman who was caught committing adultery, the Lord said, “Let him who is without sin among you be the first to throw a stone at her.”  (Jn 8:7)
Yet it is very difficult for us even if we wish to reach out to our enemies in love and compassion.  When our hearts are hurt and wounded, we cannot feel the pain of our enemies.  We can only feel our own pains.  That was how Jonah felt. He could not bring himself to see his enemies repent and be saved from destruction.  In fact, he was hoping that they would be destroyed by God.  But then God insisted that Jonah went to Nineveh to call them to repentance.  Reluctantly and out of obedience and gratitude to God who saved him from drowning when his ship capsized, he went to the great city of Nineveh.  Although we read that “Now Nineveh was a city great beyond compare: it took three days to cross it”, “Jonah went on into the city, making a day’s journey.  He preached in these words, ‘Only forty days more and Nineveh is going to be destroyed.'”
It was a half-hearted mission.  We can be sure that he did not preach with the same earnestness and conviction he would had done for his own people Israel.  He was just obeying God’s order to preach.  Instead of taking three days, he just did it in one day.  And even then, he was hoping that the people would resist the message of repentance and his words would eventually be proven true when the city would be destroyed.  This is precisely what we do as well when asked to love our enemies and help them.  We will do the minimum and in a perfunctorily manner without any compassion or mercy simply because it is our duty.
But to Jonah’s astonishment, bafflement and chagrin, the people from the king to the least of the citizens repented.  “The people of Nineveh believed in God; they proclaimed a fast and put on sackcloth from the greatest to the least.  The news reached the king of Nineveh, who rose from his throne, took off his robe, put on sackcloth and sat down in the ashes.  A proclamation was them promulgated throughout Nineveh, by decree of the king and his ministers, as follows: ‘Men and beasts, herds and flocks, are to taste nothing; they must not eat, they must not drink water.  All are to put on sackcloth and call on God with all their might; and let everyone renounce his evil behaviour and the wicked things he has done.”  They believed and as a consequence, the tragedy was skirted. “God saw their efforts to renounce their evil behaviour. And God relented: he did not inflict on them the disaster which he had threatened.”
Of course, Jonah was not happy.  In fact, he was angry with God.  He was terribly displeased with God.  How could God help his enemies and save them?  He said, “O Lord! Is not this what I said while I was still in my own country? That is why I fled to Tarshish at the beginning; for I knew that you are a gracious God and merciful, slow to anger, and abounding in steadfast love, and ready to relent from punishing. And now, O Lord, please take my life from me, for it is better for me to die than to live.”  (Jonah 4:23) We, too, will also be angry with God whenever we see God blessing our enemies.  When we see that some evil men are prospering we feel cheated.   Our human understanding of justice tells us that the evil should be punished and the good rewarded.  Some of us harbor deep resentment against God because we feel that God is not fair to us.  He appears to bless the wicked and the selfish people and allow the poor to suffer injustice and poverty.
Yet the truth is that God loves both sinners and saints.  He wants to save us all.  We are His children.  Jesus taught us, “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be children of your Father in heaven; for he makes his sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the righteous and on the unrighteous.”  (Mt 5:44f) In fact, those who are evil and sinful require more grace than those who are already living a righteous life.  If they live an evil, vindictive, selfish and self-centered life, it is because they are ignorant.  They do not know what they are doing.  They have been deceived by Satan.  They are blinded by their past, by their wounds and hurts that make them aggressive and intolerant of others, unforgiving and lacking compassion.  That was why God sent Jonah to the Ninevites.  They, too, needed salvation and to hear the Good News.  Their repentance will eventually make them friends of Israel instead of being cruel towards them.
So like Jonah, if we cannot use our heart to love our enemies, then we should use our will to do what is good and right.  Even if we are still hurting inside because of what they have done to us, we must rise above our pain and see them as Christ would see them, sinners who are sick and need the doctor.  We must endeavor to do good to them even if what we do is not spontaneous unlike doing good to those whom we love.  Still, God will make use of our meagre efforts and goodwill to change lives.  Indeed, even though Jonah preached half-heartedly, the people repented.  It is not about what we can do but what God can do with us and through us.  We must not think that our achievements are all the result of our efforts and ingenuity.  It is the Lord who opened the hearts of the Ninevites to hear the Word of God.  So we too must do what we can to reach out to our enemies, help them when they ask, and most of all, pray for their conversion and enlightenment.
We cannot do this unless we take a page from Mary who sat at the feet of our Lord listening intently to Him.  She was basking in His love, in His word and in intimacy.  This was where she found strength and courage.  We must avoid being like Martha who was hurriedly doing many things for the Lord, anxious in wanting to please Him but ended up impatient, angry and resentful.  The Lord asked us to choose the better part, which is to spend time with Him so that we will learn to let go of our plans, our will, our ideas, our judgment and simply surrender ourselves, all that we do, in accordance with God’s will and plans for us.

Written by The Most Rev William Goh, Roman Catholic Archbishop of Singapore © All Rights Reserved



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