Monday, 30 March 2015

20150331 DEALING WITH BETRAYAL

20150331 DEALING WITH BETRAYAL

Readings at Mass

First reading
Isaiah 49:1-6 ©
Islands, listen to me,
pay attention, remotest peoples.
The Lord called me before I was born,
from my mother’s womb he pronounced my name.
He made my mouth a sharp sword,
and hid me in the shadow of his hand.
He made me into a sharpened arrow,
and concealed me in his quiver.
He said to me, ‘You are my servant (Israel)
in whom I shall be glorified’;
while I was thinking, ‘I have toiled in vain,
I have exhausted myself for nothing’;
and all the while my cause was with the Lord,
my reward with my God.
I was honoured in the eyes of the Lord,
my God was my strength.
And now the Lord has spoken,
he who formed me in the womb to be his servant,
to bring Jacob back to him,
to gather Israel to him:
‘It is not enough for you to be my servant,
to restore the tribes of Jacob and bring back the survivors of Israel;
I will make you the light of the nations
so that my salvation may reach to the ends of the earth.’

Psalm
Psalm 70:1-6,15,17 ©
My lips will tell of your help.
In you, O Lord, I take refuge;
  let me never be put to shame.
In your justice rescue me, free me:
  pay heed to me and save me.
My lips will tell of your help.
Be a rock where I can take refuge,
  a mighty stronghold to save me;
  for you are my rock, my stronghold.
Free me from the hand of the wicked.
My lips will tell of your help.
It is you, O Lord, who are my hope,
  my trust, O Lord, since my youth.
On you I have leaned from my birth,
  from my mother’s womb you have been my help.
My lips will tell of your help.
My lips will tell of your justice
  and day by day of your help.
O God, you have taught me from my youth
  and I proclaim your wonders still.
My lips will tell of your help.

Gospel Acclamation

Glory and praise to you, O Christ!
Hail to you, our King!
Obedient to the Father, you were led to your crucifixion
as a meek lamb is led to the slaughter.
Glory and praise to you, O Christ!

Gospel
John 13:21-33,36-38 ©
While at supper with his disciples, Jesus was troubled in spirit and declared, ‘I tell you most solemnly, one of you will betray me.’ The disciples looked at one another, wondering which he meant. The disciple Jesus loved was reclining next to Jesus; Simon Peter signed to him and said, ‘Ask who it is he means’, so leaning back on Jesus’ breast he said, ‘Who is it, Lord?’ ‘It is the one’ replied Jesus ‘to whom I give the piece of bread that I shall dip in the dish.’ He dipped the piece of bread and gave it to Judas son of Simon Iscariot. At that instant, after Judas had taken the bread, Satan entered him. Jesus then said, ‘What you are going to do, do quickly.’ None of the others at table understood the reason he said this. Since Judas had charge of the common fund, some of them thought Jesus was telling him, ‘Buy what we need for the festival’, or telling him to give something to the poor. As soon as Judas had taken the piece of bread he went out. Night had fallen.
  When he had gone Jesus said:
‘Now has the Son of Man been glorified,
and in him God has been glorified.
If God has been glorified in him,
God will in turn glorify him in himself,
and will glorify him very soon.
‘My little children,
I shall not be with you much longer.
You will look for me,
And, as I told the Jews,
where I am going, you cannot come.’
Simon Peter said, ‘Lord, where are you going?’ Jesus replied, ‘Where I am going you cannot follow me now; you will follow me later.’ Peter said to him, ‘Why can’t I follow you now? I will lay down my life for you.’ ‘Lay down your life for me?’ answered Jesus. ‘I tell you most solemnly, before the cock crows you will have disowned me three times.’

DEALING WITH BETRAYAL
SCRIPTURE READINGS: ISAIAH 49:1–6; JOHN 13:21-38
One of the most painful experiences in life is to be betrayed by those whom we love dearly and deeply.  The deeper the trust and love, the more pain we suffer. This is true in all relationships, whether of close friends, among colleagues and particularly in marriage.  Once betrayal is discovered, it is extremely difficult to repair the relationship, for trust has been broken.  Without trust, no relationship can ever blossom, since no communication is possible.  The intimacy of love is dependent solely on trust.  A relationship cannot thrive as there is no fertile ground to germinate the seed of love when one lives in constant suspicion of the other party. That is why, although we know from experience that setbacks, disappointments, frustrations in relationships happen in life, we must still choose to trust again, otherwise we are doomed to loneliness.
Yet, the fact remains that today’s relationships are so fragile.  Many marriages are not what they are supposed to be. Many couples not only do not share their bed, but their lives as well.  They are living in their own world, oblivious to the needs and feelings of their partners.  The temptations to betrayal are many.
One could be due to ambition.  This, perhaps, was the case of Judas.  Scholars suggest that he betrayed Jesus because being a Zealot, he wanted Jesus to act against the Roman conquerors and restore Israel back to its former glory.  His motive for handing Jesus over to His enemies was to force Jesus into a defensive and then offensive mode.  So it could be because of ambition.  In our case, very often, it is ambition that causes relationships to become distant.  Husbands and wives have little time for each other to share their joys and woes. The relationship tends to be merely functionary in nature; keeping the household going and looking after the needs of their children and loved ones.  Among colleagues, we betray each other through gossiping, backbiting and even slandering for the sake of promotion, recognition and acceptance.  We put the other person down so that we can be seen in a better light by others, especially our superiors.
Another reason for betrayal could be greed, as suggested in the scriptures.  Judas was in charge of the fund and it could be because of greed that he sold out Jesus.  Earlier on, he complained about Mary being wasteful in anointing Jesus’ feet with expensive ointment.  Judas was greedy and stingy.  One of the capital sins, greed causes even close friends and relatives to betray each other.  For the love of money, we are willing to compromise and cheat on our friends and loved ones.  We borrow money and never return.  Some even resort to stealing.  Greed is often the cause of people taking bribes and committing criminal breach of trust.  This innate desire to have more and more causes us to betray the trust given to us.
But more often than not, betrayal is due to fear.  This was the case for Peter and the apostles.  They feared for their lives and hence they ran away, even though they had earlier professed that they would even die for their master.  But when it came to the crunch, they all abandoned Him. They were just being human!   So, too, in our present day relationships.  In good times, we make all kinds of promises to our spouse and loved ones.  But when the crunch comes, when our loved ones are not so lovable because of illness, problems at work or at home, etc, we are not so understanding, supportive or caring.  At the end of the day, most of us care more for ourselves than others.  Our needs and security come before others.  It is rare for people to put their lives and happiness before others.  When we are healthy and self-sufficient, it is easy to talk about service and care for others.  But when we are suffering and in pain, it is difficult to still think of others. So often, betrayal in relationships happen because the other party is neglected.  Most of the time, adultery happens because spouses take each other for granted. They fail to be sensitive to the needs of their partner. When a marriage is reduced to a superficial relationship, then it is at risk because everyone needs emotional support, intimacy, love and understanding.  When a relationship fails, it is easy to point the finger at the other party, but in truth, if we have loved our spouse enough, why would he or she turn to someone else?
So how should we react in the face of betrayal?  Our immediate reaction is often dismay, which turns to disbelief, anger, resentment and sometimes revenge.  But such reactive emotions will only destroy us.  When we are unforgiving and harbour hatred and revenge, we will sink further into depression and anger.  By not forgiving and letting go, we allow anger to eat us up.  Sure, we can feel sad and disappointed like the Suffering Servant and Jesus Himself.  The Suffering Servant, with deep regret said, “…while I was thinking, I have toiled in vain, I have exhausted myself for nothing.”  Indeed, this is our normal human response when we feel cheated, because all our efforts and sacrifices seem to have gone to the wind.  Jesus too, was deeply troubled in spirit.  He must have felt discouraged that in spite of His love for Judas and His disciples, they would betray Him, particularly when He saw through the disciples; that behind all their professions of love and loyalty, their words were mere rhetoric.  He knew them too well; that they were cowards and could not be trusted.
How could Jesus remain so calm in the face of betrayal?  It was because He knew that God was in control.  He knew that everything was in the hands of His Father and no human sin can wreck the divine plan of God.  Identifying Himself with the Suffering Servant, He knew that God will vindicate Him eventually.  The prophet said, “You are my servant (Israel) in whom I shall be glorified’; while I was thinking, ‘I have toiled in vain, I have exhausted myself for nothing’; and all the while my cause was with the Lord, my reward with my God. I was honoured in the eyes of the Lord, my God was my strength.”  Indeed, in such moments, we must continue to trust in the Lord.
Like the Suffering Servant, we must not feel that all is lost.  We must look beyond the rain to see the rainbow.  We must transcend the pain and look at the joy ahead.  We must see beyond the hurts inflicted on us and look at the pain from the perspective of the traitor.  If we look at them with love and compassion, we will be able to see that they are as hurt as we are, insecure, lonely and frightened, seeking for love and attention and finding their security.  So before we condemn them and write them off, remember that their betrayal of our love only serves to highlight that we are not reaching out to them sufficiently to assure them of our love and to heal them of their brokenness.  Truly, we must not see that all is lost.  Perhaps, such failures in love should only challenge us not to take our loved ones for granted but give us greater will to work out and improve the relationship.  If we continue to work on the relationship, we can still salvage what has been lost.  When we remember the good times and the beautiful memories we have had, that will give us hope again.
Secondly, in the face of betrayal, Jesus remained conscious of His mission.  He knew that He was sent by the Father.  He remembered the words of the Suffering Servant, “And now the Lord has spoken, he who formed me in the womb to be his servant, to bring Jacob back to him, to gather Israel to him: ‘It is not enough for you to be my servant, to restore the tribes of Jacob and bring back the survivors of Israel; I will make you the light of the nations so that my salvation may reach to the ends of the earth’.”  What about us?  Have we forgotten our mission and our promises to each other when we committed ourselves to our spouse or to our friends?  We have a mission to help each other to grow in love and be healed in our brokenness and loneliness.  Have we forgotten all the aspirations we then shared, of how we want to spend our lives together, making each other our soul-mate, sharing the joys and sorrows of life for our good and those entrusted to us, especially our children, loved ones or those under our care?  Remembering our mission will help us to keep focused when the going gets tough.  So long as we keep our focus on our vocation in life, no matter how difficult it is, no matter how many times we have failed to be faithful to our vocation and our partner, we can pick ourselves up like Peter and continue to live out our calling.  We must not be like Judas who forgot about his vocation and calling in the face of failure.  Let us remember once again, “The Lord called me before I was born, from my mother’s womb he pronounced my name.”
Finally, in dealing with betrayal, let us look at Jesus, or rather, allow Jesus to look at us.  As we approach the passion, we are called to look and contemplate on Jesus.  When Jesus looked at Peter at the third crow of the cock, Peter wept and repented.  Let us look directly into the eyes of our Lord too, as Isaiah says, “The crowds were appalled on seeing him – so disfigured did he look that he seemed no longer human – so will the crowds be astonished at him …”(Isa 52:14)  Likewise, when we look at our traitors after having looked at the Lord whom we have betrayed, we too can forgive them because like them, we have hurt the Lord and deeply grieved His heart a thousand times more.  And for those of us who have betrayed our loved ones, let us come before the Lord and let Him look at us with sorrow and compassion; and let us contemplate on the beautiful icon of our Lady of Perpetual Succour looking at us with sorrowful eyes, urging us to repent and return to our loved ones and to Him.  Only the sorrowful eyes of God and our loved ones whom we have betrayed can convict us to the quick and make us repent of our lack of fidelity.
WRITTEN BY THE MOST REV WILLIAM GOH
ARCHBISHOP OF SINGAPORE
© ALL RIGHTS RESERVED


20150330 OUR LOVE FOR JESUS WILL DETERMINE OUR FIDELITY TO HIM

20150330 OUR LOVE FOR JESUS WILL DETERMINE OUR FIDELITY TO HIM

Readings at Mass
This gospel is read at the procession with palms before Mass:
EITHER:
Gospel
Mark 11:1-10 ©
Blessings on him who comes in the name of the Lord.
When they were approaching Jerusalem, in sight of Bethphage and Bethany, close by the Mount of Olives, he sent two of his disciples and said to them, ‘Go off to the village facing you, and as soon as you enter it you will find a tethered colt that no one has yet ridden. Untie it and bring it here. If anyone says to you, “What are you doing?” say, “The Master needs it and will send it back here directly”.’ They went off and found a colt tethered near a door in the open street. As they untied it, some men standing there said, ‘What are you doing, untying that colt?’ They gave the answer Jesus had told them, and the men let them go. Then they took the colt to Jesus and threw their cloaks on its back, and he sat on it. Many people spread their cloaks on the road, others greenery which they had cut in the fields. And those who went in front and those who followed were all shouting, ‘Hosanna! Blessings on him who comes in the name of the Lord! Blessings on the coming kingdom of our father David! Hosanna in the highest heavens!’
OR:
Alternative Gospel
John 12:12-16 ©
Blessings on him who comes in the name of the Lord.
The crowds who had come up for the festival heard that Jesus was on his way to Jerusalem. They took branches of palm and went out to meet him, shouting, ‘Hosanna! Blessings on the King of Israel, who comes in the name of the Lord.’ Jesus found a young donkey and mounted it – as scripture says: Do not be afraid, daughter of Zion; see, your king is coming, mounted on the colt of a donkey. At the time his disciples did not understand this, but later, after Jesus had been glorified, they remembered that this had been written about him and that this was in fact how they had received him.
The following are the readings at the Mass itself:

First reading
Isaiah 50:4-7 ©
The Lord has given me
a disciple’s tongue.
So that I may know how to reply to the wearied
he provides me with speech.
Each morning he wakes me to hear,
to listen like a disciple.
The Lord has opened my ear.
For my part, I made no resistance,
neither did I turn away.
I offered my back to those who struck me,
my cheeks to those who tore at my beard;
I did not cover my face
against insult and spittle.
The Lord comes to my help,
so that I am untouched by the insults.
So, too, I set my face like flint;
I know I shall not be shamed.

Psalm
Psalm 21:8-9,17-20,23-24

Second reading
Philippians 2:6-11 ©
His state was divine,
yet Christ Jesus did not cling
to his equality with God
but emptied himself
to assume the condition of a slave
and became as men are;
and being as all men are,
he was humbler yet,
even to accepting death,
death on a cross.
But God raised him high
and gave him the name
which is above all other names
so that all beings
in the heavens, on earth and in the underworld,
should bend the knee at the name of Jesus
and that every tongue should acclaim
Jesus Christ as Lord,
to the glory of God the Father.

Gospel Acclamation
Phil2:8-9
Praise to you, O Christ, king of eternal glory!
Christ was humbler yet,
even to accepting death, death on a cross.
But God raised him high
and gave him the name which is above all names.
Praise to you, O Christ, king of eternal glory!
EITHER:
Gospel
Mark 14:1-15:47 ©
It was two days before the Passover and the feast of Unleavened Bread, and the chief priests and the scribes were looking for a way to arrest Jesus by some trick and have him put to death. For they said, ‘It must not be during the festivities, or there will be a disturbance among the people.’
  Jesus was at Bethany in the house of Simon the leper; he was at dinner when a woman came in with an alabaster jar of very costly ointment, pure nard. She broke the jar and poured the ointment on his head. Some who were there said to one another indignantly, ‘Why this waste of ointment? Ointment like this could have been sold for over three hundred denarii and the money given to the poor’; and they were angry with her. But Jesus said, ‘Leave her alone. Why are you upsetting her? What she has done for me is one of the good works. You have the poor with you always, and you can be kind to them whenever you wish, but you will not always have me. She has done what was in her power to do: she has anointed my body beforehand for its burial. I tell you solemnly, wherever throughout all the world the Good News is proclaimed, what she has done will be told also, in remembrance of her.’
  Judas Iscariot, one of the Twelve, approached the chief priests with an offer to hand Jesus over to them. They were delighted to hear it, and promised to give him money; and he looked for a way of betraying him when the opportunity should occur.
  On the first day of Unleavened Bread, when the Passover lamb was sacrificed, his disciples said to him, ‘Where do you want us to go and make the preparations for you to eat the passover?’ So he sent two of his disciples, saying to them, ‘Go into the city and you will meet a man carrying a pitcher of water. Follow him, and say to the owner of the house which he enters, “The Master says: Where is my dining room in which I can eat the passover with my disciples?” He will show you a large upper room furnished with couches, all prepared. Make the preparations for us there,’ The disciples set out and went to the city and found everything as he had told them, and prepared the Passover.
  When evening came he arrived with the Twelve. And while they were at table eating, Jesus said, ‘I tell you solemnly, one of you is about to betray me, one of you eating with me.’ They were distressed and asked him, one after another, ‘Not I, surely?’ He said to them, ‘It is one of the Twelve, one who is dipping into the same dish with me. Yes, the Son of Man is going to his fate, as the scriptures say he will, but alas for that man by whom the Son of Man is betrayed! Better for that man if he had never been born!’
  And as they were eating he took some bread, and when he had said the blessing he broke it and gave it to them. ‘Take it,’ he said ‘this is my body.’ Then he took a cup, and when he had returned thanks he gave it to them, and all drank from it, and he said to them, ‘This is my blood, the blood of the covenant, which is to be poured out for many. I tell you solemnly, I shall not drink any more wine until the day I drink the new wine in the kingdom of God.’
  After psalms had been sung they left for the Mount of Olives. And Jesus said to them, ‘You will all lose faith, for the scripture says: I shall strike the shepherd and the sheep will be scattered, however after my resurrection I shall go before you to Galilee.’ Peter said, ‘Even if all lose faith, I will not.’ And Jesus said to him, ‘I tell you solemnly, this day, this very night, before the cock crows twice, you will have disowned me three times.’ But he repeated still more earnestly, ‘If I have to die with you, I will never disown you.’ And they all said the same.
  They came to a small estate called Gethsemane, and Jesus said to his disciples, ‘Stay here while I pray.’ Then he took Peter and James and John with him. And a sudden fear came over him, and great distress. And he said to them, ‘My soul is sorrowful to the point of death. Wait here, and keep awake.’ And going on a little further he threw himself on the ground and prayed that, if it were possible, this hour might pass him by. ‘Abba (Father)!’ he said ‘Everything is possible for you. Take this cup away from me. But let it be as you, not I, would have it.’ He came back and found them sleeping, and he said to Peter, ‘Simon, are you asleep? Had you not the strength to keep awake one hour? You should be awake, and praying not to be put to the test. The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak.’ Again he went away and prayed, saying the same words. And once more he came back and found them sleeping, their eyes were so heavy; and they could find no answer for him. He came back a third time and said to them, ‘You can sleep on now and take your rest. It is all over. The hour has come. Now the Son of Man is to be betrayed into the hands of sinners. Get up! Let us go! My betrayer is close at hand already.’
  Even while he was still speaking, Judas, one of the Twelve, came up with a number of men armed with swords and clubs, sent by the chief priests and the scribes and the elders. Now the traitor had arranged a signal with them. ‘The one I kiss,’ he had said ‘he is the man. Take him in charge, and see he is well guarded when you lead him away.’ So when the traitor came, he went straight up to Jesus and said, ‘Rabbi!’ and kissed him. The others seized him and took him in charge. Then one of the bystanders drew his sword and struck out at the high priest’s servant, and cut off his ear.
  Then Jesus spoke. ‘Am I a brigand’ he said ‘that you had to set out to capture me with swords and clubs? I was among you teaching in the Temple day after day and you never laid hands on me. But this is to fulfil the scriptures.’ And they all deserted him and ran away. A young man who followed him had nothing on but a linen cloth. They caught hold of him, but he left the cloth in their hands and ran away naked.
  They led Jesus off to the high priest; and all the chief priests and the elders and the scribes assembled there. Peter had followed him at a distance, right into the high priest’s palace, and was sitting with the attendants warming himself at the fire.
  The chief priests and the whole Sanhedrin were looking for evidence against Jesus on which they might pass the death sentence. But they could not find any. Several, indeed, brought false evidence against him, but their evidence was conflicting. Some stood up and submitted this false evidence against him, ‘We heard him say, “I am going to destroy this Temple made by human hands, and in three days build another, not made by human hands.”’ But even on this point their evidence was conflicting. The high priest then stood up before the whole assembly and put this question to Jesus, ‘Have you no answer to that? What is this evidence these men are bringing against you?’ But he was silent and made no answer at all. The high priest put a second question to him, ‘Are you the Christ,’ he said, ‘the Son of the Blessed One?’ ‘I am,’ said Jesus ‘and you will see the Son of Man seated at the right hand of the Power and coming with the clouds of heaven.’ The high priest tore his robes, ‘What need of witnesses have we now?’ he said. ‘You heard the blasphemy. What is your finding?’ And they all gave their verdict: he deserved to die.
  Some of them started spitting at him and, blindfolding him, began hitting him with their fists and shouting, ‘Play the prophet!’ And the attendants rained blows on him.
  While Peter was down below in the courtyard, one of the high priest’s servant-girls came up. She saw Peter warming himself there, stared at him and said, ‘You too were with Jesus, the man from Nazareth.’ But he denied it. ‘I do not know, I do not understand, what you are talking about’ he said. And he went out into the forecourt. The servant-girl saw him and again started telling the bystanders, ‘This fellow is one of them.’ But again he denied it. A little later the bystanders themselves said to Peter, ‘You are one of them for sure! Why, you are a Galilean.’ But he started calling down curses on himself and swearing, ‘I do not know the man you speak of.’ At that moment the cock crew for the second time, and Peter recalled how Jesus had said to him, ‘Before the cock crows twice, you will have disowned me three times.’ And he burst into tears.
  First thing in the morning, the chief priests together with the elders and scribes, in short the whole Sanhedrin, had their plan ready. They had Jesus bound and took him away and handed him over to Pilate.
  Pilate questioned him, ‘Are you the king of the Jews?’ ‘It is you who say it’ he answered. And the chief priests brought many accusations against him. Pilate questioned him again, ‘Have you no reply at all? See how many accusations they are bringing against you!’ But, to Pilate’s amazement, Jesus made no further reply.
  At festival time Pilate used to release a prisoner for them, anyone they asked for. Now a man called Barabbas was then in prison with the rioters who had committed murder during the uprising. When the crowd went up and began to ask Pilate the customary favour, Pilate answered them, ‘Do you want me to release for you the king of the Jews?’ For he realised it was out of jealousy that the chief priests had handed Jesus over. The chief priests, however, had incited the crowd to demand that he should release Barabbas for them instead. Then Pilate spoke again. ‘But in that case,’ he said to them ‘what am I to do with the man you call king of the Jews?’ They shouted back, ‘Crucify him!’ ‘Why?’ Pilate asked them ‘What harm has he done?’ But they shouted all the louder, ‘Crucify him!’ So Pilate, anxious to placate the crowd, released Barabbas for them and, having ordered Jesus to be scourged, handed him over to be crucified.
  The soldiers led him away to the inner part of the palace, that is, the Praetorium, and called the whole cohort together. They dressed him up in purple, twisted some thorns into a crown and put it on him. And they began saluting him, ‘Hail, king of the Jews!’ They struck his head with a reed and spat on him; and they went down on their knees to do him homage. And when they had finished making fun of him, they took off the purple and dressed him in his own clothes.
  They enlisted a passer-by, Simon of Cyrene, father of Alexander and Rufus, who was coming in from the country, to carry his cross. They brought Jesus to the place called Golgotha, which means the place of the skull.
  They offered him wine mixed with myrrh, but he refused it. Then they crucified him, and shared out his clothing, casting lots to decide what each should get. It was the third hour when they crucified him. The inscription giving the charge against him read: ‘The King of the Jews.’ And they crucified two robbers with him, one on his right and one on his left.
  The passers-by jeered at him; they shook their heads and said, ‘Aha! So you would destroy the Temple and rebuild it in three days! Then save yourself: come down from the cross!’ The chief priests and the scribes mocked him among themselves in the same way. ‘He saved others,’ they said ‘he cannot save himself. Let the Christ, the king of Israel, come down from the cross now, for us to see it and believe.’ Even those who were crucified with him taunted him.
  When the sixth hour came there was darkness over the whole land until the ninth hour. And at the ninth hour Jesus cried out in a loud voice, ‘Eloi, Eloi, lama sabachthani?’ which means, ‘My God, my God, why have you deserted me?’ When some of those who stood by heard this, they said, ‘Listen, he is calling on Elijah.’ Someone ran and soaked a sponge in vinegar and, putting it on a reed, gave it him to drink saying; ‘Wait and see if Elijah will come to take him down.’ But Jesus gave a loud cry and breathed his last. And the veil of the Temple was torn in two from top to bottom. The centurion, who was standing in front of him, had seen how he had died, and he said, ‘In truth this man was a son of God.’
  There were some women watching from a distance. Among them were Mary of Magdala, Mary who was the mother of James the younger and Joset, and Salome. These used to follow him and look after him when he was in Galilee. And there were many other women there who had come up to Jerusalem with him.
  It was now evening, and since it was Preparation Day (that is, the vigil of the sabbath), there came Joseph of Arimathaea, a prominent member of the Council, who himself lived in the hope of seeing the kingdom of God, and he boldly went to Pilate and asked for the body of Jesus. Pilate, astonished that he should have died so soon, summoned the centurion and enquired if he was already dead. Having been assured of this by the centurion, he granted the corpse to Joseph who bought a shroud, took Jesus down from the cross, wrapped him in the shroud and laid him in a tomb which had been hewn out of the rock. He then rolled a stone against the entrance to the tomb. Mary of Magdala and Mary the mother of Joset were watching and took note of where he was laid.
OR:
Alternative Gospel
Mark 15:1-39 ©
First thing in the morning, the chief priests together with the elders and scribes, in short the whole Sanhedrin, had their plan ready. They had Jesus bound and took him away and handed him over to Pilate.
  Pilate questioned him, ‘Are you the king of the Jews?’ ‘It is you who say it’ he answered. And the chief priests brought many accusations against him. Pilate questioned him again, ‘Have you no reply at all? See how many accusations they are bringing against you!’ But, to Pilate’s amazement, Jesus made no further reply.
  At festival time Pilate used to release a prisoner for them, anyone they asked for. Now a man called Barabbas was then in prison with the rioters who had committed murder during the uprising. When the crowd went up and began to ask Pilate the customary favour, Pilate answered them, ‘Do you want me to release for you the king of the Jews?’ For he realised it was out of jealousy that the chief priests had handed Jesus over. The chief priests, however, had incited the crowd to demand that he should release Barabbas for them instead. Then Pilate spoke again. ‘But in that case,’ he said to them ‘what am I to do with the man you call king of the Jews?’ They shouted back, ‘Crucify him!’ ‘Why?’ Pilate asked them ‘What harm has he done?’ But they shouted all the louder, ‘Crucify him!’ So Pilate, anxious to placate the crowd, released Barabbas for them and, having ordered Jesus to be scourged, handed him over to be crucified.
  The soldiers led him away to the inner part of the palace, that is, the Praetorium, and called the whole cohort together. They dressed him up in purple, twisted some thorns into a crown and put it on him. And they began saluting him, ‘Hail, king of the Jews!’ They struck his head with a reed and spat on him; and they went down on their knees to do him homage. And when they had finished making fun of him, they took off the purple and dressed him in his own clothes.
  They led him out to crucify him. They enlisted a passer-by, Simon of Cyrene, father of Alexander and Rufus, who was coming in from the country, to carry his cross. They brought Jesus to the place called Golgotha, which means the place of the skull.
  They offered him wine mixed with myrrh, but he refused it. Then they crucified him, and shared out his clothing, casting lots to decide what each should get. It was the third hour when they crucified him. The inscription giving the charge against him read: ‘The King of the Jews.’ And they crucified two robbers with him, one on his right and one on his left.
  The passers-by jeered at him; they shook their heads and said, ‘Aha! So you would destroy the Temple and rebuild it in three days! Then save yourself: come down from the cross!’ The chief priests and the scribes mocked him among themselves in the same way. ‘He saved others,’ they said ‘he cannot save himself. Let the Christ, the king of Israel, come down from the cross now, for us to see it and believe.’ Even those who were crucified with him taunted him.
  When the sixth hour came there was darkness over the whole land until the ninth hour. And at the ninth hour Jesus cried out in a loud voice, ‘Eloi, Eloi, lama sabachthani?’ which means, ‘My God, my God, why have you deserted me?’ When some of those who stood by heard this, they said, ‘Listen, he is calling on Elijah.’ Someone ran and soaked a sponge in vinegar and, putting it on a reed, gave it him to drink saying; ‘Wait and see if Elijah will come to take him down.’ But Jesus gave a loud cry and breathed his last. And the veil of the Temple was torn in two from top to bottom. The centurion, who was standing in front of him, had seen how he had died, and he said, ‘In truth this man was a son of God.’

OUR LOVE FOR JESUS WILL DETERMINE OUR FIDELITY TO HIM?
SCRIPTURE READINGS: ISA 42:1-7; JN 12:1-11
On Palm Sunday yesterday, we celebrated Christ’s triumphant entry into Jerusalem to accomplish His mission of establishing the Kingdom of God. There, He laid down the final challenge to His people to accept the message of the Kingdom.  By doing so, He came into direct confrontation with the leaders of Jerusalem.  What is important is that Jesus did the will of His Father to the very end.   The challenge posed to us therefore, is whether we too will be faithful to Jesus to the very end, even when we have to carry the cross and face the prospect of death.  Will we be like the crowd who rejected Jesus when Jesus did not satisfy their expectations, or like the cowardly disciples and apostles of Jesus who abandoned Him when their fortunes changed?
We might give up on Jesus because we are not ready to share the cross with Him.  We find that we are unable to give ourselves completely to Him.  Wanting to carry the cross with Jesus for the love of Him, our loved ones and His people is one thing, but to be able to do it is another thing altogether.  We all know that we must follow Jesus in being committed to our vocations, in our professional lives or marriage for the good of the people of God.  We know that we must give our lives to those under our care so that they can become the best that they can be.  But how many of us are truly faithful to our vocation to love and serve, especially when we are struggling in our marriage, or in our work?  The tendency is to give up when trials set in.
In the final analysis, our fidelity to Jesus and to our vocation will depend on our love for Him and our experience of His love for us. Indeed, this is the basis for Jesus’ ministry.   Firstly, He was certain of His call to be the Anointed One of God.  He knew what the Father wanted Him to do.  Jesus would have certainly applied the words of Isaiah to Himself when the prophet wrote, “I, the Lord, have called you to serve the cause of right; I have taken you by the hand and formed you; I have appointed you as covenant of the people and light of the nations, to open the eyes of the blind, to free captives from prison, and those who live in darkness from the dungeon.”  If Jesus was so convicted of His calling to be the Suffering Servant, it was because of His intimate relationship with His Father.  Unless we are in touch with the Father in prayer, we cannot share the conviction of what the Father wants of us.  The reason why many of us are now living lives of regret is because we have chosen a particular state of life or a profession that we are not called to by the Lord.  Instead of asking what the Lord wants of us, we do what we will.  As a consequence, we find ourselves a misfit and unhappy in our current state of life.  If it were a case of a permanent commitment, then we are now paying the price for the wrong decision we have earlier made, a life of incomplete happiness.
Secondly, it was His love for the Father that motivated Him to go to the very end of dying for the Kingdom of His Father.  Of course, this love originates from the Father’s love for Him.   The First Suffering Servant Song of Isaiah speaks of Jesus as the Suffering Servant.  Historically, the servant here refers to Cyrus, the Persian King who allowed the exiled Israelites to return to Israel; or it could refer to Israel collectively as the Servant of God.  At any rate, the Suffering Servant theme has been applied to Jesus.  As the first reading tells us, “Here is my servant whom I uphold, my chosen one in whom my soul delights.”  These words remind us of the baptism of Jesus and His Transfiguration when the Father affirmed His choice of Jesus and His love for Him.  More than just His love, the Father has also “given him his spirit … that he may bring true justice to the nations.”   Conscious of His Father’s love and election, Jesus was able to give Himself totally to the cause of His Father. In response, Jesus was faithful to His Father’s love.  As Isaiah prophesied, “Faithfully he brings true justice; he will neither waver nor be crushed until true justice is established on earth, for the islands are awaiting his law.” Furthermore, we are told in the responsorial psalm that the Lord was His help and light, the stronghold of His life so that His heart might not fear.
So much was He one with the Father’s love that His approach to the world was also that of non-violence and compassion.  Indeed, “He does not cry out or shout aloud, or make his voice heard in the streets. He does not break the crushed reed, nor quench the wavering flame.”  Jesus was full of compassion for good and bad alike.  When Mary was accused of wastage, He defended her action.  When Judas had ulterior motives, Jesus patiently hoped for his repentance and conversion.  Throughout His ministry, Jesus employed love, compassion and forgiveness to bring sinners back to God.  Like His Father, Jesus demonstrated compassion for all of humanity.  His love for us all was symbolized in Mary’s extravagant love for Him, for she anointed the body of Jesus with expensive ointment.  Love in truth does not count the cost and is not measured in monetary terms.  In fact, all values do not have a monetary tag to it.  Can we ever repay the sacrifices of love that our parents made for us all these years?  Can we ever repay the sacrifices of love that our loved ones suffered for us?
What about us? Do we have the extravagant love of Mary or the calculative love of Judas with respect to Jesus?  What kind of love did Mary give to Jesus?  We are told that her love for Jesus was without limits.  She “brought in a pound of very costly ointment, pure nard, and with it anointed the feet of Jesus, wiping them with her hair; the house was full of the scent of the ointment.”  So focused was her love for Jesus, that she was oblivious to the people around her.  She was only concerned for Jesus’ needs and was not worried about whether she would make a fool of herself in public.  She expressed her love for Jesus unreservedly according to what she felt in her heart.  At the same time, she did it with respect for the mystery and the person of Jesus.
Judas’ love for Jesus however, was calculative and insincere.  His motives for loving Jesus were dubious.  It appeared that he loved Jesus.  But the truth is that he was making use of Jesus for his own self-interests.  He loved himself more than he loved Jesus.  Hence, when Mary showed honour to Jesus, he was not happy with Jesus.  Of course, he had his psychological defence to justify his disappointment.  He rationalized his lack of love for Jesus by giving the logical reason that the ointment could be “sold for three hundred denarii, and the money given to the poor.” Ironically, he was oblivious to the needs of Jesus and claimed to be attentive to the needs of the poor.
Consequently, today, we are invited to examine our love for Jesus.  Do we have a love for Jesus like Mary?  Because if we do, then it will be manifested in our commitment to growth in our spiritual life, in cultivating virtues, especially in living out the evangelical counsels, being committed to formation and most of all, a greater generosity in service and ministry.   Conversely, if we find ourselves making excuses and rationalizing like Judas for not taking our spiritual and prayer lives seriously or that we are lacking generosity in the ministry and in our vocation, then we know that our love for Jesus is shallow.  More likely than not, we could be making use of the ministry like Judas to benefit ourselves.
Yes, we are invited to deepen our love for Jesus who is the Beloved of the Father and ours during this last week of Lent.  We are called to be like the Prodigal Father, to be extravagant in love for Jesus.  Our love for Jesus is prior to the ministry.  Indeed, Jesus told Judas, “Leave her alone; she had to keep this scent for the day of my burial. You have the poor with you always, you will not always have me.”
The truth is that unless we love Jesus, we cannot give to the poor, less still to love them or even give ourselves selflessly to our loved ones, especially when they are demanding, unreasonable and ungrateful.  Only having loved Jesus, can we then share the love of Jesus with the poor and His people.   But once we love Him, then like the suffering servant, we too are called “to serve the cause of right.”  We too are appointed to be the “covenant of the people and light of the nations, to open the eyes of the blind, to free captives from prison, and those who live in darkness from the dungeon.”  When we give ourselves selflessly to others in love and service, then we know that we love Jesus.
Let us therefore take heed of Jesus’ warning.  We will have the poor with us always, but if we do not have Jesus with us, we cannot serve the poor.  We must avoid being calculative when it comes to spending time with Him in prayer or in service.  By being generous with our time for Jesus, we can become generous and truly concerned for the needs of His people, especially those who are materially, emotionally and spiritually poor.
WRITTEN BY THE MOST REV WILLIAM GOH
ARCHBISHOP OF SINGAPORE
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