Saturday 30 April 2016

DEALING WITH CONFLICTS AND DIVISION

20160501 DEALING WITH CONFLICTS AND DIVISION

Readings at Mass
Liturgical Colour: White.

First reading
Acts 15:1-2,22-29 ©
Some men came down from Judaea and taught the brothers, ‘Unless you have yourselves circumcised in the tradition of Moses you cannot be saved.’ This led to disagreement, and after Paul and Barnabas had had a long argument with these men it was arranged that Paul and Barnabas and others of the church should go up to Jerusalem and discuss the problem with the apostles and elders.
  Then the apostles and elders decided to choose delegates to send to Antioch with Paul and Barnabas; the whole church concurred with this. They chose Judas known as Barsabbas and Silas, both leading men in the brotherhood, and gave them this letter to take with them:
  ‘The apostles and elders, your brothers, send greetings to the brothers of pagan birth in Antioch, Syria and Cilicia. We hear that some of our members have disturbed you with their demands and have unsettled your minds. They acted without any authority from us; and so we have decided unanimously to elect delegates and to send them to you with Barnabas and Paul, men we highly respect who have dedicated their lives to the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. Accordingly we are sending you Judas and Silas, who will confirm by word of mouth what we have written in this letter. It has been decided by the Holy Spirit and by ourselves not to saddle you with any burden beyond these essentials: you are to abstain from food sacrificed to idols; from blood, from the meat of strangled animals and from fornication. Avoid these, and you will do what is right. Farewell.’

Responsorial Psalm
Psalm 66:2-3,5-6,8 ©
Let the peoples praise you, O God; let all the peoples praise you.
or
Alleluia!
O God, be gracious and bless us
  and let your face shed its light upon us.
So will your ways be known upon earth
  and all nations learn your saving help.
Let the peoples praise you, O God; let all the peoples praise you.
or
Alleluia!
Let the nations be glad and exult
  for you rule the world with justice.
With fairness you rule the peoples,
  you guide the nations on earth.
Let the peoples praise you, O God; let all the peoples praise you.
or
Alleluia!
Let the peoples praise you, O God;
  let all the peoples praise you.
May God still give us his blessing
  till the ends of the earth revere him.
Let the peoples praise you, O God; let all the peoples praise you.
or
Alleluia!

Second reading
Apocalypse 21:10-14,22-23 ©
In the spirit, the angel took me to the top of an enormous high mountain and showed me Jerusalem, the holy city, coming down from God out of heaven. It had all the radiant glory of God and glittered like some precious jewel of crystal-clear diamond. The walls of it were of a great height, and had twelve gates; at each of the twelve gates there was an angel, and over the gates were written the names of the twelve tribes of Israel; on the east there were three gates, on the north three gates, on the south three gates, and on the west three gates. The city walls stood on twelve foundation stones, each one of which bore the name of one of the twelve apostles of the Lamb.
  I saw that there was no temple in the city since the Lord God Almighty and the Lamb were themselves the temple, and the city did not need the sun or the moon for light, since it was lit by the radiant glory of God and the Lamb was a lighted torch for it.

Gospel Acclamation
Jn14:23
Alleluia, alleluia!
Jesus said: ‘If anyone loves me he will keep my word,
and my Father will love him,
and we shall come to him.’
Alleluia!
Gospel
John 14:23-29 ©
Jesus said to his disciples:
‘If anyone loves me he will keep my word,
and my Father will love him,
and we shall come to him and make our home with him.
Those who do not love me do not keep my words.
And my word is not my own:
it is the word of the one who sent me.
I have said these things to you while still with you;
but the Advocate, the Holy Spirit,
whom the Father will send in my name,
will teach you everything
and remind you of all I have said to you.
Peace I bequeath to you, my own peace I give you,
a peace the world cannot give,
this is my gift to you.
Do not let your hearts be troubled or afraid.
You heard me say: I am going away, and shall return.
If you loved me you would have been glad to know that I am going to the Father,
for the Father is greater than I.
I have told you this now before it happens,
so that when it does happen you may believe.’

DEALING WITH CONFLICTS AND DIVISION


We all seek unity and peace, especially in the family, in our workplace, Christian community and country.  Indeed, the most important role of the government is to ensure there is unity, peace and social order in the country.  Without which, there can be no economic progress.  That is why the most challenging task of a leader is to preserve unity among the peoples that he governs.  More so today, when we are living in a world of relativism and so called democracy.  Society is also no more hierarchical as in the past, when authority was religiously respected.  Today, the leader has been reduced to a coordinator, finding consensus among a spectrum of very varied views.  Few submit to authority simply because he or she says so.  Even authority is being questioned for its decisions, and those in charge need to explain and convince.
The Church is no different from the world.  Although the Church is divinely instituted, it is also a human community, where faith transcends cultures, races and traditions.  So we are bound to have differences in perspectives, symbols and gestures. Unfortunately, at times instead of respecting diversity, disagreements lead to division and worse still, hostility and in-fighting.  This of course is not new, as we read in Acts what happened at the very primitive stage of the development of the Church.  There was almost a schism as a result of the entry of Gentile Christians into the Church, which was essentially still very Jewish as the apostles and the first Christians were all Jews.  In spite of their faith in Christ, they were still very much entrenched in their Jewish practices and traditions, especially with regard to the Law of Moses.  So they were offended by the Gentile Christians as they were afraid to be contaminated by them ritually for mixing and eating with them.   Hence, there was a need to come to terms with what it meant to be a follower of Christ.
How should they define a Christian?  Is he a Jew than a Christian, or a Christian then a Jew?  Of course at the end of the day, they came to realize that one must first be a Christian and only then a Jew.   It is the same for us too.  Do we define ourselves as Chinese/Indian-Catholic, or Catholic-Chinese/Indian?  The answer is obvious.  We are Catholic primarily, and then we live out our faith as Chinese, Indians, Eurasians, etc. Faith is expressed through cultures, but faith transcends cultures.  What cannot be changed are the doctrines which we all hold as Catholics.
What, then, are the principles to bear in mind when we speak of unity in the Church?  
Firstly, we must remember that the Church’s vocation is to be the Sacrament of Unity and Love in the world.  We must seek to protect and preserve the unity of the Church at all costs and at all times.  We are fortunate that we have the Pope who is the symbol of unity in the universal Church and the bishop as the symbol of unity in the particular Church.  We must never forget that the early Church grew in strength and number simply because those outside the faith saw how much the Christians loved each other.  (Cf Jn 13:35)  As in the second reading, we are called to be that radiant Church that shines out in the glory of love for all to see.
Secondly, we must bear in mind that unity must be rooted in the truth.  Truth, however, is not a matter of consensus as in the democratic world.  Christian truth is founded on Jesus who is the Word of God in person.  That is why in the gospel, in no uncertain terms, He said, “If anyone loves me he will keep my word, and my Father will love him, and we shall come to him and make our home with him. Those who do not love me do not keep my word. And my word is not my own: it is the word of the one who sent me.” Christ is the Word of God.  His word remains with us in a special way in written scriptures; and also in the Tradition of the Church. Consequently, unity must be rooted in the Word of God.
Thirdly, we need the Holy Spirit to help us interpret the scriptures so that we can find the sensus plenior, that is, the full meaning of the texts.  This is why Jesus asked the Father to send us the Holy Spirit.  He said, “The Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you everything and remind you of all I have said to you.”  The bible in itself is dead.  It comes alive with the living Tradition, that is, the Christian community that interprets the texts and applies to the situations in their life. In order to ensure that the interpretation is according to the mind of God, we need the Holy Spirit to guide us.
Fourthly, the Holy Spirit is also present in the Church, especially the leaders of the Church, particularly, the Magisterium, the bishops, in union with the Holy Father, in declaring the truths of faith. For this same reason, when the local community could not agree with respect to the admittance of Gentile Christians and the observances they needed to keep, they referred to the apostles at Jerusalem who made the decision for them.  So in the final analysis, we must realize that the Holy Spirit, although with the Church, is with those who hold office who must make decisions for the good of the whole Church.  In conclusion, the Word of God, together with the Church, and the Holy Spirit, guide the Church to the fullness of truth.
But how did they make decisions? Through prayer, dialogue and consultation!  It is important that those in authority do not behave like dictators!  Although it is true that God has given those in authority the charism of truth to guide the Church, those in authority must discern carefully, pray, consult and study the situation thoroughly before any decision could be taken.  This was what the apostles did in the early Church.  Although they had the authority, they did not abuse it but used it wisely to help the Church arrive at the truth as God revealed to them.  They said, “It has been decided by the Holy Spirit and by ourselves not to saddle you with any burden beyond these essentials.”  Nevertheless, it remains that the authority must decide at the end.
Secondly, they saw the big picture and were not focused on narrow goals.  They gave a ruling that was broad enough to accommodate both the Jewish Christians and the Gentile Christians.  They kept to the essentials.  So too as leaders, we must focus on what is essential.  As St Augustine says, “In essentials, unity; in non-essentials, diversity; and in all things, charity.”  So we need to respect diversity and differences.  Unity is not uniformity but unity in diversity.  Division always happens when a minority seeks to impose their personal preferences on others or the majority on the minority.   We must choose diversity in expressions of faith as a sign of our Catholicity and not impose our narrow-minded preferences on others unless the matter has to deal with essentials.
Thirdly, we need to define what the essentials are. They are those doctrines and practices that are necessary for the continued existence of the Church and which make the Church what she is.  So when it comes to doctrines, there can be no compromise.  But when it comes to expressions and pastoral approaches, we need to be flexible.  We need to be patient and accommodating towards others who are struggling to grow and understand their faith.  Our faith, whether intellectual or personal, are at different levels and not the same for all.  It is not a question of either we have faith or not, but it is a continuum.
Finally, this means that we need to have respect for cultural differences in the expression of faith.  What is important is that we do not contradict or deny our faith in Christ when we inculturate our faith.  We must not import any non-Christian symbols, values or meanings that are alien to the gospel.  For example, we cannot use a non-Christian deity, statue or symbol at our altars!  Every parish community is also different. So different parishes, different churches, different countries and cultural communities will celebrate their faith differently, but all hold the same faith in Christ, in the doctrines and the sacraments.  This is what it means to be catholic.
If we observe the guidelines as given to us by the early Church and their collaborative and consultative approach, we will certainly be able to preserve the unity and peace of every community, regardless whether it is in the home, church, office or country.  We should not feel threatened by diversity, but be enriched.  In this way, the Church will always be radiant because as the vision of John says, “I saw that there was no temple in the city since the Lord God Almighty and the Lamb were themselves the temple, and the city did not need the sun or the moon for light, since it was lit by the radiant glory of God and the Lamb was a lighted torch for it.”

Written by The Most Rev William Goh Roman Catholic Archbishop of Singapore © All Rights Reserved



Thursday 28 April 2016

CHRISTIAN DIPLOMACY

20160429 CHRISTIAN DIPLOMACY

Readings at Mass
Liturgical Colour: White.

First reading
Acts 15:22-31 ©
The apostles and elders decided to choose delegates to send to Antioch with Paul and Barnabas; the whole church concurred with this. They chose Judas known as Barsabbas and Silas, both leading men in the brotherhood, and gave them this letter to take with them:
  ‘The apostles and elders, your brothers, send greetings to the brothers of pagan birth in Antioch, Syria and Cilicia. We hear that some of our members have disturbed you with their demands and have unsettled your minds. They acted without any authority from us; and so we have decided unanimously to elect delegates and to send them to you with Barnabas and Paul, men we highly respect who have dedicated their lives to the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. Accordingly we are sending you Judas and Silas, who will confirm by word of mouth what we have written in this letter. It has been decided by the Holy Spirit and by ourselves not to saddle you with any burden beyond these essentials: you are to abstain from food sacrificed to idols; from blood, from the meat of strangled animals and from fornication. Avoid these, and you will do what is right. Farewell.’
  The party left and went down to Antioch, where they summoned the whole community and delivered the letter. The community read it and were delighted with the encouragement it gave them.

Responsorial Psalm
Psalm 56:8-12 ©
I will thank you, Lord, among the peoples.
or
Alleluia!
My heart is ready, O God,
  my heart is ready.
  I will sing, I will sing your praise.
Awake, my soul,
  awake, lyre and harp,
  I will awake the dawn.
I will thank you, Lord, among the peoples.
or
Alleluia!
I will thank you, Lord, among the peoples,
  among the nations I will praise you
for your love reaches to the heavens
  and your truth to the skies.
O God, arise above the heavens;
  may your glory shine on earth!
I will thank you, Lord, among the peoples.
or
Alleluia!

Gospel Acclamation
Jn10:27
Alleluia, alleluia!
The sheep that belong to me listen to my voice,
says the Lord,
I know them and they follow me.
Alleluia!
Or
Jn15:15
Alleluia, alleluia!
I call you friends, says the Lord,
because I have made known to you
everything I have learnt from my Father.
Alleluia!

Gospel
John 15:12-17 ©
Jesus said to his disciples:
‘This is my commandment:
love one another,
as I have loved you.
A man can have no greater love
than to lay down his life for his friends.
You are my friends,
if you do what I command you.
I shall not call you servants any more,
because a servant does not know
his master’s business;
I call you friends,
because I have made known to you
everything I have learnt from my Father.
You did not choose me:
no, I chose you;
and I commissioned you
to go out and to bear fruit,
fruit that will last;
and then the Father will give you
anything you ask him in my name.
What I command you is to love one another.’


CHRISTIAN DIPLOMACY


There will always be conflict and misunderstanding in this world, in our homes, among friends, colleagues and within the Christian community.  The great challenge of every leader and individual is how to mediate in times of disagreement and anger.  The task of diplomacy is to find a way to resolve these tensions so there will be peace and mutual understanding. In political diplomacy, each country enters into negotiation with another country based on national interests.  Each party will try to get the best deal for his country.  This is understandable because the task of the government is to protect the interests of the citizens before others.
Christian diplomacy is different from political and worldly diplomacy because the starting point is not to protect one’s interests but the others’ interests.   It is motivated by love for others, not for self.  Instead of seeing the other party as the opponent, competitor or enemy, Christians see them as their friends.   More than that, because everyone is his or her friend, Christians are willing to die for them, putting and sacrificing their own interests before theirs.   And this is done not spontaneously, that is, as a mere emotional outburst or response, but rather a deliberate choice to make everyone his or her friend, brother and sister.
Indeed, this is the way Jesus loves us. St Paul wrote, “While we were yet helpless, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly. Why, one will hardly die for a righteous man – though perhaps for a good man one will dare even to die. But God shows his love for us in that while we were yet sinners Christ died for us.”  (Rom 5:6-8)  Only because He loves us in this manner, He could command us to do likewise. In the gospel, He said, “This is my commandment: love one another, as I have loved you. A man can have no greater love than to lay down his life for his friends. You are my friends, if you do what I command you.”
Jesus considers us not as His servants, and less still His enemies, but His friends. “I shall not call you servants anymore, because a servant does not know his master’s business.”  It is already a great thing to be called a servant of God.  It is just like in the modern world when we are elected to hold public office or appointed by the President or Prime Minister to serve in some body, council or organization.   We consider it a great privilege to be a servant of the country.  This is true for those in priestly and religious life.  We are grateful that the Lord has called us to be His servants in the Church, the Holy Father being the servant of servants.  But a servant simply obeys the master without questioning and even without understanding.  The task of a servant is simply to obey and carry out the master’s will faithfully and efficiently without questioning.
To be a friend of Jesus is to know and understand His mind and heart.  He said, “I call you friends, because I have made known to you everything I have learnt from my Father.”  Friendship speaks about mutual understanding and mutual will.  This comes about through intimacy. So we are called to be the friends of Jesus because He wants to share His whole life with us so that when we know and understand Him and feel His love for us, we will also want to love the way He loves.  Indeed, this is the reason for His love.  He loves us not just for our sake but for the sake of all.  Being loved by Jesus does not mean that we abandon the world and exclude others from lives.  On the contrary, we want to reach out to the world in love.  That is why He said, “You did not choose me: no, I chose you; and I commissioned you to go out and to bear fruit, fruit that will last.”  He loves us so that we in turn can love others by bearing fruits of love, compassion and forgiveness in our lives.
Accordingly, when He said, “What I command you is to love one another”; He is not expecting us to love with our own strength.   We are to love one another, not with our own understanding and our capacity to love but to love with the love that Jesus has loved us with.  So the measure, the means and the capacity of Christian diplomacy is very much rooted in the love of Jesus for us.  Without first encountering the unconditional love of Jesus in His sacrificial death for us even when we do not deserve that love, we cannot love our brothers and sisters, especially our enemies and opponents, with charity and compassion.
It is within this context that we can appreciate the Christian diplomacy of the primitive Church when they had to deal with internal disagreement and division.  The atmosphere was not one of anger and hostility but the sincerity of wanting to find the best solution for the greater good of the community and the future of the spread of the Gospel and the growth of the Church.  It was all done in the spirit of mutual love. So instead of allowing the whole matter to deteriorate, the leaders, Paul and Barnabas were quick to act by suggesting that the matter be brought to the leaders in Jerusalem to decide.  So we read how they gathered together and heard the different testimonies and interventions.  Finally, after the process of discernment and prayer, a decision with the consensus of the leaders was made.
But it is also very edifying in the way the transmission of the decision was done.  In life, it is not enough to make the right decision; one also has to manage the communication well.  We might have made the right decision but often it is miscommunicated or not properly communicated, giving rise to greater misunderstandings. In this area, many of us fail quite miserably because often we deal with such matters on the logical level, forgetting that we are speaking to human beings.  So it is very edifying to read how sensitive and thoughtful the early Christian leaders were towards those who were hurt and confused.
Besides writing the letter, they also appointed the best and senior leaders of the Church to go with Paul and Barnabas to Antioch to convey the decision. We can learn the importance of giving a personal touch to such sensitive matters.  Quite often, letters do not help much because the personal element is missing.  When we are dealing with ideas and words, we forget to consider the feelings of the other party.  And quite often, the feelings are not taken into consideration but merely the logical facts and argument.  A personal touch helps the other party to know that they are not perceived as enemies and that their feelings are being considered as well.  Furthermore, it was important that the Christian community in Antioch knew that they were taken seriously by the leaders.
There was also a need for transparency; that the decision as communicated was truly from the leaders of Jerusalem.  By sending emissaries from Jerusalem, it lent weight to the letter that they carried with them. Hence, they took pains to underscore this fact to them when they said, “Accordingly we are sending you Judas and Silas, who will confirm by word of mouth what we have written in this letter.”  They also reiterated, “so we have decided unanimously to elect delegates and to send them to you with Barnabas and Paul, men we highly respect who have dedicated their lives to the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.”   St Luke made it clear that Barsabbas and Silas were “both leading men in the brotherhood.”
Thirdly, examining the letter, we find the utmost courtesy and respect for the community.  They began by sending them their greetings.  Then they acknowledged their pain when they said, “We hear that some of our members have disturbed you with their demands and have unsettled your minds.” Then they made it clear on whose side they were on. “They acted without any authority from us.”  Next, they made it clear that the decision was the work of the Holy Spirit in the community after prayerful discernment.  “It has been decided by the Holy Spirit and by ourselves.”   It was not simply a decision of the Council but they represented the mind of Christ and spoke in His name and on His authority.
Fourthly, with regard to the decision itself, they did not deal with the theological problem of whether the Gentile Christians were saved or not, because they did not imbibe the Jewish customs, but rather the charity and sensitivity all are called to respect.  Hence, the decision was that they did not wish to saddle them “with any burden beyond these essentials.”  Indeed, what they were calling for is mutual understanding and consideration for others’ sensitivity, especially the Jews.  This is the fruit that Jesus spoke about in the gospel.  We are called to bear the fruits of the Holy Spirit, which are kindness, gentleness, long-suffering, patience, love and self-control. (cf Gal 5:22)  Bearing such fruits is the best witness of loving like Christ.  Such fruits will indeed last because the only language that is understood by all, the only language of true diplomacy is the language of love.  Indeed, when we ask everything in the mind of Jesus, in His name and always for the bigger interests of others rather than for ourselves, the Lord will hear our prayer.

Written by The Most Rev William Goh Roman Catholic Archbishop of Singapore © All Rights Reserved