Wednesday, 25 February 2015

20150226 OUR RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD IS MANIFESTED IN THE WAY WE PRAY

20150226 OUR RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD IS MANIFESTED IN THE WAY WE PRAY

Readings at Mass

First reading
Esther 4:17 ©
Queen Esther took refuge with the Lord in the mortal peril which had overtaken her. She besought the Lord God of Israel in these words:
‘My Lord, our King, the only one,
come to my help, for I am alone
and have no helper but you
and am about to take my life in my hands.
‘I have been taught from my earliest years, in the bosom of my family,
that you, Lord, chose
Israel out of all the nations
and our ancestors out of all the people of old times
to be your heritage for ever;
and that you have treated them as you promised.
‘Remember, Lord; reveal yourself
in the time of our distress.
‘As for me, give me courage,
King of gods and master of all power.
Put persuasive words into my mouth
when I face the lion;
change his feeling into hatred for our enemy,
that the latter and all like him may be brought to their end.
‘As for ourselves, save us by your hand,
and come to my help, for I am alone
and have no one but you, Lord.’

Psalm
Psalm 137:1-3,7-8 ©
On the day I called, you answered me, O Lord.
I thank you, Lord, with all my heart:
  you have heard the words of my mouth.
In the presence of the angels I will bless you.
  I will adore before your holy temple.
On the day I called, you answered me, O Lord.
I thank you for your faithfulness and love,
  which excel all we ever knew of you.
On the day I called, you answered;
  you increased the strength of my soul.
On the day I called, you answered me, O Lord.
You stretch out your hand and save me,
  your hand will do all things for me.
Your love, O Lord, is eternal,
  discard not the work of your hands.
On the day I called, you answered me, O Lord.

Gospel Acclamation
Joel2:12-13
Glory to you, O Christ, you are the Word of God!
Now, now – it is the Lord who speaks –
come back to me with all your heart,
for I am all tenderness and compassion.
Glory to you, O Christ, you are the Word of God!
Or
Ps50:12,14
Glory to you, O Christ, you are the Word of God!
A pure heart create for me, O God,
and give me again the joy of your help.
Glory to you, O Christ, you are the Word of God!

Gospel
Matthew 7:7-12 ©
Jesus said to his disciples, ‘Ask, and it will be given to you; search, and you will find; knock, and the door will be opened to you. For the one who asks always receives; the one who searches always finds; the one who knocks will always have the door opened to him. Is there a man among you who would hand his son a stone when he asked for bread? Or would hand him a snake when he asked for a fish? If you, then, who are evil, know how to give your children what is good, how much more will your Father in heaven give good things to those who ask him!
  ‘So always treat others as you would like them to treat you; that is the meaning of the Law and the Prophets.’

OUR RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD IS MANIFESTED IN THE WAY WE PRAY
SCRIPTURE READINGS: Est 4:17;  Ps: 138: 1-2ab, 2cde-3, 7c-8; Mt 7:7-12
Prayer, along with fasting and almsgiving, is part of the Lenten program.  It is meant to increase our desire for God.  Prayer is not what we say to God but what God says to us. Within this context prayer, even petitionary prayer, is part of the whole process of growing in grace and in knowledge of God.  In fact, having our prayer answered is not as important as what our prayer throws on our knowledge of God and of self.

Take for instance the unanswered prayer.  In the gospel Jesus teaches that God answers all prayers.  He said, “Ask, and it will be given to you; search, and you will find; knock, and the door will be opened to you.  For the one who asks always receives; the one who searches always finds; the one who knocks will always have the door opened to him.”  But does this promise of Jesus hold true in every case?  Isn’t it true that sometimes we feel that our prayers are not answered or that God does not even listen to our prayer?

What is the implication for doubting that our prayers would be answered?  The more serious truth is that it speaks of the degree of our relationship with the Lord.  When we feel that our prayers are not answered, it implies that we do not know whom we are praying to.  We do not believe in our hearts that God is our Father and that we are His children.  By not having faith that God will listen to our prayer, not only do we not know God but we also do not know who we are and what our own worth is.  So when we pray without faith, we are simply saying indirectly that we do not believe that God is truly our Father or that He is powerful enough to grant what we need in life.  We doubt His wisdom and power.

As a result of forgetting our identity as the children of God, we pray for the wrong things in life, going against the will of God.  Indeed, St. Augustine says that our prayer is not heard because we pray badly on account of the fact that we are evil, and our personal dispositions are not right.  Isn’t this what Jesus says of us? We ask for things that are not good for us, things that can harm us.  Not conscious of our identity, we become ignorant of what we should be asking.  So instead of asking for bread, we ask for a stone; and instead of asking for a fish, we ask for a snake.  Of course, as
Jesus said, “Is there a man among you who would hand his son a stone when he asked for bread? Or would hand him a snake when he asked for a fish?”  If we would not grant such a request from our children, would God the Father, who loves us, grant us those things that contradict our identity and happiness? Hence, Jesus remarked, “If you, then, who are evil, know how to give your children what is good, how much more will your Father in heaven give good things to those who ask him!”  In the final analysis, ineffective prayer is always not a true prayer.

Lent is an invitation to a deeper relationship with God.  It is a relationship of mutual love, mutual knowledge and mutual willing.  Today, the liturgy invites us to imitate Queen Esther who took refuge with the Lord.  She exemplifies what Jesus taught and promised about prayer.  She is the model of a pray-er.  She begins her prayer by acknowledging God’s majesty and supremacy.  She prayed thus, “My Lord, our King, the only one, come to my help, for I am alone and have no helper but you … King of Gods and master of all power.”  She could pray confidently in this manner only because she knew that God knows all things and is aware of her needs, even without her telling Him.

Furthermore, Esther knew her identity and who she was.  She knew that she and her people were the chosen race.  She said, “I have been taught from my earliest years, in the bosom of my family, that you, Lord, chose Israel out of all the nations and our ancestors out of all the people of old times to be your heritage for ever; and that you have treated them as you promised.”  Yes, she was confident that God would always be faithful to Israel.

The way she prayed reflects more about her and her relationship with God than about her prayer request.  She did not place any conditions on God.  Indeed, true prayer allows God to accomplish His work and grace in and within us.  For this reason, we must pray with confidence, asking for the great things. Truly, only when we ask for the great things, will the little things also be given to us.  Jesus elsewhere in the gospel urged us to seek not only for the kingdom but the Holy Spirit so that all these other things will be given to us.  For if God could give us His kingdom, that is, Himself in the Holy Spirit, what other things would He refuse to give to us.  Indeed, Jesus said, “your Father in heaven give good things to those who ask him!”

Within this context, the golden rule that Jesus gave to His disciples at the end of the gospel makes sense when He said, “So always treat others as you would like them to treat you; that is the meaning of the Law and the Prophets.”  If we do not understand this rule within the context of prayer and relationship, then it becomes a selfish rule implying that “I give you something so that you will give me something.”  On the contrary, what the rule is saying is that if we have a right perspective and relationship towards God and people, then we will treat them accordingly in the right manner, which can be truly life-giving.  It is therefore a call to relationship.

Yes, today we are called to develop this relationship by asking, knocking and seeking.  To ask indicates our humility to find out more about Jesus so that we can relate with Him more deeply.  This is why we study about Jesus in scripture and theology, always asking questions for a deeper understanding of Jesus and who He is to us and who we are to Him.  Secondly, we are called to knock.  The door that we are called to knock is not the door of Christ but the door of our hearts.  There is no need to storm heaven, but we need to storm our hearts.  If our hearts are sinful, we cannot be open to love and forgiveness.  We need to open our hearts to Christ who wants to touch us and reach out to us.  We must knock at the door of our hearts so that we can open it for Christ.  Finally, we are called to seek.  Seeking expresses our sincere desire for truth, for life and for love.  So we must pray that our hearts will always thirst for God and that we will seek Him always.

If we take heed of the words of Jesus to ask, we will certainly come to know Jesus; knock and our doors will be open for Jesus to come and live in us; seek and the life of God is ours, the life of the kingdom.  In this way, the liturgy gives us the focus and the path to find the fullness of life as we prepare ourselves for Easter during this Lenten period.
WRITTEN BY THE MOST REV WILLIAM GOH
ARCHBISHOP OF SINGAPORE
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