Monday, 13 July 2015

SEEK PEACE BUT NOT AT ANY PRICE

20150713 SEEK PEACE BUT NOT AT ANY PRICE
Readings at Mass

First reading
Exodus 1:8-14,22 ©
There came to power in Egypt a new king who knew nothing of Joseph. ‘Look,’ he said to his subjects ‘these people, the sons of Israel, have become so numerous and strong that they are a threat to us. We must be prudent and take steps against their increasing any further, or if war should break out, they might add to the number of our enemies. They might take arms against us and so escape out of the country.’ Accordingly they put slave-drivers over the Israelites to wear them down under heavy loads. In this way they built the store-cities of Pithom and Rameses for Pharaoh. But the more they were crushed, the more they increased and spread, and men came to dread the sons of Israel. The Egyptians forced the sons of Israel into slavery, and made their lives unbearable with hard labour, work with clay and with brick, all kinds of work in the fields; they forced on them every kind of labour.
  Pharaoh then gave his subjects this command: ‘Throw all the boys born to the Hebrews into the river, but let all the girls live.’

Psalm
Psalm 123:1-8 ©
Our help is in the name of the Lord.
‘If the Lord had not been on our side,’
  this is Israel’s song.
‘If the Lord had not been on our side
  when men rose up against us,
then would they have swallowed us alive
  when their anger was kindled.
Our help is in the name of the Lord.
‘Then would the waters have engulfed us,
  the torrent gone over us;
over our head would have swept
  the raging waters.’
Blessed be the Lord who did not give us
  a prey to their teeth!
Our help is in the name of the Lord.
Our life, like a bird, has escaped
  from the snare of the fowler.
Indeed the snare has been broken
  and we have escaped.
Our help is in the name of the Lord,
  who made heaven and earth.
Our help is in the name of the Lord.

Gospel Acclamation
cf.Ac16:14
Alleluia, alleluia!
Open our heart, O Lord,
to accept the words of your Son.
Alleluia!
Or
Mt5:10
Alleluia, alleluia!
Happy those who are persecuted
in the cause of right,
for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
Alleluia!

Gospel
Matthew 10:34-11:1 ©
Jesus instructed the Twelve as follows: ‘Do not suppose that I have come to bring peace to the earth: it is not peace I have come to bring, but a sword. For I have come to set a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law. A man’s enemies will be those of his own household.
  ‘Anyone who prefers father or mother to me is not worthy of me. Anyone who prefers son or daughter to me is not worthy of me. Anyone who does not take his cross and follow in my footsteps is not worthy of me. Anyone who finds his life will lose it; anyone who loses his life for my sake will find it.
  ‘Anyone who welcomes you welcomes me; and those who welcome me welcome the one who sent me.
  ‘Anyone who welcomes a prophet will have a prophet’s reward; and anyone who welcomes a holy man will have a holy man’s reward.
  ‘If anyone gives so much as a cup of cold water to one of these little ones because he is a disciple, then I tell you solemnly, he will most certainly not lose his reward.’
  When Jesus had finished instructing his twelve disciples he moved on from there to teach and preach in their towns.


SEEK PEACE BUT NOT AT ANY PRICE


SCRIPTURE READINGS: EXODUS 1:8-14, 22; MATTHEW 10:34-11:1
After love, more than anything else, we desire peace.  We desire peace in our families and in society.  Governments strive for political peace; religious organisations for religious peace and harmony.  If all of us have the same aspiration for peace, why is it then that we are still so divided?
What causes quarrels, wars and division if not because of the lack of understanding? The first line of today’s reading from Exodus is rather poignant, for we read that “there came to power in Egypt a new king who knew nothing of Joseph.”  This new pharaoh, unlike his father, did not know how much Joseph had done for his people, how he saved them from famine by his wise administration and foresight; how he ruled with fairness, justice and compassion.  The cause of all the problems and misery of his people was simply because he “knew nothing of Joseph.”  This terse statement is pregnant with many implications.  Why?
In any human relationship, mutual knowledge is necessary.  When we do not know a person, we do not understand the motives and actions of the person.  This leads to misinterpretation and suspicion.  When we are doubtful of a person’s intentions, we create mistrust, which then leads to fear.  When trust is lacking, it breeds fear.  This in turn will lead to actions that are defensive as we all need to protect our personal interests against our potential enemies. At times, fear leads to anger, revenge and even murder.
Isn’t this the case of the new king?  He was paranoid over the increasing number of Hebrews in his country.  And because he did not know Joseph and presumably the Hebrews themselves, he became apprehensive of them, and started strategizing to preempt potential threats to his own people.  When we feel threatened by our enemies, real or perceived, we often over react because of fear.  The trouble is that when fear grips us, we cannot think objectively and wisely.  Instead of taking the trouble to understand the validity of his fears and taking appropriate measures to prevent possible racial conflicts, he reacted to the whole situation by using harsh measures to suppress the Hebrews, forcing them to work under impossible conditions.  And when that was not enough, he resorted to killing the harmless and innocent babies.
It is within this context that we can better situate Jesus’ message about peace.  Ironically, He said, “Do not suppose that I have come to bring peace to earth: it is not peace I have come to bring, but a sword.  For I have come to set a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law.  A man’s enemies will be those of his own household.”  How could Jesus, the Prince and messenger of Peace, the Reconciler bring division?  The inevitable reality is that when our message, whether of peace or truth, confronts those who are unable to see the truth or goodness of the message, what we get is a reaction which sometimes can become hostile if not violent.  Few people are comfortable with changing the status quo as change means dying to self and one’s views and lifestyle.
This should not be surprising because all fear spring from a lack of mutual understanding.  St Paul wrote that “An unspiritual person is one who does not accept anything of the Spirit of God; he sees it all as nonsense; it is beyond his understanding because it can only be understood by means of the Spirit.” (1 Cor 2:14)  We must realize that if people persecute us or are against us, it is because they feel that we are taking happiness away from them.  So, quite often, accepting the gospel message and the values could be seen by non-Christians as a betrayal of one’s culture and the religion of their ancestors, hence, the lack of filial piety. The Catholic morality concerning sex and procreation is often perceived by non-believers and even Catholics themselves as the attempt of the Church to deprive them of the pleasure of sex, the intimacy in relationship and hence lacking understanding of the human needs.
Consequently, those of us who seek to be faithful to the gospel values are often persecuted by family members, often our spouse, for spending time in prayer and Church ministry.  They are resentful of us for choosing Christ and His Church over them.  Unavoidably, the choice of Christ is always interpreted as the rejection of our loved ones, which of course is not the case.
Such division not only occurs in families or in society but at all places, even in the Church we serve, because of disagreements and different ideas.  Even in Church, due to disagreements and the nature of voluntary organizations, members who supposedly regard each other as brothers and sisters have deep hatred and resentment against each other.  We quarrel not only over our own needs but also with regard to our views and ways of doing things.  Quite often, such rupture among Church members is due to the lack of communication, personal relationship and mutual understanding.  When we act and conduct ourselves with a corporate mentality of the world, we tend to see everything and people in terms of their utility and overlook their sensitivities and values.
Does it mean that we must seek peace at any price?  No.  Jesus, in no uncertain terms, tells us, “Anyone who prefers father or mother to me is not worthy of me.  Anyone who prefers son or daughter to me is not worthy of me.“  Clearly, in all that we do, we must seek approval, not from man, but from God.  St Paul says, “So now whom am I trying to please; man or God?  Would you say it is men’s approval I am looking for?  If I still wanted that, I should not be what I am – a servant of Christ.”  (Gal 1:10)  If we do that, then we become identified with Christ.  “Anyone who welcomes you welcomes me; and those who welcome me welcome the one who sent me.”  Otherwise, we cannot claim that we are His servants.
Such a decision for the objective truth and the peace of God might require a heavy price from us. It could mean accepting persecution, misunderstanding, and alienation from our loved ones and separation from our friends. That is what Jesus asks of us, “Anyone who does not take his cross and follow in my footsteps is not worthy of me.  Anyone who finds his life will lose it; anyone who loses his life for my sake will find it.”  In the face of our enemies, we must never become violent and reactive.  Rather, let us suffer bravely and innocently with Jesus on the cross.  With Jesus, we must pray for their forgiveness and not just stop at forgiving them.  Praying for those who disagree with us is better than taking things into our own hands, and slandering and destroying them in public.  It would be a total lack of charity when we seek to destroy the reputation of our fellow Catholics or Christians whom we disagree with by washing dirty linen in public, as some people do, writing emails to everyone, even those who have nothing to do with the misunderstanding.
If we find that we are the ones causing division in the group, then we should be ready to leave for the sake of unity and peace.  Pope St Clement in his letter to the Corinthians wrote, “Who then among you is generous, who is compassionate, who is filled with love? He should speak out as follows: If I have been the cause of sedition, conflict and schisms, then I shall depart; I shall go away wherever you wish, and I shall do what the community wants, if only the flock of Christ live in peace with the presbyters who are set over them. Whoever acts thus would win great glory for himself in Christ, and he would be received everywhere, for the earth is the Lord’s and the fullness thereof. Thus have they acted in the past and will continue to act in the future who live without regret as citizens in the city of God.”
But more than just suffer with resignation, we must trust in God who will be our vindicator and deliverer.  Like the psalmist, we must realize that only God can change the hearts and minds of our enemies.  So like the psalmist we pray, “Our help is in the name of the Lord. Had not the Lord been with us – when men rose up against us, then would they have swallowed us alive, when their fury was inflamed against us? Our help is in the name of the Lord, who made heaven and earth.”


Written by The Most Rev William Goh
Roman Catholic Archbishop of Singapore

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