Wednesday, 16 September 2015

CONFIDENCE IN CHRISTIAN LEADERSHIP

20170917 CONFIDENCE IN CHRISTIAN LEADERSHIP

Readings at Mass

First reading
1 Timothy 4:12-16 ©
Do not let people disregard you because you are young, but be an example to the believers in the way you speak and behave, and in your love, your faith and your purity. Make use of the time until I arrive by reading to the people, preaching and teaching. You have in you a spiritual gift which was given to you when the prophets spoke and the body of elders laid their hands on you; do not let it lie unused. Think hard about all this, and put it into practice, and everyone will be able to see how you are advancing. Take great care about what you do and what you teach; always do this, and in this way you will save both yourself and those who listen to you.

Psalm
Psalm 110:7-10 ©
Great are the works of the Lord.
or
Alleluia!
His works are justice and truth,
  his precepts are all of them sure,
standing firm for ever and ever;
  they are made in uprightness and truth.
Great are the works of the Lord.
or
Alleluia!
He has sent deliverance to his people
  and established his covenant for ever.
  Holy his name, to be feared.
Great are the works of the Lord.
or
Alleluia!
To fear the Lord is the first stage of wisdom;
  all who do so prove themselves wise.
His praise shall last for ever!
Great are the works of the Lord.
or
Alleluia!

Gospel Acclamation
2Co5:19
Alleluia, alleluia!
God in Christ was reconciling the world to himself,
and he has entrusted to us the news that they are reconciled.
Alleluia!
Or
Mt11:28
Alleluia, alleluia!
Come to me, all you who labour and are overburdened,
and I will give you rest, says the Lord.
Alleluia!

Gospel
Luke 7:36-50 ©
One of the Pharisees invited Jesus to a meal. When he arrived at the Pharisee’s house and took his place at table, a woman came in, who had a bad name in the town. She had heard he was dining with the Pharisee and had brought with her an alabaster jar of ointment. She waited behind him at his feet, weeping, and her tears fell on his feet, and she wiped them away with her hair; then she covered his feet with kisses and anointed them with the ointment.
  When the Pharisee who had invited him saw this, he said to himself, ‘If this man were a prophet, he would know who this woman is that is touching him and what a bad name she has.’ Then Jesus took him up and said, ‘Simon, I have something to say to you.’ ‘Speak, Master’ was the reply. ‘There was once a creditor who had two men in his debt; one owed him five hundred denarii, the other fifty. They were unable to pay, so he pardoned them both. Which of them will love him more?’ ‘The one who was pardoned more, I suppose’ answered Simon. Jesus said, ‘You are right.’
  Then he turned to the woman. ‘Simon,’ he said ‘you see this woman? I came into your house, and you poured no water over my feet, but she has poured out her tears over my feet and wiped them away with her hair. You gave me no kiss, but she has been covering my feet with kisses ever since I came in. You did not anoint my head with oil, but she has anointed my feet with ointment. For this reason I tell you that her sins, her many sins, must have been forgiven her, or she would not have shown such great love. It is the man who is forgiven little who shows little love.’ Then he said to her, ‘Your sins are forgiven.’ Those who were with him at table began to say to themselves, ‘Who is this man, that he even forgives sins?’ But he said to the woman, ‘Your faith has saved you; go in peace.’


CONFIDENCE IN CHRISTIAN LEADERSHIP


SCRIPTURE READINGS: 1 TM 4:12-16; LK 7:36-50
Most of us feel diffident when called upon to take up Christian leadership.  Not so when it comes to corporate leadership!  On the contrary, we aspire to leadership in the world but ironically not in the Church.  Why is that so?  Because being a Christian leader is not just a matter of delivering the product or a matter of skills or even strategizing, but it has to do with leading by example, walking the talk.  This is what St Paul impressed upon the young Bishop, Timothy when he wrote, “Do not let people disregard you because you are young, but be an example to all the believers in the way you speak and behave, and in your love, your faith and your purity.”
Yet, the truth is that by virtue of our baptism, we are all leaders because we share in the royal priesthood of Christ.  We are called to be parents, teachers, pastoral workers and ministry heads.  Being Christian leaders requires more than skills and knowledge.  The Pharisees and the Jewish leaders are a case in point.  They were supposedly the leaders of the day.  Although erudite and trained in theology and scriptures, they were not always exemplary.  They used their position of authority to seek honour, respect and even privileges.  Instead of being men of humble service and compassion, they were discriminating the poor and the sinners and forcing them to be further alienated from God.  This was certainly the case of Simon and his friends who could not accept Jesus’ assurance to the woman that her sins were forgiven.  Instead, they despised both Jesus and the woman.  Simon was judgmental like the rest, saying to himself, “If this man were a prophet, he would know who this women is that is touching him and what a bad name she has.”
What then is the basis for confidence in Christian leadership?  Christian leadership is a matter of passion.  Passion, as in the case of Jesus and St Paul, is what differentiates a mediocre leader from a zealous leader.   This passion must come from an experience of God’s love and mercy in Christ.  Jesus in the gospel reminds us accordingly, “For this reason I tell you that her sins, her many sins, must have been forgiven her, or she would not have shown such great love.  It is the man that is forgiven little who shows little love.”
This experience of the love of Christ is always prior to any call and every mission.  The call to Christian leadership cannot simply be a response to a need.  Indeed, many goodwill Catholics respond to the call of Christian leadership more out of human reason, humanitarian or the desire to help. They see the parishes in need of their services and they respond accordingly.  The service is often given out of the bounty of the giver.  Such services make God and the Church as the debtor.  It makes the giver feel superior and great about himself for being so generous and good to the Church and to the poor.  Understandably, when slighted, unappreciated or not acknowledged, he reacts with anger, hostility and eventually may throw in the towel.
This experience of God’s mercy and love however is only given to those who are able to acknowledge their own sinfulness, like the woman in the gospel.  Unless we are sinners and vulnerable like the woman, how can we experience the love and mercy of God?  Unless we are weak, what do we know about being strong?  Unless we have been sick, how many of us appreciate our health?  Unless we have been poor and hungry, how can we value food and our riches?  Yes, unless we have been down and out like the addicted alcoholic, the gambler, the sexual offender and the failure in life, we will never know the mercy and the power of God.  But when we are ready to confess our sins like the woman, then we will come to know what it means to be loved and accepted unconditionally.  Jesus did not reject her unlike the others.  Jesus did not even condemn her.
Apparently, sexual sin is less sinful than the sin of pride.  The real sinner was not the woman but those self-righteous Pharisees who were too proud of themselves and unable to experience God’s love and mercy.  Like those Catholics who offer their services to the Church out of their abundance and riches, they too made God their debtor because they had observed all the laws.  Only the poor in spirit, the humble and the downtrodden can appreciate and feel with those who have gone down the same road.  To such people, we feel with them. Leaders who have gone through that road when redeemed and healed by the law will take it upon themselves to extend the same mercy that they had received. A good leader must always be conscious of his limitations and sinfulness so that he will remain humble and compassionate; not judgmental but caring.
Indeed, if we are deeply loved by the Lord, like the woman, we will share in her passion which is then expressed in creativity.  She spontaneously and without shame and reservation loosed her bundled hair to wipe the feet of Jesus with tears flowing from her eyes.  Simon had no real love for the Lord and hence did not accord Jesus with the minimal hospitality.  Hence, Jesus remarked, “’Simon, you see this women?  I came into your house, and you poured no water over my feet, but she has poured out her tears over my feet and wiped them away with her hair.  You gave me no kisses, but she has been covering my feet with kisses ever since I came in.  You did not anoint my head with oil, but she has anointed my feet with ointment.”  Sometimes we look at Church ministry and our leaders.  In spite of their goodwill, they often lack vision and are simply contented to carry on doing the same old things they inherited from the previous committees.  They lack enthusiasm and creativity.  Many leaders are administrators, not visionaries.  They are good in ensuring that the tradition and the rules of the past continue but they lack a proactive outlook.  This perhaps explains why our Churches are not growing as fast as our separated brethren.  We are more often than not in a maintenance mode, worrying about how to sustain the groups we are in charge of, rather than growing the group so that they can do outreach.
In contrast, St Paul, and it would be true for Timothy too, were people who were passionate and envisioning in their ministry.  That is why St Paul assured the young Timothy not to feel diffident about his office.  What he needed was the passion for the ministry.  This passion is given in the power of the Holy Spirit. “You have in you a spiritual gift which was given to you when the prophets spoke and the body of elders laid their hands on you; do not let it lie unused.”  God will give us the grace when He appoints us for the office.  He always qualifies those whom He appoints.
However, it must be said that we cannot depend on the institution and the office alone.  We need to cooperate with Him.   We must continue to grow in love and union with the Lord. For this reason, St Paul advised Timothy to compensate for his lack of experience by being docile to the Lord and to learning.  He gave him a list of advice. “Make use of the time until I arrive by reading to the people, preaching and teaching. Think hard about all this, and put it into practice, and everyone will be able to see how you are advancing.”  He must grow in wisdom and reverence for the Lord because as the psalmist says, “To fear the Lord is the first stage of wisdom; all who do so prove themselves wise. His praise shall last for ever!”
Above all, a leader must cultivate a deep faith and love for God.  In the final analysis, it is not what we do that changes lives and commands respect from our subordinates, but it is how we live our lives expressed in compassion, charity, love and humility. Indeed, St Paul reminds us, “Take great care about what you do and what you teach; always do this, and in this way you will save both yourself and those who listen to you.”


Written by The Most Rev William Goh
Roman Catholic Archbishop of Singapore

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