Sunday, 15 May 2016

FINDING PEACE IN THE HURLY BURLY OF DAILY LIFE

20160516 FINDING PEACE IN THE HURLY BURLY OF DAILY LIFE

Readings at Mass
Liturgical Colour: Green.

First reading
James 3:13-18 ©
If there are any wise or learned men among you, let them show it by their good lives, with humility and wisdom in their actions. But if at heart you have the bitterness of jealousy, or a self-seeking ambition, never make any claims for yourself or cover up the truth with lies – principles of this kind are not the wisdom that comes down from above: they are only earthly, animal and devilish. Wherever you find jealousy and ambition, you find disharmony, and wicked things of every kind being done; whereas the wisdom that comes down from above is essentially something pure; it also makes for peace, and is kindly and considerate; it is full of compassion and shows itself by doing good; nor is there any trace of partiality or hypocrisy in it. Peacemakers, when they work for peace, sow the seeds which will bear fruit in holiness.

Responsorial Psalm
Psalm 18:8-10,15 ©
The precepts of the Lord gladden the heart.
The law of the Lord is perfect,
  it revives the soul.
The rule of the Lord is to be trusted,
  it gives wisdom to the simple.
The precepts of the Lord gladden the heart.
The precepts of the Lord are right,
  they gladden the heart.
The command of the Lord is clear,
  it gives light to the eyes.
The precepts of the Lord gladden the heart.
The fear of the Lord is holy,
  abiding for ever.
The decrees of the Lord are truth
  and all of them just.
The precepts of the Lord gladden the heart.
May the spoken words of my mouth,
  the thoughts of my heart,
win favour in your sight, O Lord,
  my rescuer, my rock!
The precepts of the Lord gladden the heart.

Gospel Acclamation
1P1:25
Alleluia, alleluia!
The word of the Lord remains for ever:
What is this word?
It is the Good News that has been brought to you.
Alleluia!
Or
cf.2Tim1:10
Alleluia, alleluia!
Our Saviour Jesus Christ abolished death
and he has proclaimed life through the Good News.
Alleluia!

Gospel
Mark 9:14-29 ©
When Jesus, with Peter, James and John came down from the mountain and rejoined the disciples, they saw a large crowd round them and some scribes arguing with them. The moment they saw him the whole crowd were struck with amazement and ran to greet him. ‘What are you arguing about with them?’ he asked. A man answered him from the crowd, ‘Master, I have brought my son to you; there is a spirit of dumbness in him, and when it takes hold of him it throws him to the ground, and he foams at the mouth and grinds his teeth and goes rigid. And I asked your disciples to cast it out and they were unable to.’ ‘You faithless generation’ he said to them in reply. ‘How much longer must I be with you? How much longer must I put up with you? Bring him to me.’ They brought the boy to him, and as soon as the spirit saw Jesus it threw the boy into convulsions, and he fell to the ground and lay writhing there, foaming at the mouth. Jesus asked the father, ‘How long has this been happening to him?’ ‘From childhood,’ he replied ‘and it has often thrown him into the fire and into the water, in order to destroy him. But if you can do anything, have pity on us and help us.’ ‘If you can?’ retorted Jesus. ‘Everything is possible for anyone who has faith.’ Immediately the father of the boy cried out, ‘I do have faith. Help the little faith I have!’ And when Jesus saw how many people were pressing round him, he rebuked the unclean spirit. ‘Deaf and dumb spirit,’ he said ‘I command you: come out of him and never enter him again.’ Then throwing the boy into violent convulsions it came out shouting, and the boy lay there so like a corpse that most of them said, ‘He is dead.’ But Jesus took him by the hand and helped him up, and he was able to stand. When he had gone indoors his disciples asked him privately, ‘Why were we unable to cast it out?’ ‘This is the kind’ he answered ‘that can only be driven out by prayer.’


FINDING PEACE IN THE HURLY BURLY OF DAILY LIFE

From the moment they reached the foot of the mountain, they were faced with the daily challenges of the hurly burly of daily life. After such a great mystical experience of the Transfiguration of our Lord, the joy and enthusiasm of the religious encounter faded. They found themselves in the midst of an argument between the disciples of Jesus and the scribes.  The crowd was all confused and divided about the real condition of the boy with the deaf and dumb spirit and why the disciples were unable to cast out the evil spirit.  This, too, is our common experience.  After a few days of peace and happiness at a spiritually high and charged retreat, we return home and to our office only to find ourselves once again facing the realities of daily life, the infighting at home and in the office or in the Christian community.  We find ourselves having to deal with the ordinary humdrum of daily living, helping those who are sick, cooking and cleaning up after our children, studying and working, dealing with conflicts, resolving problems, etc.
Today, Jesus shows us how calm He was in dealing with troubles and the petty quarrels and misunderstandings of daily life.  Instead of reacting and jumping to conclusion or taking sides or being defensive, the first thing He did was to inquire into the real matter at hand.  He took the trouble to listen to the medical history of his illness from the father and the real condition of the boy.   In dealing with problems, we need to regain our composure and make sure that we are centered.  If we are excitable, reactive, emotional and angry, we are not yet ready to resolve any issue because we would not be able to see things objectively.  A wounded and angry man would only see through the spectrum of his pain and would not be able to hear the other person out.  So absorbed in himself, he would not be able to see the problem in a bigger light.  Instead, he will end up defending his position, his views and his rights.   He would not be open to negotiation or to dialogue.
But we can be calm in dealing with conflicts and opposition only if we are clear of our motives in whatever we do.   Very often, it is our ambition that causes us to lose objectivity in our thinking.  St James tells us, “If there are any wise or learned men among you, let them show it by their good lives, with humility and wisdom in their actions.  But if at heart you have bitterness or jealousy, or self-seeking ambition, never make any claims for yourself or cover up the truth with lies – principles of this kind are not the wisdom that comes down from above:  they are only earthly, animal and devilish.”  When we are ambitious, we have a problem with pride and ego.  Ambition is self-serving.  We want to fulfill our desires.  Ambition is not for the good of others but for ourselves.  We are seeking to build ourselves up, even at the expense of others.
Ambition therefore causes jealousy and competition.  We are jealous of the success of others and others of ours.  Again, St James says, “wherever you find jealousy and ambition, you find disharmony, and wicked things of every kind being done.”   Truly, the crux of many problems lies in the fact that most people care for their own interests and they do not work purely for the good of others.  It is about their security, their benefits and their fulfillment.  They are not thinking about the greater good of others and for the service of humanity.  People are jealous only because they think that others are taking away from them what they want.  Do you find people jealous of Mother Teresa in the work she was doing for the poorest of the poor?  Do people compete with her to serve the untouchables?  But people will fight for power, position, status, glory and money.  They want to be promoted, elected into office and hold high positions.  But in seeking for positions, are they sincerely doing so for the service of society or for the benefits they can get out of the office?  Indeed, people often use corporate and political office to benefit themselves, not for society.
If our motive is pure and sincere, then St James says,  “the wisdom that comes down from above is essentially something pure; it also makes for peace, and is kindly and considerate; it is full of compassion and shows itself by doing good; nor is there any trace of partiality or hypocrisy in it.  Peacemakers, when they work for peace, sow the seeds which will bear fruit in holiness.”   When our motive is for the good and service of others, then we do not fear, or be unsettled, because we are no longer doing it for ourselves but for others.  When there are no vested interests, nothing will affect us personally because we are not fighting for ourselves.   At most we feel sorry that the people whom we seek to serve have been deprived of their needs.  But we do not take opposition and failures personally since we are not trying to fulfill or achieve our ambition.  Rather, we know that our enemies and detractors are hurting and opposing us because what we do is a reprimand to their selfish ambitions and a hindrance to their selfish objectives.  On our part, we can speak calmly without anger but in truth and charity.  When we do all things out of compassion and impartiality to all, purely for the love of God and the service of men and women without distinction or favour, the Lord will bless us and even if there is opposition, God will be on our side and see us through.
How can we have a pure and holy motive in all that we do so that we will not lose our center in dealing with life’s daily problems?  Firstly, we need to pray and fast.   The Lord sets for us an example when He would begin each day by going to the desert or to the hills to pray all by himself.  Before this incident took place, He had just come down from the mountain, having conversed with His Father and was assured of His Father’s love and endorsement of His mission.  When the disciples asked why they were powerless before the evil spirit, He said, “This is the kind that can only be driven out by prayer.”   In another variant translation, it adds, “and fasting.”   We cannot deal with life’s problems unless we are focused and centered through prayer and fasting.  Without clarification and proper discernment, we will not be able to separate the wheat from the chaff.  Many of us often make decisions based on fear, anger, revenge and anxiety rather than from a proper analysis of the problem at hand.  As St Ignatius always reminds us, we should not make any decisions when our spirits are restless and not at peace.  These are the counter-spirits.
Secondly, we need to have faith in God.  When the man asked Jesus if He could deliver his son from the evil spirit, the retort of Jesus was swift, “’If you can? Everything is possible for anyone who has faith.’” And we read, “Immediately the father of the boy cried out, ‘I do have faith.  Help the little faith I have!’”   Faith is critical if we are to face the daily ups and downs of life.   We must surrender our lives to the Lord and trust in His divine providence.  We must continue to trust that the Lord knows what is best for us.  We must surrender our sickness, our struggles and problems to the Lord.  In faith, we know that if we love God and do according to what He wants, the Lord will see us through.  We are not here to fulfill our will but if it is His will, nothing can stop the Lord from accomplishing His word in and through us or even without us.   As the psalmist says, “The law of the Lord is perfect, it revives the soul. The rule of the Lord is to be trusted; it gives wisdom to the simple.  The precepts of the Lord are right, they gladden the heart. The command of the Lord is clear; it gives light to the eyes. The fear of the Lord is holy, abiding forever. The decrees of the Lord are truth and all of them just.”   So let us in faith, like the man, surrender all our plans to the Lord.
For this faith to develop and mature, we need once again to pray and be receptive to the grace of God.  Prayers strengthen faith.  This faith is not only strengthened through prayer but the testimonies of others who have seen the goodness and the power of God. It is important that as a community, we must support each other in faith and in love.  Faith is strengthened when it is shared.  In our daily struggles, we need to come together to share the Word of God regularly and inspire each other in faith and in love. Christians must find occasions to testify to the providence, love and faithfulness of God to us in their daily life struggles so that others can find faith.  We must seek occasions to testify to His mercy on different platforms, in bible sharing, including the mass media in this year of Divine Mercy.


Written by The Most Rev William Goh Roman Catholic Archbishop of Singapore © All Rights Reserved

No comments:

Post a Comment