20150706 REPAIRING SHATTERED DREAMS
Readings at Mass
First reading
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Genesis 28:10-22
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Jacob left Beersheba
and set out for Haran. When he had reached a certain place he passed the night
there, since the sun had set. Taking one of the stones to be found at that
place, he made it his pillow and lay down where he was. He had a dream: a ladder
was there, standing on the ground with its top reaching to heaven; and there
were angels of God going up it and coming down. And the Lord was there,
standing over him, saying, ‘I am the Lord, the God of Abraham your father, and
the God of Isaac. I will give to you and your descendants the land on which you
are lying. Your descendants shall be like the specks of dust on the ground; you
shall spread to the west and the east, to the north and the south, and all the
tribes of the earth shall bless themselves by you and your descendants.
Be sure
that I am with you; I will keep you safe wherever you go, and bring you back to
this land, for I will not desert you before I have done all that I have
promised you.’ Then Jacob awoke from his sleep and said, ‘Truly, the Lord is in
this-place and I never knew it!’ He was afraid and said, ‘How awe-inspiring
this place is! This is nothing less than a house of God; this is the gate of
heaven!’ Rising early in the morning, Jacob took the stone he had used for his pillow,
and set it up as a monument, pouring oil over the top of it. He named the place
Bethel, but before that the town was called Luz.
Jacob
made this vow, ‘If God goes with me and keeps me safe on this journey I am
making, if he gives me bread to eat and clothes to wear, and if I return home
safely to my father, then the Lord shall be my God. This stone I have set up as
a monument shall be a house of God.’
Psalm
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Psalm
90:1-4,14-15 ©
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My God, in you I
trust.
He who dwells in the
shelter of the Most High
and
abides in the shade of the Almighty
says to the Lord: ‘My
refuge,
my
stronghold, my God in whom I trust!’
My God, in you I
trust.
It is he who will
free you from the snare
of the
fowler who seeks to destroy you;
he will conceal you
with his pinions
and under
his wings you will find refuge.
My God, in you I
trust.
Since he clings to me
in love, I will free him;
protect
him for he knows my name.
When he calls I shall
answer: ‘I am with you,’
I will
save him in distress.
My God, in you I
trust.
Gospel
Acclamation
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cf.Jn6:63,68
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Alleluia, alleluia!
Your words are
spirit, Lord, and they are life;
you have the message
of eternal life.
Alleluia!
Or
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cf.2Tim1:10
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Alleluia, alleluia!
Our Saviour Jesus
Christ abolished death
and he has proclaimed
life through the Good News.
Alleluia!
Gospel
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Matthew 9:18-26 ©
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While Jesus was
speaking, up came one of the officials, who bowed low in front of him and said,
‘My daughter has just died, but come and lay your hand on her and her life will
be saved.’ Jesus rose and, with his disciples, followed him. Then from behind
him came a woman, who had suffered from a haemorrhage for twelve years, and she
touched the fringe of his cloak, for she said to herself, ‘If I can only touch
his cloak I shall be well again.’ Jesus turned round and saw her; and he said
to her, ‘Courage, my daughter, your faith has restored you to health.’ And from
that moment the woman was well again.
When
Jesus reached the official’s house and saw the flute-players, with the crowd
making a commotion he said, ‘Get out of here; the little girl is not dead, she
is asleep.’ And they laughed at him. But when the people had been turned out he
went inside and took the little girl by the hand; and she stood up. And the
news spread all round the countryside.
REPAIRING
SHATTERED DREAMS
SCRIPTURE
READINGS: GENESIS 28:10-22;
MATTHEW 9:18-26
All of
us have dreams at one time or another. In fact, it is important that we
have dreams, otherwise there is no purpose in life. Dreams give hope and
orientation in life. Those without dreams will perish. Yet, some of
us are living with shattered dreams. We had great dreams but they did not
materialize. We feel angry with ourselves and with the world. We
try to find scapegoats for our misfortune and failures. We are even angry
with God and have given up on Him. If we are in this situation,
then the scripture readings today provide us with some insights into how we
should manage our dreams, even if they are broken dreams.
Where
do dreams come from? Quite often, they come from our parents, as in the
case of Jacob’s mother, Rebecca. She manipulated to have her younger son
Jacob to be the one whom the family would be blessed. She had great
dreams for Jacob. The dreams that come from our parents might be fraught
with danger. Their dreams might not be ours and sometimes not from God
either, but their own ambitions or unfulfilled dreams. Such a person
trying to live out the dream of someone else can never be truly happy because
that is not his dream. Even if he could do well, he will never excel and
even if he could achieve much, his life remains hollow and empty.
More
importantly, the dream should belong to the person himself or herself. We
must dream our own dream. In the first reading, Jacob had his own
dream. He dreamed that he would be a great leader and a successful
businessman. He would own much land and would be the father of many descendants.
He dreamt the Lord saying to him, “I will give to you and your descendants the
land on which you are lying. Your descendants shall be like the specks of
dust on the ground; you shall spread to the west and the east, to the north and
the south, and all the tribes of the earth shall bless themselves by you and
your descendants.”
Whilst
it is important that we dream, at the end of the day, we must make sure that
our dreams are aligned with the dreams of God for us. If our dreams are
not aligned with His dreams, we might be chasing the wrong things in life;
ambition, power, wealth, glory and status. If that were the case, we
might never really be happy. So we must make sure that our dream is also
God’s dream as in the case of Jacob, for the Lord promised him, “Be sure that I
am with you; I will keep you safe wherever you go, and bring you back to this
land, for I will not desert you before I have done all that I have promised
you.” So the first thing we need to do is to ascertain if our dreams are from
God.
Once we
have ascertained that our dreams are aligned with God’s, we need to consider
how to realize our dreams. The mistake of Jacob was that instead of
following the ways of God, he took matters into his own hands. He used
unscrupulous means to get things done. He first connived with his mother
to cheat Isaac into taking away the birthright of Esau. That was his
first mistake. Then later on, we read that he cheated Laban of his flock
in a cleverly planned scheme whereby he agreed with Laban that all the dotted
or striped animals would belong to him; and the rest to Laban as a payment for
his salary. Laban did not know that Jacob would get the animals to
mate in such a way that the offspring become marked. Truly, many of
us are in bad shape and get ourselves into trouble because we use worldly and
dishonest means to realize our dreams. We cheat, we steal, we betray and
we even make use of our loved ones and friends to the extent of destroying
their lives.
The
lesson we can learn from this is that when we cheat and deceive people, we
should expect to be cheated in return, just like Laban cheated Jacob of Rachel
by giving him the hand of Leah instead. Dishonesty begets
dishonesty. Evil brings evil. Again by wanting things his way, by
living a sinful life, and by not treating his first wife Leah well, his
favourite second wife Rachel was unable to conceive initially, whereas the
former could. Truly, those who do wrong will ultimately sow seeds of self-destruction
and attract evil into their lives. If we are not careful, we will end up
destroying our dreams through deceit.
But
what if our dreams are already shattered? What must we do? Are we
hopeless? Is that the end of us? No, the scripture readings tell us
that God is in charge. He is in control. He writes straight in
crooked lines. He can restore the dead back to life. This was
precisely what Jesus did in the Gospel. The synagogue’s official whose
daughter was dead was raised back to life by our Lord. Nothing is
impossible for God. If He could raise up the little girl, He could repair
our wounds, heal our scars, rebuild our dreams and give us a new lease of
life. The Lord is our life-giver. This is true for the woman who was
suffering from bleeding. She was desperate like many of us. She
could not find any cure for her long illness. She was suffering not just
physically but emotionally. Because of her bleeding, she was considered
unclean and therefore alienated and rejected. She was too ashamed even to
let Jesus know of her illness, just like many of us who have kept all our dark
secrets to ourselves, afraid to tell anyone for fear of shame and
rejection. But she was suffering silently like many of us because of
guilt and fear. So it was truly unbearable for her. Unlike the
little girl who died, she was going through a living death.
What is
needed then, if we want our lives to be restored and our dreams rebuilt?
We must have faith in Him. We need to have the faith of the official who
called Jesus to come even though his daughter was already dead. We need
to have the faith of the woman with the hemorrhage whose faith was even
greater. She did not even ask Jesus to heal her but secretly touched the
fringe of the cloak of our Lord. And she was healed instantly. “Jesus
turned round and saw her; and he said to her, ‘Courage, my daughter, your faith
has restored you to health.’ And from that moment the women was well
again.” Like Jacob, we must also claim in faith that our prayers would be
answered. Jacob made his pledge to the Lord too that when he became
successful and returned himself safely, “Then the Lord shall be my God.
This stone I have set up as a monument shall be a house of God.”
This is
what the psalmist assures us when we place all our trust and hope in Him
because He protects those who love Him. He prayed, “He who dwells in the
shelter of the Most High and abides in the shade of the Almighty says to the
Lord: ‘My refuge, my stronghold, my God in whom I trust!’ It is he who will
free you from the snare of the fowler who seeks to destroy you; he will conceal
you with his pinions and under his wings you will find refuge. Since he clings
to me in love, I will free him; protect him for he knows my name.” So let us
not behave like the unbelievers who were skeptical that Jesus could raise the
little girl back to life. They even laughed at Jesus, thinking it was
totally absurd that He could do anything. For God, nothing is
impossible because Jesus, in raising the little girl back to life, demonstrates
that He is the Resurrection and the Life; the Lord of the living.
Secondly,
we need to acknowledge and confess our sins and fears. Jesus had to call
her out so that she no longer had to hide in shame. Allowing her to
confess what she did was the only way to heal her of her fears and break free
from her past. Indeed, confession and counselling are important
instruments of God’s grace to heal us. If we continue to hide our
fears, anger, weaknesses and sins, then we can never be healed. So long
as we do not name the demons, we have no power of the demons in us. But
the moment we name the demons controlling our lives, especially those of us who
suffer from all kinds of addiction, whether drugs, gambling, alcohol or
pornography, or anger or greed, then the Lord will give us the grace to break
free of our bondages.
Thirdly,
we must cooperate with His grace. We read in the bible that Jacob was a
hardworking man; talented, resourceful and proactive. Indeed, he was
singular minded in seeking to realize his dream. This explains why Laban
his uncle want him to work for him and sought to retain his services for as
long as he could. Later on, we read that because of Jacob, the business
grew and the flocks multiplied and increased greatly. Then when he
fell in love with Rachel, he asked for her hand in marriage but was told to
work for seven years before he could marry her. And indeed, he waited for
seven years. He worked hard and Laban his uncle was impressed by
him. But when the time came, instead of giving him Rachel, he gave him
Leah his elder daughter instead. He made him promise to work for him for
another seven years if he wanted to have Rachel as his wife. To this
condition, he agreed. He married Rachel the following week and fulfilled
his contract for another seven years of labour. Nothing could deter Jacob
from achieving his dream. He was ready for hard work and was a
person totally committed to his goal. That was why he became such a great
businessman.
So let
us in faith and trust, have confidence in the Lord. Let us bring our dreams to
the Lord. If it is His dream for us, He will make all things happen. We
only need to cooperate with His grace, doing what we can and He will do the
rest. At the end of the day, it is not hard work alone that achieves
success but the grace of God. We can only do so much but God must supply
the grace, the opportunities and the people to help us. If we trust in
Him and seek to build our dreams in Him, the dream of serving His people and
giving hope and life to others, He will certainly empower us and bring success
to the work of our hands. If our dreams are shattered, it is because He
wants to rebuild our dreams so that our dreams are no longer to serve ourselves
and for our glory, but because He wants to use us to bless His people.
Written
by The Most Rev William Goh
Roman
Catholic Archbishop of Singapore
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