Saturday, 18 July 2015

CONFRONT OR WITHDRAW

20150718 CONFRONT OR WITHDRAW

Readings at Mass

First reading
Exodus 12:37-42 ©
The sons of Israel left Rameses for Succoth, about six hundred thousand on the march – all men – not counting their families. People of various sorts joined them in great numbers; there were flocks, too, and herds in immense droves. They baked cakes with the dough which they had brought from Egypt, unleavened because the dough was not leavened; they had been driven out of Egypt, with no time for dallying, and had not provided themselves with food for the journey. The time that the sons of Israel had spent in Egypt was four hundred and thirty years. And on the very day the four hundred and thirty years ended, all the array of the Lord left the land of Egypt. The night, when the Lord kept vigil to bring them out of the land of Egypt, must be kept as a vigil in honour of the Lord for all their generations.

Psalm
Psalm 135:1,10-15,23-24 ©
O give thanks to the Lord for he is good.
  His love is everlasting!
He remembered us in our distress.
  His love is everlasting!
And he snatched us away from our foes.
  His love is everlasting!
The first-born of the Egyptians he smote.
  His love is everlasting!
He brought Israel out from their midst.
  His love is everlasting!
Arm outstretched, with power in his hand.
  His love is everlasting!
He divided the Red Sea in two.
  His love is everlasting!
He made Israel pass through the midst.
  His love is everlasting!
He flung Pharaoh and his force in the sea.
  His love is everlasting!

Gospel Acclamation
Ps118:27
Alleluia, alleluia!
Make me grasp the way of your precepts,
and I will muse on your wonders.
Alleluia!
Or
2Co5:19
Alleluia, alleluia!
God in Christ was reconciling the world to himself,
and he has entrusted to us the news that they are reconciled.
Alleluia!

Gospel
Matthew 12:14-21 ©
The Pharisees went out and began to plot against him, discussing how to destroy him.
  Jesus knew this and withdrew from the district. Many followed him and he cured them all, but warned them not to make him known. This was to fulfil the prophecy of Isaiah:
Here is my servant whom I have chosen,
my beloved, the favourite of my soul.
I will endow him with my spirit,
and he will proclaim the true faith to the nations.
He will not brawl or shout,
nor will anyone hear his voice in the streets.
He will not break the crushed reed,
nor put out the smouldering wick
till he has led the truth to victory:
in his name the nations will put their hope.


CONFRONT OR WITHDRAW


SCRIPTURE READINGS:  EX 12:37-42; MT 12:14-21
Meeting with opposition in whatever we do, whether in doing good or evil, at Church, society, work or home, is inevitable.  Dealing with opposing views or, worse still, with our enemies who are out to get us, harm us physically or our integrity, is very emotionally and intellectually draining.  Indeed, it is not easy to manage disputes, disagreements and conflicting views among family members, colleagues and Church members. In such moments, we cannot but feel misunderstood, lonely, uncertain, disappointed, disillusioned, angry, hurt and even vindictive.
This was certainly the feelings of the characters presented in today’s scripture readings.  Pharaoh must have been angered by the rebellion of the Hebrews and the upheaval caused by Moses’ demands, backed up by the actions of God.  On the other side, Moses must also have been exasperated at Pharaoh’s stubbornness in refusing to let his people go in spite of the signs that God worked through him.  In the same vein too, the Pharisees were incensed at Jesus’ audacity in breaking the Sabbath Law by healing the sick and even supporting His disciples for picking corn on the Sabbath. From Jesus’ standpoint He, too, must have felt so misunderstood, unappreciated, frustrated at the hardened hearts and blindness of the religious leaders who, because of jealousy and fear, were unable to see the real intent of the Law.
How, then, do we react against those who oppose us and those who threaten our lives?  The first way is to retaliate.  This was what Pharaoh did.  He responded by imposing more hardships on the Hebrews every time Moses threatened him.  Then when he realized he was losing, he relented.  He never learnt his lesson and, as a consequence, lost his chariots, horses and soldiers in pursuit of Moses and his people.  He acted in a confrontational manner without thinking.  So, too, the Pharisees acted in an aggressive way.  They did so by not only discrediting Jesus but even plotting to destroy Him.  Unfortunately the way of action and retaliation is not the way to solve a problem.
Jesus took a different approach.  He “withdrew from the district.”  Such an action could have caused dismay to His disciples and followers.  After all, their popular understanding of the Messiah was that of a mighty hero, a warrior, invincible and powerful savior and king.  Perhaps when St Matthew wrote this incident, it was meant to assuage the disappointments of the disciples. Indeed, Christ saves us not by using power to crush His enemies but by the power of love and sacrifice.  He rules not from His throne but on the cross.  He wears not a golden crown but a crown of thorns.
Indeed, the ways of God are not man’s ways.  God comes to us in a gentle, humble and non-violent manner.  He does not force us but only invites.  He comes to us on our own terms, not on His terms. For our sake He became one of us even though He was equal with God.  St Paul says, “For your sake he became poor although he was rich, so that by his poverty, you might become rich.” (2 Cor 8:9)
The withdrawal of Jesus was therefore important to help Him to come to terms with the way God the Father wanted Him to act.  Any action that He took must be tempered with God’s love and mercy. In God’s eyes everyone is important, including the Pharisees and the enemies of God.  This is underscored in the first reading when we read that not only the Hebrews but “people of various sorts joined them in great numbers; there were flocks, too, and herd in immense droves. “ God wants to save all, even the non-Hebrews!  So it was important that Jesus did not react negatively or bitterly against them.  His mission was not to condemn or take violent measures to restore justice.  Rather, it was to save as many souls as possible for His Father.
It was thus also necessary for Jesus to withdraw so that He could come to terms with His natural and human feelings.  Before we can reach out and heal the rifts in our lives we must attend to our own heart, especially if we are hurt and wounded. Jesus, being a man like us, surely must have felt deep disappointment, rejection and sadness at the way the religious leaders reacted, conniving and contriving to eliminate Him simply because He extolled justice, love and mercy.
Withdrawal was also necessary for Jesus not only to keep in touch with God and His own feelings, but to feel with His opponents.  Jesus needed to understand and assess the situation as to why His adversaries were reacting thus, and how He could win them over to the love of God.  So Jesus needed to rethink His approach in ministry and mission, and perhaps re-strategize the modus operandi.
But withdrawal does not mean doing nothing in the meantime.  The gospel tells us that He withdrew from the tense situation, but moved on to another district to continue His work of healing and preaching.  Motivated by love, nothing and no one could stop Jesus from continuing to do good and to proclaim God’s mercy and love.  Guided by prudence, He avoided the area of conflict and went to those who could accept and welcome Him.  So we must be careful that we do not allow the period of withdrawal to lead us to self-pity, depression and discouragement.  Rather, we must continue to love and serve in other ways.
Withdrawal therefore is always temporary. We cannot escape from confronting the situation at the end of the day.  So whilst we flee from our enemies, we would have to confront them eventually.  However, any confrontation must be decisive and focused.  This was what Jesus did at the end of His mission when He realized that there was no other way for Him to bring about the Kingdom of God except to meet His enemies in Jerusalem.   When He was clear that that was what God wanted of Him, He resolutely took the road to Jerusalem.  (cf Luke 9:51)  It is significant that this decision was taken only after Peter’s confession of faith at Caesarea Philippi (cf Lk 9:18-21) and the Transfiguration (cf Lk 9:28-36), where His decision was affirmed.
We have much to learn from Jesus in dealing with conflicts, differences of opinion and divergent views.  Before we take any decisive action, withdrawal is absolutely necessary.   We need to withdraw and come before the Heavenly Father to ask Him for His wisdom and direction. We need not fear confrontation or disagreements.  Such events should force us to retreat and to rethink our approach and plans.  Crisis of this sort becomes an opportunity to come to terms with the essentials and the motives of what we are doing. Through the cross, we will arrive at victory because we will be purified of our selfish motives, ambition, pride, envy, anger, hatred and be healed of our wounds and pain.
Truly, Jesus is there for us as God was with the Hebrews in Egypt.  How poignant it is to know that the Lord keeps vigil for us as on that night of liberation for the Hebrews, “The night, when the Lord kept vigil to bring them out of the land of Egypt, must be kept as a vigil in honour of the Lord for all their generations.”  Let us therefore never become discouraged. Instead, let us trust the Lord.  If the Hebrews could wait for 430 years in Egypt for God’s plan to take effect, so too, let us wait on the Lord, since He is keeping vigil for us, watching over us and guiding us. In prayer and in silence, we find strength, wisdom, love and refreshment from Him.  And once we are clear as to what He wants us to do, then with renewed strength and power, we charge ahead in accomplishing the mission the Lord has given to us, with faith and confidence.


Written by The Most Rev William Goh
Roman Catholic Archbishop of Singapore
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