20160924 ENJOY YOUR YOUTH RESPONSIBLY
Readings at Mass
Liturgical
Colour: Green.
First reading
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Ecclesiastes
11:9-12:8 ©
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Rejoice in your
youth, you who are young;
let your heart give
you joy in your young days.
Follow the promptings
of your heart
and the desires of
your eyes.
But this you must
know: for all these things God will bring you to judgement.
Cast worry from your
heart,
shield your flesh
from pain.
Yet youth, the age of
dark hair, is vanity. And remember your creator in the days of your youth,
before evil days come and the years approach when you say, ‘These give me no
pleasure’, before sun and light and moon and stars grow dark, and the clouds
return after the rain;
the day when those
who keep the house tremble
and strong men are
bowed;
when the women grind
no longer at the mill,
because day is
darkening at the windows
and the street doors
are shut;
when the sound of the
mill is faint,
when the voice of the
bird is silenced,
and song notes are
stilled,
when to go uphill is
an ordeal
and a walk is
something to dread.
Yet the almond tree
is in flower,
the grasshopper is
heavy with food
and the caper bush
bears its fruit,
while man goes to his
everlasting home. And the mourners are already walking to and fro in the street
before the silver
cord has snapped,
or the golden lamp
been broken,
or the pitcher
shattered at the spring,
or the pulley cracked
at the well,
or before the dust
returns to the earth as it once came from it, and the breath to God who gave
it.
Vanity of
vanities, the Preacher says. All is vanity.
Responsorial
Psalm
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Psalm
89:3-6,12-14,17 ©
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O Lord, you have
been our refuge from one generation to the next.
You turn men back to
dust
and say: ‘Go
back, sons of men.’
To your eyes a
thousand years
are like
yesterday, come and gone,
no more
than a watch in the night.
O Lord, you have
been our refuge from one generation to the next.
You sweep men away
like a dream,
like the
grass which springs up in the morning.
In the morning it
springs up and flowers:
by
evening it withers and fades.
O Lord, you have
been our refuge from one generation to the next.
Make us know the
shortness of our life
that we
may gain wisdom of heart.
Lord, relent! Is your
anger for ever?
Show pity
to your servants.
O Lord, you have
been our refuge from one generation to the next.
In the morning, fill
us with your love;
we shall
exult and rejoice all our days.
Let the favour of the
Lord be upon us:
give
success to the work of our hands.
O Lord, you have
been our refuge from one generation to the next.
Gospel
Acclamation
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cf.Ac16:14
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Alleluia, alleluia!
Open our heart, O
Lord,
to accept the words
of your Son.
Alleluia!
Or
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cf.2Tim1:10
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Alleluia, alleluia!
Our Saviour Jesus
Christ abolished death
and he has proclaimed
life through the Good News.
Alleluia!
Gospel
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Luke 9:43-45 ©
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At a time when
everyone was full of admiration for all he did, Jesus said to his disciples,
‘For your part, you must have these words constantly in your mind: The Son of
Man is going to be handed over into the power of men.’ But they did not
understand him when he said this; it was hidden from them so that they should
not see the meaning of it, and they were afraid to ask him about what he had
just said.
ENJOY
YOUR YOUTH RESPONSIBLY
SCRIPTURE
READINGS: [ ECCLESIASTES 11:9-12:8;
LUKE 9:43-45 ]
One of the best times in
one’s life is certainly youth. It is great to be young! But I
wonder if all young people feel that way. The irony of life is that young
people cannot wait to grow up. They want to behave like adults.
Unfortunately, instead of imitating the good examples of adults, they emulate
all the bad ones! As a result, they waste away their youth, and even
their future.
Conversely, the old are
regretting that they never had a great childhood or enjoyed their life as a
youth. They lament that they missed out the joys, the adventures, the fun
and the thrills of growing up. Most of all, they regret having wasted
away their youth. Instead of making the best of it, they lost golden
opportunities where they could have had fun, growth and happy memories. Now it
is a bit too late to regret because one cannot turn back the clock. As
the author says, “And the mourners are already walking to and fro in the street
before the silver cord has snapped, or the golden lamp been broken, or the
pitcher shattered at the spring, or the pulley cracked at the well, or before
the dust returns to the earth as it once came from it, and the breath to God
who gave it. Vanity of vanities, Qoheleth says. All is vanity.”
Indeed, before the mourners
come, let us as young people live a life of wisdom because life is short.
Before you realize it, you would have grown up, married, and taken up more
responsibilities in life. We are all getting old. No one is getting
younger. Life is short! The prayer of the psalmist should be
ours. “You sweep men away like a dream, like the grass which springs up
in the morning. In the morning it springs up and flowers: by evening it withers
and fades. Make us know the shortness of our life that we may gain wisdom of
heart. Lord, relent! Is your anger for ever?”
We must reckon that however
we live our life now will have an impact on our future and most of all
eternity. So as young people, we must not forget that the way we make use
of the opportunities given to us now will determine our happiness in the
future. So it behooves us to decide how best we wish to live the present.
We must not forget the consequences of our actions here and now. It would
be a big mistake to live our lives frivolously and recklessly as if there is no
tomorrow. If we do that, we will look back with regret. And the
worst word in life is “regret.” So if we do not want to live a life of regret
and despondency, we must ask how can we live our youthful years purposely, with
joy, passion and excitement without getting hurt. How, then, should we
live our days as a youth?
Firstly, young people must
learn to cultivate healthy, loving, faithful and sincere relationships.
Acquaintances are many, real friends are few. Most are fair weather
friends. These are not the real friends in life because when you
need them, they are not there. Finding friends whom we can share our life
is of course a risk, not easy, and often we become vulnerable and get
hurt. Quite often, especially with the opposite sex, we become too
physical in the relationship before we can develop emotional bonds and sharing
of the mind. As a result, we often get played out, hurt and
wounded. Unfortunately, most never learn from the previous
relationships. They plunge immediately into a new relationship, mostly
out of loneliness, emptiness, fear and anger. Not surprisingly, those who do
not find closure from the previous relationship are bound to repeat the same
mistakes over and over again. This is the tragedy of many young people.
But one cannot do without
relationships, either with family, friends or fellow students and colleagues.
We need to build healthy and loving relationships. Life is not all study
and work. For life to be meaningful and rich, we need relationships
because we are created by love, in love and for love. So even whilst
doing our work, activities and studies, we must not isolate ourselves
completely from people, be so absorbed in our career, studies and ambition that
we lose touch with people. Not only will we end up being alone in life
later on but life would be such a chore and a cross. So having fellowship
with good friends and people that you live or work with us is important for
cultivating friendship, mutual understanding and support.
Secondly, whether studying
or starting out in our career, we should acquire as much knowledge, skills and
experience as we can. The time of learning and acquiring new knowledge
and experiences are important for the future. A time will come when we
will be called upon to assume leadership and greater responsibilities. If
we do not try to study as much as we can now, in later years, when we are fully
entrenched in our projects and responsibilities, we will not have the luxury to
read as much. Many young people lack foresight. They want to be in
action and start doing without the knowledge. They do not take their
studies seriously. Later on in life they will realize that they are
handicapped by their lack of knowledge, skills and experience to do their job
or conduct their business well. So a student’s time is not to be wasted
idling away, doing nothing and being non-productive. Indeed, many students
regret when it is time for them to move on after their studies. They will
see the wiser and smarter students who spent time seriously on their studies
graduating and moving up in life, whilst they are left behind. So, youth
is a time of formation.
Thirdly, we must get
involved too. There should be involvement, otherwise what we study and learn
will simply be an intellectual pursuit, good for the ego but useless for
life. So to enjoy life means that we must be involved, especially when we
are called to contribute our talents and services, be it in the church, school
or society. It is when we exercise our talents and put our knowledge into
practice that we grow in understanding and in experience. Better still,
we must use such opportunities to grow our leadership skills. By being
involved in social and church activities, we could sharpen our leadership
skills and hone them further because all these skills will be useful later on
in life.
Most of all, we will feel
useful and contributive to society and that we can make a difference in the
lives of others. This sense of usefulness and being able to contribute to
humanity makes life worth living. At least we know that we are not living
in vain. This is what gives us passion in life. To have passion means to
have love. But it is not just a passion for FI or cars or some
hobby. Passion means love for humanity and for God. When we do things for
others, for God and for society, we are entering into the love and life of
God. This makes our life expansive and more holistic. Those who
live for themselves cannot find life. Indeed, at the end of the day, all
of us, regardless of our vocation or career are called to live for others, for
our loved ones, and beyond, for our society and church and country.
Fourthly, to find life as a
youth we must also take risks and be adventurous, but not recklessly and cause
harm and destruction to ourselves or to others. Risks and adventures we
must take, but calculated risks, because we need to bear in mind that we are not
an island. What we do, whatever happens to us, will impact society,
family and our loved ones; not just ourselves. Young people need to
discover the world for themselves and not be always under the watchful eyes of
parents and guardians. They will make some mistakes but these are part of
the learning curve. We learn more from our mistakes than from our
success.
Finally, we are reminded
that God must be the center of our lives in all things. There will be judgement
here and now on this earth and in the future. We will suffer the
consequences of our follies or reap the rewards of our wisdom. The
author says, “But this you must know: for all these things God will bring you
to judgement. Cast worry from your heart, shield your flesh from pain.”
It is not enough to live just for today, or even tomorrow, but for
eternity. Even Jesus, although successful in His ministry, was always
conscious of the passion awaiting Him. We read that “At a time when
everyone was full of admiration for all he did, Jesus said to his disciples,
‘For your part, you must have these words constantly in your mind: The Son of
Man is going to be handed over into the power of men’.”
So let us take the advice
of the Preacher seriously. Let us enjoy our life of youth in a
responsible way. We must not desire to grow up too quickly but go
according to the pace of creation. But at every stage of the journey and
in everything, whether studying, working, in relationships, social and voluntary
services, let us enjoy life as a whole and not isolate one from the rest.
We must live a balanced life. Focusing exclusively on one without seeing
the others in perspective will lead to a life of misery. Of course, the
weightage for all the different dimensions of life cannot be the same.
When young, the focus is on study rather than on relationships, but none is
excluded because all aspects of life are meant to help us grow holistically.
When we live this way, we will not end up saying, “Yet youth, the age of dark
hair, is vanity. And remember your creator in the days of your youth, before
evil days come and the years approach when you say, ‘These give me no
pleasure.’” So just take every stage of life’s journey as it comes,
with its joys and woes, struggles and triumphs. But don’t squander your
future away! And we won’t if we live fully here and now and responsibly.
Written
by The Most Rev William Goh Roman Catholic Archbishop of Singapore © All Rights
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