Wednesday, 7 June 2017

LOVE IS THE WAY TO FIND LIFE

20170608 LOVE IS THE WAY TO FIND LIFE

Readings at Mass
Liturgical Colour: Green.

First reading
Tobit 6:10-11,7:1,9-14,8:4-9 ©
Raphael and Tobit entered Media and had nearly reached Ecbetana when Raphael said to the boy, ‘Brother Tobias.’ ‘Yes?’ he answered. The angel went on, ‘Tonight we shall be staying with Raguel, who is a kinsman of yours. He has a daughter called Sarah, but apart from Sarah he has no other son or daughter.’
  As they entered Ecbatana, Tobias said, ‘Brother Azarias, take me at once to our brother Raguel’s.’ And he showed him the way to the house of Raguel, whom they found sitting beside his courtyard door. They greeted him first, and he replied, ‘Welcome and greetings, brothers.’ And he took them into his house. He said to his wife Edna, ‘How like my brother Tobit this young man is!’ Raguel killed a sheep from the flock, and they gave them a warm-hearted welcome.
  They washed and bathed and sat down to table. Then Tobias said to Raphael, ‘Brother Azarias, will you ask Raguel to give me my sister Sarah?’ Raguel overheard the words, and said to the young man, ‘Eat and drink, and make the most of your evening; no one else has the right to take my daughter Sarah – no one but you, my brother. In any case I, for my own part, am not at liberty to give her to anyone else, since you are her next of kin. However, my boy, I must be frank with you: I have tried to find a husband for her seven times among our kinsmen, and all of them have died the first evening, on going to her room. But for the present, my boy, eat and drink; the Lord will grant you his grace and peace.’ Tobias spoke out, ‘I will not hear of eating and drinking till you have come to a decision about me.’ Raguel answered, ‘Very well. Since, as prescribed by the Book of Moses, she is given to you, heaven itself decrees she shall be yours. I therefore entrust your sister to you. From now you are her brother and she is your sister. She is given to you from today for ever. The Lord of heaven favour you tonight, my child, and grant you his grace and peace.’ Raguel called for his daughter Sarah, took her by the hand and gave her to Tobias with these words, ‘I entrust her to you; the law and the ruling recorded in the Book of Moses assign her to you as your wife. Take her; take her home to your father’s house with a good conscience. The God of heaven grant you a good journey in peace.’ Then he turned to her mother and asked her to fetch him writing paper. He drew up the marriage contract, how he gave his daughter as bride to Tobias according to the ordinance in the Law of Moses.
  After this they began to eat and drink. The parents, meanwhile, had gone out and shut the door behind them. Tobias rose from the bed, and said to Sarah, ‘Get up, my sister! You and I must pray and petition our Lord to win his grace and his protection.’ She stood up, and they began praying for protection, and this was how he began:
‘You are blessed, O God of our fathers;
blessed, too, is your name
for ever and ever.
Let the heavens bless you
and all things you have made
for evermore.
It was you who created Adam,
you who created Eve his wife
to be his help and support;
and from these two the human race was born.
It was you who said,
“It is not good that the man should be alone;
let us make him a helpmate like himself.”
And so I do not take my sister
for any lustful motive;
I do it in singleness of heart.
Be kind enough to have pity on her and on me
and bring us to old age together.’
And together they said, ‘Amen, Amen’, and lay down for the night.

Responsorial Psalm
Psalm 127(128):1-5 ©
O blessed are those who fear the Lord.
O blessed are those who fear the Lord
  and walk in his ways!
By the labour of your hands you shall eat.
  You will be happy and prosper.
O blessed are those who fear the Lord.
Your wife will be like a fruitful vine
  in the heart of your house;
your children like shoots of the olive,
  around your table.
O blessed are those who fear the Lord.
Indeed thus shall be blessed
  the man who fears the Lord.
May the Lord bless you from Zion
  all the days of your life!
O blessed are those who fear the Lord.

Gospel Acclamation
cf.Jn6:63,68
Alleluia, alleluia!
Your words are spirit, Lord, and they are life;
you have the message of eternal life.
Alleluia!
Or
cf.2Tim1:10
Alleluia, alleluia!
Our Saviour Jesus Christ abolished death
and he has proclaimed life through the Good News.
Alleluia!

Gospel
Mark 12:28-34 ©
One of the scribes came up to Jesus and put a question to him, ‘Which is the first of all the commandments?’ Jesus replied, ‘This is the first: Listen, Israel, the Lord our God is the one Lord, and you must love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind and with all your strength. The second is this: You must love your neighbour as yourself. There is no commandment greater than these.’ The scribe said to him, ‘Well spoken, Master; what you have said is true: that he is one and there is no other. To love him with all your heart, with all your understanding and strength, and to love your neighbour as yourself, this is far more important than any holocaust or sacrifice.’ Jesus, seeing how wisely he had spoken, said, ‘You are not far from the kingdom of God.’ And after that no one dared to question him any more.


LOVE IS THE WAY TO FIND LIFE

SCRIPTURE READINGS: [ TB 6:10-11; 7:1. 9-14; 8:4-9; PS 127:1-5; MK 12:28-34  ]
The gospel today gives us in a nutshell what finding God is all about.  Jesus, citing from the books of Deuteronomy and Leviticus, told the scribe, “This is the first: Listen, Israel, the Lord our God is the one Lord, and you must love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind and with all your strength.  The second is this, you must love your neighbour as yourself.  There is no commandment greater than these.” Truly, by bringing these two commandments from Deuteronomy 6:5 and Leviticus 19:18, Jesus  gave us the heart of all the commandments.  Even the scribe perceived the wisdom of Jesus and readily agreed with Him, ‘Well spoken, Master; what you have said is true: that he is one and there is no other.  To love him with all your heart, with all your understanding and strength, and to love your neighbour as yourself, this is far more important than any holocaust or sacrifice.”   Anyone who can live out these twin commandments will find life.  “Jesus seeing how wisely he had spoken, said, ‘You are not far from the kingdom of God.’”     
This explains why these two commandments are recited daily by every Jew.  They take seriously the command of Moses when he said, “Recite them to your children and talk about them when you are at home and when you are away, when you lie down and when you rise.  Bind them as a sign on your hand, fix them as an emblem on your forehead, and write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.”  (Dt 6:7-9)  The Shema is the central prayer of the Jews.  They are to be recited at least twice a day, morning and evening.  But this prayer should be the prayer for all as well, regardless which religion we belong to, for the love of God and love of man, including love of self must go together.  St John wrote, “Those who say, ‘I love God,’ and hate their brothers or sisters, are liars; for those who do not love a brother or sister whom they have seen, cannot love God whom they have not seen.”  (1 Jn 4:20
Within this context, we should look at pain, suffering and apparent disadvantages in life.  We can lament like Sarah who was inflicted by the demon who killed all her seven husbands, one after another, even before they could consummate the marriage.  She was distressed and wanted to hang herself, for she was humiliated and misunderstood.  We too are like her.  We complain about our limitations.  We feel that we are not handsome or pretty enough.  We are less intelligent than others.  For those of us who suffer from physical disabilities or the lack of skills and talents, we feel that God is not fair to us.
Yet, in truth, this is all within God’s plan.  What we have and what He has blessed us with is within the mystery of God’s plan.  Instead of grudging God and accusing Him of partiality and lacking in love for us, we must, like Sarah and Tobias, confess to the mercy and wisdom of God.  Tobias taught Sarah that in all situations, we must bless God.  “Tobias said to Sarah, ‘Get up, my sister! you must pray and petition our Lord to win His grace and His protection. ‘She stood up, and they began praying for protection, and this was how he began: ‘You are blessed, O God of our fathers; blessed, too, is your name for ever and ever. Let the heavens bless you and all things you have made for evermore.’”  In whatever situation we are in, we too must bless God for He is the One who knows what is best for us.  This is what the psalmist says, “O blessed are those who fear the Lord and walk in his ways!  By the labour of your hands you shall eat. You will be happy and prosper.”  Job also said a similar thing, “Naked I came from my mother’s womb, and naked shall I return there; the Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.”  (Job 1:21)  He did not blame God for his woes.
Secondly, we must realize that God gives us talents and resources so that we can be of help to each other.  Tobias prayed, “It was you who created Adam, you who created Eve his wife to be his help and support; and from these two the human race was born. It was you who said, ‘It is not good that the man should be alone; let us make him a helpmate like himself.’”  What is true about man and woman, it is true in all circumstances.  No man is an island.  We are called to help each other.  Just as the angel Raphael came to heal Tobit of his blindness and Sarah of the oppression of the Demon, so too we are called to help each other in small and big things.  The angel Raphael also revealed to Tobit why the Lord came to heal him and help Sarah.  It was because he passed the test of charity.  “And that time when you did not hesitate to get up and leave your dinner to go and bury the dead, I was sent to you to test you. And at the same time God sent me to heal you and Sarah your daughter-in-law.”  (Tobit 12:13f)
Indeed, we are called to be happy regardless of our circumstances and state of life.  Happiness is not a matter of how much we have, how healthy we are or even who we are.  Happiness is a matter of the heart and mind.  When we are loved and when we love, we feel happy, fulfilled and become truly human.  Success and achievements can make us feel great but not necessarily happy.  It is only when we are capable of love and being loved that we are healed and become holistic.  Indeed, people can be rich and healthy but yet are full of misery, anger, discontentment and bitterness. They have everything except peace, love and joy.   That is why when we care for others and when we allow others to care for us, our joys and happiness are doubled.  Those who share their talents find meaning and purpose in life.  Those who are lacking, feel loved when they receive. By receiving everything with love and gratitude, they impart a joy to the givers; something that they cannot buy or find with money and worldly success.  So whether we are rich or poor, physically mobile or limited, intelligent or average, we all need each other to be happy.  We complement each other.  No one is greater or lesser because without the other, we cannot find fulfillment and completeness.  Hence, God is fair because He makes it possible for all to be happy and fulfilled, provided we use what He has blessed us with to bless each other.  We are called to help each other to find God through our love and compassion for each other. 
A case in point is the Asia Pacific Summer Camp for Disabled Youth, which is taking place in Singapore today.  This is an occasion for all to celebrate and enjoy love.  It is hoped that through the comradery displayed at this event, there will be a greater experience of God’s love through human care and concern.   With the tender loving and attentive care of the organizers and helpers, we hope that they will come to believe in the reality of love; and that God’s love exist in our brothers and sisters in spite of our sinfulness and limitations.  Through infectious laughter, fun, love, sharing and inclusivity of all, we become one family of God and humanity.  This is what this camp hopes to achieve so that all feel that they are special and loved by God.
Hence, in our service to them, our love must be sincere.  It cannot be condescending.  We should be reaching out to them, not out of guilt or from a sense of superiority but out of gratitude to God who has blessed us with resources and time to bless others.  In the process, we too encounter God and His love.  That was how Tobias prayed, “And so I do not take my sister for any lustful motive; I do it in singleness of heart.”  When we love and care for them sincerely because they are God’s children and we are their brothers and sisters, then miracles will happen.  They will leave this camp transformed, more confident and better able to handle challenges in their life and develop a stronger will to live. The caregivers and organizers will also feel the love and joy of God in caring for them.  Even those who are helping out in this camp will carry away with them the joy of encountering the lovely youths who, in spite of their constraints, can still be happy, lovable and determined to make the best of their abilities.  In this way, we can truly say we have found God because we love God, our neighbors and ourselves.


Written by The Most Rev William Goh, Roman Catholic Archbishop of Singapore © All Rights Reserved


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