Monday 1 December 2014

20141103 LOVE THOSE WHO CANNOT REPAY YOU

20141103 LOVE THOSE WHO CANNOT REPAY YOU    

First reading
Philippians 2:1-4 ©

If our life in Christ means anything to you, if love can persuade at all, or the Spirit that we have in common, or any tenderness and sympathy, then be united in your convictions and united in your love, with a common purpose and a common mind. That is the one thing which would make me completely happy. There must be no competition among you, no conceit; but everybody is to be self-effacing. Always consider the other person to be better than yourself, So that nobody thinks of his own interests first but everybody thinks of other people’s interests instead.

Psalm            Psalm 130:1-3 ©

Keep my soul in peace before you, O Lord.
O Lord, my heart is not proud
  nor haughty my eyes.
I have not gone after things too great
  nor marvels beyond me.
Keep my soul in peace before you, O Lord.
Truly I have set my soul
  in silence and peace.
A weaned child on its mother’s breast,
  even so is my soul.
Keep my soul in peace before you, O Lord.
O Israel, hope in the Lord
  both now and forever.
Keep my soul in peace before you, O Lord.
Gospel Acclamation           Ps118:18
Alleluia, alleluia!
Open my eyes, O Lord, that I may consider
the wonders of your law.
Alleluia

Or        Jn8:31-32

Alleluia, alleluia!
If you make my word your home
you will indeed be my disciples,
and you will learn the truth, says the Lord.
Alleluia!

Gospel           Luke 14:12-14 ©

Jesus said to his host, one of the leading Pharisees, ‘When you give a lunch or a dinner, do not ask your friends, brothers, relations or rich neighbours, for fear they repay your courtesy by inviting you in return. No; when you have a party, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind; that they cannot pay you back means that you are fortunate, because repayment will be made to you when the virtuous rise again.’


OVE THOSE WHO CANNOT REPAY YOU    
SCRIPTURE READINGS: PHIL 2:1-4; LK 14:12-14
St Luke has a particular concern for the poor and the marginalized.  His gospel is a gospel written for the poor and the anawim.  Thus, in today’s gospel, Jesus teaches us that we should invite the poor, the crippled, the lame and the blind when we have a celebration.  This is because it is a blessing that those whom we invite would not be able to reciprocate our gesture, unlike those who are rich.  But most important of all, repayment would be made to us when we rise again in the next life.
In saying this, Jesus is reminding us of the need to act for the poor, especially the poorest of the poor.  Yet, in helping the poor, we must not think that we are doing them a favour.  On the contrary, if those we help cannot repay us, we should consider ourselves really fortunate and that they are actually doing us a favour.  Why?
This is because when they cannot pay us back, then we know that our love for them is genuine, real and unconditional.  When our love is given with the expectation that we will receive something in exchange, then such love is tainted with some form of selfishness.  It is only human love and not the pure love of God, which is unconditional and gracious.  True love gives freely without expecting anything in return.  If we give with the right hand and expect to receive with the left hand, then we are like those who invite the rich people hoping that they would be invited in return.
But more importantly, when the poor cannot pay us back, repayment will be made in the next life.  In other words, what we do in this life has eternal significance for our next life.  The eternal significance does not lie on what we do, but the virtues that are inculcated in the process of doing good.  Thus, we are actually building up our character for better by our generosity.  The poorest of the poor give us the opportunity to perfect our love for others so that, purified of selfishness and the lack of compassion, we will become more and more like God.  Hence, we must take all those moments when we help others with no hope of any repayment as truly the grace of God to educate us in true and authentic love.  So that by the time we reach the end of our earthly life, we would have grown to be more loving, generous, kind and compassionate like Christ.  The virtues which we develop in this life would be carried on to the next life, as Jesus said in today’s gospel, “Repayment will be made to you when the virtuous rise again.”
Thus, following the exhortation of St Paul in the first reading, we are called to live the life of Christ in selflessness and in utter concern for others before ourselves.  The more we think of others’ interests before our own; the more we live a self-effacing life; the more we love and are compassionate to others; then we can be certain that this life of Christ which we live now will be ours in the next.
Consequently, let us therefore pray that we will use whatever opportunities we have in this life to serve the poorest of the poor, not only the materially poor, but also those who are intellectually, emotionally and physically poor.   However, we must serve without any expectation of returns or rewards so that we can truly empty ourselves in unconditional love.  Whenever we help others and we receive no gifts in return; perhaps not even any appreciation at all, then we know that we have loved selflessly.  To be able to serve and love those who do not give us anything back is divine love.  This itself is the greatest reward because when we love and serve in this manner, we are truly liberated from attachments of all sorts.  We will experience the deepest joy of giving, loving and surrendering; a joy that no amount of money can buy.
Let us therefore thank God every time we are given such opportunities to love and serve the poor because the poor give us more than what others can give us, as they teach us how to love deeply and truly.  No wonder Mother Teresa often remarked that the poor are the most generous people because they give us “virtues” and godly joy which the rich cannot give us.
WRITTEN BY THE MOST REV WILLIAM GOH
ARCHBISHOP OF SINGAPORE

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